Feeling a bit like a dirty old women

[feelingshamefull]

Ok, I'm 40, married and have two kids ( under 6 ) just setting the scene.

Sometimes I go to a playgroup/donation centre during the holidays and today we went and there is this guy/lad/boy who's helping out and he can't be anymore than 20.

I couldn't take my eyes off him. Since coming home I've been having very naughty thoughts. I'm feeling really embarrassed writing this because he's half my age and old enough to be my son, I've also name changed but I'm cringing.

I don't think it's appropriate and if it was a man saying this about a young girl I would be the first to say I don't think it's ok.

I don't really know why I'm writing it his. I guess I just need to see what others think on this.

I really don’t think it matters! It’s not like anything is going to happen, and he’s not a child.

Thank you for your reply @

I'm just feeling really weird about it all and I can't stop thinking about him. He was there last year and he helped me with my pram. I remember thinking he's cute.

Roll on a year, he's beefed up a bit and he's left me feeling sensations I've not felt in years.

Oh, you again!

are you the perv from last night’s thread?

No.

Yeah, I’ve seen a couple of these recently 🤔.

I know people can post whatever they like but what is the point here? You fancy an attractive very young man. So what? Unless you plan to chat him up/make a move, it's only your own thoughts. Thinking is hardly a crime.

I just feel a bit seedy by these thoughts. Obviously my problem I guess.

The point is probably to get other posters to write about how they fantasise about younger men.

OP is correct saying that if the roles were reversed and she was a man having secret naughty thoughts about an attractive young woman there would be absolute carnage here on mumsnet.
However, we all have private thoughts and fantasies, and as long as they stay private, nobody is harmed.
Just don't burst in and tell him you want to rip his clothes off OP 🤣🤣

As if she is going to admit it, and say "Yes! It's me the perv" 😂

Meh, it's fine, we're all allowed fantasies.

I may have saved to my favourites several slow mo videos of Agent Pena aka Pedro Pascal in his Narcos sex scenes. I may or may not watch it every day.

This again 🙄

I don't think it's wrong to have thoughts as long as you don't act on them. If you were being flirty or leery with him I'd think ugh. But as long as it's just thoughts don't worry too much.

Well it’s the same shtick as some post that was put up last night. That lasted ten minutes too.

Plus nobody aged 40 thinks of themselves as an “old women”.

Agree with @WunWun 100%

Oh do bore off 🙄

I just wish people could spell things correctly.

"Feeling a bit like a dirty old women" 🙄

It's human nature to appreciate attractive people, as long as it stays in your head then I don't see any problem with it.

'As if she is going to admit it, and say "Yes! It's me the perv"'

Iiiiiits me, hooray!

I'm really not the person from the other thread although I have read it now.

I don't find the young ones hot in general but I have got a thing for Harry Styles as of late.