Some people will have read my recent threads under a couple of different names. So this may make sense to a few people but not others.
It was to do with my 16 year old being aggressive and violent towards me. Anyway things came to a head and we had to get help from social services. But the social worker was not helpful and actually made things worse we were more tense and stressed than we were before we asked for help. Also the fucus was to much on the other children even though in meetings it was confirmed there were no concerns for the younger children.
Anyway I put my concerns over to the manager. And she's actually decided to close the case for the younger kids. And just keep CIN open for the 16 year old so the focus should be more on him. So hopefully things will get better.
I think it will take time abd there will be some set backs along the way. But im really hoping things get better from now.
Some positive stuff from ds. He gave his 13 year old sister a mouse and keyboard. Last night they both played xbox together in the same room for a good couple of hours. They have managed to share xbox game pass with no arguments.
To day everyone has been playing in the pool . It's been a lovely day 7 kids in the pool and not one argument.
His tone towards me seems better. I don't 100% trust it but I'm going with it.
Theses seem like small things but they are massive to us. And I feel like a weight has been lifted. I'm just glad we are heading for the right road.