Hello, can I ask for some input? I was with a close friend yesterday and got to talking about her failed relationship and lack of success on dating apps and how lonely she feels. She mentioned in a casual sort of way, that she would be tempted to end her life if not for her daughter. When we discussed it, she said that it seems logical to her to end her life when her daughter leaves home, and that there is no other reason for her to be here. She is lonely and tired of her life.
I have recently lost a family member to suicide and became very panicked and upset, which maybe was not the best response but I couldn't help it. I tried very hard not to ask her to promise me she wouldn't kill herself but possibly I came close to it. We both got very upset during the conversation.
I don't believe she is likely to do anything drastic right now, but I didn't believe my family member was suicidal until he committed suicide.
What is the best thing to do here? I am aware that people do experience these feelings without acting on them, and also that my feelings around this issue right now are high. What would you do if you were me? And if you have ever discussed these sorts of things with a friend, what did you hope would happen?
Thank you