Regular poster but name changed with problem that has plagued me for years but is getting worse.
I wasn’t sure where to put this as it’s not actually a sex problem itself so I put it in chat.
My issue is something I have suffered with for 20plus years - or as long as I have been sexually active- but I get extreme irritability and restlessness immediately after sex/orgasm. It’s a bit like the feeling you get with restless legs, but it affects my whole body and is just awful. It lasts for 2 or more hours after an orgasm and is absolutely horrible. Everytime it happens I vow never to have an orgasm again because it’s just not worth it.
I initially thought it was something that happened to everyone but then I realised that it seems to not be. I was always amazed when people said they feel relaxed after sex and want to go to sleep because I feel the opposite. It is such an awful feeling that I now actively avoid sex, relationships and even masturbation.
The more I chat to close friends about it, the more I realise that this isn’t a normal feeling to have.
Does anyone know why this happens and does anyone suffer from the same?
I feel so angry, irritable and restless after sex that I can’t stand to be around anybody.
help.