Want to start by saying I realise I am overthinking and I know nobody can give a definitive answer. But I do need to type this out to get it out my head.
We have lived in our house the past 13 years. In that time 4 different families have lived in the house next door (we're in a pretty standard English semi detached house).
Three of them have been difficult in different ways.
The first family were really lovely and a joy to live next door to. The second were drug dealers and frankly dangerous but thankfully only stayed for 6 months before moving on.
The third were horrible. Loud, violent (with each other- not with us), partied most nights and then left without telling anyone. They left the house in a horrid state.
Fourth family have actually been nice but they are also incredibly loud to live next door to. They have frequently done DIY until well past midnight, have big parties that last until 4/5am (especially when Liverpool are playing!) and their telly is always super loud. BUT other than that they've been friendly, helpful, kind and decent.
They have just sold the house and now I'm worrying about who is going to move in now. I really hope they're not going to be another noisy, party household. I just want someone peaceful who doesn't hammer and drill to all hours etc. But I'm conscious people these days seem to buy houses then tear out everything in them to start everything new which seems mad.
I know it prob sounds silly. I am autistic though so this is why it's worrying me and why the noise bothers me.
I get that people are allowed to live their lives etc, but it would be nice if for once I got to live mine without having to tolerate loudness.
Anyway, no reply needed really but thanku for letting me get that out!