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Feeling worthless

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DoneWithHer · 21/08/2023 00:10

What is one to do when they feel entirely worthless? Job has proven I'm meerly a number and they don't give a fuck about the person behind the hours being done, relationship isn't far behind, I'm the last my family think of.... Just feel entirely worthless to everyone in my life! What's the point.....

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Cakeandcoffee93 · 21/08/2023 00:11

What do you love about your life?
what makes you happy?
you need a new job.
you need a new life list- a new outlook
remember your a boss bitch and you got this

DoneWithHer · 21/08/2023 00:21

Cakeandcoffee93 · 21/08/2023 00:11

What do you love about your life?
what makes you happy?
you need a new job.
you need a new life list- a new outlook
remember your a boss bitch and you got this

I'm qualified in one specific area, I'm not sure how to change job. Sometimes I do have that "boss bitch" feeling but tonight I feel so worthless. There's no other word for it just entirely worthless! Appreciate the reply

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ABeesWings · 21/08/2023 02:34

Has something specific happened to trigger the feeling?
I understand the feeling - undervalued and under appreciated.

Nicecupofteaforthree · 21/08/2023 04:41

I just know I'm nothing. I wander through life being nice to people and hope they will be nice back.

ABeesWings · 21/08/2023 14:50

That doesn’t make you nothing, that makes you a nice person surrounded by the wrong people if they don’t reciprocate.
Are you in a position to change your surroundings? Could you change jobs? Move house? Start again somewhere else?

Nicecupofteaforthree · 21/08/2023 15:05

I know I am nothing; there isn't a lot I can do about it. Moving would make me even more of a nothing, as even less people would know me. 'Tis fine. We can't all be something.

ABeesWings · 21/08/2023 15:32

@Nicecupofteaforthree moving somewhere else you might find people who value you.
You sound stuck in a rut and defeated. You deserve better. I think it’s true that you need to value yourself first and foremost. If people don’t treat you kindly, be kind to yourself. Don’t accept the feeling of nothingness. You are deserving of acceptance and happiness as much as anyone else is.
Is this a new feeling or have you always felt this way?

Nicecupofteaforthree · 24/08/2023 13:40

Spent a long time thinking about an apropriate answer. I'm still alive, so I am winning. I don't ask for any
more than that.

Littlestminnow · 07/05/2024 19:12

How are you, @DoneWithHer ? Are things any easier?

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