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Where in GB would you live?

109 replies

LifeInTheUK · 11/09/2023 17:55

For various reasons, I’m going to soon be able to move away from where I live (which I never settled in).
I can move anywhere within GB and I’d like somewhere

  • Not isolated
  • With a vibrant life (thinking museums, talks, cafes, yoga etc…rather than going out)
  • Good links to various towns (two dcs who live in two different town in the North of England)
  • Not crazily expensive to buy (yes I know I’m asking for the golden goose)
Where would you go?
OP posts:
Barbiesback · 12/09/2023 08:05

Adel.

rumred · 12/09/2023 08:07

Another vote for Shipley Baildon Bingley Saltaire. Absolutely beautiful, great for culture of alsorts, down to earth and friendly. Leeds is not my cup of tea but it really depends on what sort of person you are. I enjoy the real sense of community around Bradford and the stunning green spaces. It's not for everyone though.

Cowlover89 · 12/09/2023 08:09

MardyMcBlowdry · 12/09/2023 07:43

Dundee. Driest city in the UK, has had loads of regeneration in the last 10 years, on the main east coast rail line (Aberdeen one hour north and Edinburgh 1 hour south), and has two universities. It's also got the new V&A, which is magnificent and is surrounded by lots of beautiful countryside.

Dundee isn't the driest city in the UK

Mountainsandlakes · 12/09/2023 08:19

A bit left field OP, but how about Pitlochry? It's a lovely, thriving town and well connected by road and rail. It's cold in winter mind you!

1dayatatime · 12/09/2023 09:55

Leeds
York
Durham
Hexham

Personally I would go for Hexham but for a older city feel then York, for a younger city feel then Leeds with Durham a bit of all of the above.

Gwenhwyfar · 12/09/2023 13:18

Pieceofpurplesky · 11/09/2023 23:29

Boring? Really.
I am never bored as there is so much to do. The city is so beautiful that just walking around it is fabulous. And so much to do locally other than visit Manchester or Liverpool.

I guess I just like the simple things in life. And good food, gin and wine!

OK, well I'm looking for more than just walking around. Nice on holiday, you can visit the cathedral or take a boat on the river. Zoo is good, but not many museums.

Gwenhwyfar · 12/09/2023 13:20

Time40 · 12/09/2023 08:03

Liverpool is wonderful. Central too. Easy to get to motorways and airports. The friendliest people and beautiful architecture

That's all true. Liverpool is the friendliest place I have ever been in the UK.

Chester has had a few votes ... it's nice in the daytime, but my god, the weekend nights are awful - absolutely packed out with people, lots of them rolling drunk, police vans out ... going for a walk around Chester after dark is certainly an experience.

Liverpool has much more to do than Chester, but I think you can get a cold wind from the port.

TotalOverhaul · 12/09/2023 13:33

LifeInTheUK · 11/09/2023 19:42

I’m not living that far away and I find it depressing 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️

Bit baffled at you finding Newcastle depressing. Of all adjectives, I'd never have landed on that one. The city centre is full of beautiful Georgian golden sandstone buildings, the RSC perform a season there every year, as well as it having a good rep and small theatre companies, and gateshead sage for music. Jesmond Dene is a magical river valley park with waterfalls and ruins. There are several art galleries and museums. famous bands and comedians always visit. There's the Lit & Phil for talks and a thriving literary scene, two unis, long sandy beaches 10 minutes drive away and stunning hiking inland.

worriedatwork123 · 12/09/2023 13:41

Market Harborough - lovely bustling town, close to leicester for lots of theatre, music and diversity, nice countryside

good transport both to london and north

CheshireCat1 · 12/09/2023 13:47

Liverpool or Carlisle.

Blingstar · 12/09/2023 13:49

What's your housing budget and what do you hope to get for it?

Edinburgh is lovely but expensive. A 2 bed near city centre flat will be at least 250/300k plus. Housing way more.

hittingtheshelves · 12/09/2023 13:49

Easy. Hexham.
Loads going on, cheap, great pubs, good transport links, lots of culture, amazing countryside.

BitOutOfPractice · 12/09/2023 13:54

How interesting that absolutely everywhere that's been suggested is in the north of England or Scotland. I'm not disagreeing by the way, as I think the quality of life is much better there than in the south.

Bristol often gets mentioned on threads like these but I have no experience to back that suggestion up.

I live in a small city in the south east that I love living in (city centre) but I'm not sure it has enough going on for what you want OP.

NotFastButFurious · 12/09/2023 13:58

North Berwick or Dunbar might suit and both are a short train ride from Edinburgh but house prices are on a par which Edinburgh (which I’d class as expensive)

ManuelBensonsLeftBoot · 12/09/2023 15:12

@TotalOverhaul
I'm a regular visitor but haven't lived in Newcastle since my uni days in the 90's but I've always found it to be vibrant and friendly. It never seemed to wallow in its industrial decline (unlike many northern cities/towns) and retained a thriving centre and healthy going out culture. It's not all tacky Bigg Market bars there is theatre, indy cinema, museums, galleries and loads or live music. It has a few grotty areas but everywhere does even 'up market' cities have their run down parts.

YewTree84 · 12/09/2023 15:20

LifeInTheUK · 11/09/2023 18:24

Oh I had never heard of Todmorden. I’ll have a look.

My DH makes me laugh, his sister lives there and he hates going. Says it's full of workshy freeloaders. I think it's a bit bleak, you can certainly find a nicer place.

Colinswheels · 12/09/2023 15:25

Glasgow has everything you are looking for. Much cheaper than Edinburgh but you can get there on the train in less than an hour if you want to visit. The West End in particular is a lovely place to live. Edinburgh is lovely too but expensive as PP have said.

Thebigblueballoon · 12/09/2023 15:28

The outskirts of Edinburgh - East Lothian or Midlothian.

TheTurn0fTheScrew · 12/09/2023 15:45

If I had my time again (and perhaps when the children have left) I’d seriously consider the Wirral. Lovely beaches, very easy hop to Liverpool and Chester (and Manchester also very doable). Housing seems reasonably priced. Easy access to the motorways and not far from West Coast Mainline stations.

LifeInTheUK · 12/09/2023 16:08

Thank you.
All really helpful.
And yes it’s interesting how most of tte places mentioned are the north of England….

I was somehow expecting places such as bristol, Manchester, Cambridge etc… so it’s a bit if a surprise to not see any of them here.

So far my favourite places are York and Edinburgh Wo a doubt.
i had a very quick look at fiats and I could but but a 2 bed flat in both places. Maybe not quite in the centre for Edinburgh but yes all doable.

OP posts:
uncomfortablydumb53 · 12/09/2023 16:21

If you'd like to consider the SW
Salisbury Wiltshire might fit your criteria

Dogonthebeach · 12/09/2023 17:16

I lived in Cambridge. Personally it wasn’t for me. Beautiful city but felt academic if that makes sense. Plus it’s expensive.

Toddlerteaplease · 12/09/2023 17:16

Liverpool

Yokaiwatch · 12/09/2023 17:23

Darlington?

Yokaiwatch · 12/09/2023 17:26

Or Stirling?