Anxiety

[Jessican]

Hi everyone this is a really bad topic but here goes
I’ve just got a shower at my mums house when I noticed someone recording me through the door and this has really scared me the only person who was upstairs was my sisters boyfriend, I spoke to my sister about it and she said it defiantly wasn’t him and that she thinks the house is haunted and now im so scared that im seeing things or im going crazy and I need advice because im really shaken up and im 28 weeks pregnant as well like is something wrong with me am I really seeing things like that

Sorry Op sounds horrible.

Are you absolutely certain? Was the door open or through a crack?

I would have a word with her boyfriend but start the conversation with ‘I saw you filming me’ and see his reaction.

I would ignore about the house being haunted..

The door was open yeah but only a little but enough I didn’t feel like I’d have to fully shut the door with it being my parents house I saw the Snapchat logo on the phone flashing as it does when you record on Snapchat, I’ve lived in that house for 19 years and never felt so scared about something ever and now i feel like everyone’s trying to say im seeing things and stuff and it’s making me very paranoid

It is definitely not a haunting, who has ever heard of a ghost recording someone?
It is odd though.

Maybe it was your sister's boyfriend. She's bound to say he didn't do it but did she say he was with her all the time you were in the shower?

Presumably, you'll be going home soon and will feel safer there. I'm sorry you have been unnerved, I would have too. It's just not fair.

@LBFseBrom no she was downstairs with my son so wasn’t upstairs at all no one was, and it didn’t happen once either it happened twice the second time I started crying and shouted of my sister to come upstairs just to feel safer I’m so shaken up I am at my house now but I’m scared I’m actually going crazy because she’s tried to convince me I’ve seen things

I just think it’s ridiculous that you were seeing things when there’s a logical explanation which is that it’s the sisters bf…

She won’t want to think he would have done it. But if you were showering with the door open and saw the Snapchat thing then he must of. Can you ask to see his Snapchat (I know it disappears but maybe check if he sent messages to mates at that time/anything in the photo save history?)

@Bonniethewestiei didn’t think of asking that tbh as soon as I seen it I got out the shower and left the house as I was so shaken up it’s bad wanting to record someone in the shower but recording someone who’s pregnant is just so weird and he’s younger than me which makes me feel even more sick about the whole thing the only reason I can think of what he had to record me is that he has an only fans account but then why would he record me to use on that and then my family trying to defend him as well