Everything DH does annoys me

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We are in a really rough patch anyway but I just find him exhausting.

Still doesn't know how our car seats work. 5 years in.

Packed a picnic for a day out today, got leftover bbq stuff from the fridge but just packed it all as it was, massive ceramic bowls of salad, no plates.

Just got in from a bike ride and got changed. Took me to say 'are u actually going to shower and wash your hair?' before he did it.

We have bugger issues anyway but fuck me the little things grind me down.

He's a grown man he doesn't need you to tell him to get a shower and wash his hair, you're not his mummy.
Are you considering splitting up if he makes you this miserable?

I've just changed the bed. Also he will want to cuddle etc. I have explained time and time again that poor personal hygiene is a turn off for me.

Yes I am very much considering that, but we have 2 small kids and I'm not confident in my decision yet

Maybe you have the ick as it's known on here? Perhaps you need some sort of relationships counselling? I'm only suggesting that because I'd still hold and hug my dh if he wanted one regardless of whether he's showered or not.