Anyone got the ick years into a relationship?

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My DP of 14 years gives me the ick for a host of reasons now. The worst is when he won't do things with the toddler and openly admits it's because he doesn't want to.

Yes. Husband of 15 years. He changed so much from the fun, kind person I thought I'd married. In hindsight I think he probably had long term depression. Even our teenagers were relieved when we split up.