How many of you have done this? I did recently and it really helped me put some things about my ex's behaviour into context and to realise that it wasn't really me it's just kind of the way he is in his relationships i.e. not very good really.
It happened organically and his ex was lovely but I can imagine that it wouldn't always work out. A friend of mine also met her ex's ex he had also been horribly abusive to her and I think talking to her was really healing for my friend and they ending up staying in touch.
Has anyone done this, should it be a thing?