My husband and I have been together 10 years have 4 children and generally get on really well except when it comes to sex. To me it feels like the only thing he cares about is sex and having a BJ. It really annoys me that he starts a fight about it all the time and tells me we're growing apart because he doesn't get it enough. We're both in our mid 40s and I have to admit with a young family and work I'm just not really that interested in sex and especially when it feels like all he cares about. It's not like he wants passion or romance just the deed done and then back to the TV. He makes me feel unreasonable for not just putting out!