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DC officer came knocking this afternoon....

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Owlyhedgehog · 29/08/2023 23:00

I feel so anxious.
My 16 yr old has a case against her ex BF who sexually assaulted her when she was 14. She kept it quiet and I only found out in December when she disclosed to me.
Its been on going. She has a message that he admits to raping her. I cant deal with this.
Today the DC emailed DD and said she has an update, she didnt tell me and didnt answer her phonecall. DC turned up at our house at 4.45pm, we weren't in.
She is coming at 9.30am tomorrow. I feel like she is coming to support and say its not going any further. So stressed!

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SquirrelFeeder · 29/08/2023 23:21

No advice but posting to give strength, support & a handhold. Just stand by your DD and fight all you need to. I wish I could help more but I honestly don't know what else you can do 🤍🙏

Owlyhedgehog · 29/08/2023 23:24

Its been going on since December, I want it all to go away, ive been so stressed, I dont have much support.

Thank you x

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Someoneonlyyouknow · 29/08/2023 23:43

Very difficult for you both. Your DD has probably kept it from you to save you from worrying. And is trying to ignore it to make it all go away. Are you more worried that the case will proceed or that it will be dropped?

Ratfinkstinkypink · 30/08/2023 07:29

I hope you get through today ok, what an amazing daughter you have raised.

Owlyhedgehog · 30/08/2023 21:41

Thankfully this is over. The DC said no further action is being taken.
The EX bf has a case against her several months after her case for mallicous comms, lets hope this gets closed down too.
Thank you all for you replies. x

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