For my first Dd I had no clue
Thought it would be cosy days relaxing feeding at home naps when she napped
Instead we fled when her father decided he didn't like us any longer and attacked us both one morning (we were both v badly injured)
Cue escape
Hiding
Refuge and months of moving between houses
Back to work when she was 6 months old 🤦🏼♀️👎👎
Baby no 2
3 days mat leave
Back to work on the Monday ( two hours a day but still)
She was another dream baby
Slept so well
Sadly my family went through some v v sad times so was there with them to help out
Again so so different to how we imagined it would be