Just saw the other thread and I also have a song I’ve been trying to remember for ages!
its sung by a man about a girl and the theme is that he wants her to be the girl he knows she can be, somethings gone wrong in their relationship, she’s not herself and he’s pleading with her to be herself again as it’s harming their relationship. It’s quite slow and soulful and I think it would be about 6-10 years old.