if you change one thing about yourself not looks related what would it be?

[blancobunny]

i'll go first - my terrible terrible full throttle cockney/ essex accent. I hate it and feel very self conscious of the way i sound.
i could have elocution lessons i suppose but it's probably too late for that!!

I hold a grudge! For years! I don’t like to, but can’t help it!

I would like to be more outgoing person, keeping up my social life comes with a lot of effort to me.

I would be less lazy/less of a procrastinator

Or I would be able to chat to people easily

The sound of my voice.

I wish I was better at maths

Health anxiety. Learned from my mother - as it now obvious to me - although never an issue until a couple of events in my 20s with wrong diagnosis (for me, less serious, but also a family member who ended up dying v young due to medical failure to spot cancer until too late). That triggered it and now I'm a parent it's so hard despite therapy. Every toddler fever takes three days of my life in a horrible spiral.
I can rationalise it, I know it's just my mind, but it's exhausting. I hate it. I wish I could be free of it.

I'd like more energy.

Same !

Anxiety! My crippling anxiety developed around my late teens so I can remember what it was like not feeling this way and it makes me so sad and angry I can’t seem to get back there.

Wouldn't be such a mug

Procrastination. I could have a richer and more fulfilled life without it.

Thanks, I will! 😁

My irritability 😕

I would ditch the autism which has blighted my entire life - education, employment, friendships, relationships, my crippling fear of social situations, the way I behave, act, perceive things, view myself as being 'odd' and not someone people wish to get to know.

Oh for a magic wand!

My fondness for self-sabotage and ghosting opportunities I've worked hard to create - I'm the master of snatching defeat from the jaws of victory!
Also I'd love to have a fabulous singing voice and be an awesome endurance athlete

I'd get rid of my autism.

My chronic back and neck pain. Op my most favourite accent is the cockney one 😀

I wish I'd had nicer parents. I don't mean perfect, I just mean kinder.

My eyesight. This is definitely not looks related, but I hate having terrible eyesight.

My health. I would be independent and free.

Being 'a cryer' - I get angry, upset, happy, you name it - I cry. And I go pink too so not a beautiful cryer 😪

Adhd. It's fun but hard work being so erratic.

Lack of focus, procrastination, impulse control..

I’d be able to assert myself on the spot Instead of realising 12 hours later that someone was taking the piss

My anxiety