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Sueretiredawhileago · 15/09/2023 17:36

And (although clearly I am not on the breadline and understand how lucky I am compared to others) I have very little spare money. I am a single (co) parent and I live in London so mortgage is a lot. I used to have loads spare and felt ‘well off’ but now I’ve had to cut down on all the little spending I once never gave a thought to. No quick coffees, pastries for breakfast, no brunches, no magazines, new lipsticks etc etc.

If I can’t afford these things I don’t understand how ‘they’ keep saying that consumer spending is still strong and driving inflation. Who the hell has the spare money??!!!

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Againstmachine · 21/09/2023 22:49

Sueretiredawhileago · 21/09/2023 21:14

*It is of course more than enough to live on. But not if you are in debt, have monthly mortgage payments that are more than 25% your monthly income, pay for childcare or pay loads commuting every day.

Everything else can be cut out including cars, private school fees, coffees every day, excessive shopping bills and eating out, holidays etc etc.

They are all choices. And you can, and should, live without them*

yes mum

Qntld this is why people treat you as a joke moaning your arse off.

Sueretiredawhileago · 22/09/2023 10:12

@Againstmachine sure! Except I’ve done no moaning. You’ve just not understood my question in my original post. Don’t worry about it.

anyway, from the news yesterday, it seems the economy is being quite severely hit now and they’re worried about a recession. So I guess more people like me are buying less coffees now!

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TrashedSofa · 22/09/2023 10:26

Sueretiredawhileago · 22/09/2023 10:12

@Againstmachine sure! Except I’ve done no moaning. You’ve just not understood my question in my original post. Don’t worry about it.

anyway, from the news yesterday, it seems the economy is being quite severely hit now and they’re worried about a recession. So I guess more people like me are buying less coffees now!

Which is a big problem. The discretionary spending of those with more disposable income (and that's not necessarily those with the highest incomes either) is other people's jobs.

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SunshineHello · 22/09/2023 10:31

@Sueretiredawhileago I agree but you won’t get much ‘symapthy’ on here.

£81,000 is £4,064 a month after tax.

It costs me that much a month to have two in nursery.

I can appreciate why as a single parent in London things feel tight.

It’s crazy though.

Drudgeryofthissocalledlife · 03/03/2024 15:58

Dguu6u · 15/09/2023 17:59

Another OP bragging about how much they earn and then crying that they don't have any spare money because they spend it all on what is out of reach for most people (like owning a nice house in London)

Even on 81k....the likely mortgage on that income would be £324k with a 10% deposit- gives you £356k home, which is more likely a one bed flat in somewhere a bit shit in London zone 4. If you want a two bed somewhere in London... on that, it aint going to be a nice home, unfortunately.

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