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So I’m English and I’m on holiday in Scotland. How much is everyone secretly hating me?

113 replies

AreWeHated · 15/07/2023 20:50

I’m in a small town in Scotland on holiday. I’m from the north of England. Everyone has been very polite and welcoming.

But, tell me the truth, how much secret hostility is there?

OP posts:
Highlandhome · 15/07/2023 21:45

We've our fair share of idiots, like everywhere else does.
Our fair share of folk with a view at either extreme of a spectrum.
Our fair share of folk who can't see past their own opinion, and deem everyone else in some way "wrong".
Our fair share of folk who (perhaps reasonably) have an issue with the political establishment, but more unreasonably tar everyone with the same brush.

But most of us are decent judges of character and can see past stereoptypes.

Rosesroseseverywhere · 15/07/2023 21:45

CallMeDiaz · 15/07/2023 21:33

This thread is really fucking offensive, as if we're all parochial imbeciles who have never met an outsider.

This.

Honestly I despair sometimes.

RachelNoire · 15/07/2023 21:46

Tempting as it is to get a jibe in about the Scots Nats and their anti English sentiment, why are you even thinking about this whilst you are on holiday?

the majority of Scottish people voted to stay in the UK, tourism from England is big and welcome business, most Scots are friendly and welcoming to visitors so why the goady and insulting post? Confused

Fredblog · 15/07/2023 21:46

Honestly I don't think English people realise that they are not liked by Scots (I am English btw)

albapunk · 15/07/2023 21:47

AreWeHated · 15/07/2023 20:59

I absolutely 100% do not align myself with any of that Westminster shit @albapunk I’m an unapologetic leftie from the English “provinces” that have been shafted by the tories as much as Scotland. I hope I come across just like that 🤷‍♀️

Then enjoy our world-reknownworld friendliness, grab a dram and a pizza crunch and enjoy!

Rosesroseseverywhere · 15/07/2023 21:47

And @AreWeHated you may not think you're being goady - but you most definitely are

midsomermurderess · 15/07/2023 21:47

I think the question is, how pissed are you.

Chasingadvice · 15/07/2023 21:48

GoFaster83 · 15/07/2023 20:57

We hate wankers. We like everyone else. Bonus points if you have a dog with you.

🥱🙄

Torven · 15/07/2023 21:48

Fredblog · 15/07/2023 21:46

Honestly I don't think English people realise that they are not liked by Scots (I am English btw)

Agree. Probably a good thing.

Torven · 15/07/2023 21:50

Exhibit A - "Ah don't hate the English. They're just wankers. We are colonised by wankers. We can't even pick a decent, vibrant, healthy culture to be colonised by."

xsquared · 15/07/2023 21:50

We go to Scotland every year and it's not even occurred to me whether there was any sort of hostility towards us because we're on the other side of the border.

I'd say none, unless you were behaving obnoxiously.

CallMeDiaz · 15/07/2023 21:50

Fredblog · 15/07/2023 21:46

Honestly I don't think English people realise that they are not liked by Scots (I am English btw)

We don't dislike random English punters. It's the democracy gap and that fact that the English electorate obliterates our vote so that we've been stuck with a Tory government for 13 years that grates.

SirKurtBored · 15/07/2023 21:51

Nobody hates you! Some of us even marry our Englishmen 😂

Malarandras · 15/07/2023 21:51

I am Scottish and I can honestly say I hate all people equally.

In all seriousness though, no Scottish people don’t hate the English. Stop drinking booze and get yourself some ginger. Definitely a proper morning roll and square sausage in the morning to sort your hangover. Then get over yourself and enjoy your holiday!

LittleBumblebee3 · 15/07/2023 21:54

GoFaster83 · 15/07/2023 20:57

We hate wankers. We like everyone else. Bonus points if you have a dog with you.

@GoFaster83 has said it all 👏🏼🤣

@AreWeHated Borderline offensive that you think we might all secretly hate everyone! We’re a really friendly bunch. We even accept your bank notes 😉😁 not like us visiting your lot 😂 If you ever experienced more than friendly banter here then I’d be quite shocked tbh!

Be brave and tell us where you’re visiting though and we’ll tell you for sure 😁

calmdoon · 15/07/2023 21:54

Scottish here. If you weren’t liked believe me you’d know. We would make it clear regardless if you’re English or not.

TimeToMoveIt · 15/07/2023 21:57

I thought it was just Cornwall where we aren't welcome after all the threads during covid 🤣

Doidontimmm · 15/07/2023 22:02

Of course we support anyone playing England at football- it’s the law in Scotland 😂but zero it’s just banter!

Mrsjayy · 15/07/2023 22:08

Fredblog · 15/07/2023 21:46

Honestly I don't think English people realise that they are not liked by Scots (I am English btw)

I can honestly say I've never randomly hated an English person,and definitely not a tourist.

Mrsjayy · 15/07/2023 22:09

TimeToMoveIt · 15/07/2023 21:57

I thought it was just Cornwall where we aren't welcome after all the threads during covid 🤣

I don't think the cornish like anybody 😃

ssd · 15/07/2023 22:26

Why would we hate you? Dont be daft.

gogomoto · 15/07/2023 22:26

I once have I encountered unfriendliness and that was from drunk locals in aviemore in a pub (we had unwittingly sat at their usual table an hour before they came in, were half way through eating and they sat at our table ( there were empty tables) grabbed extra seats to crowd us more then took chips off my plate, asking them to (Politely) go away didn't work, I called over to the bar staff to help who refused. We left without finishing our food and didn't pay our food bill - left a stinking review on Tripadvisor too which the owner tried to have removed and failed. Intimidating or what! But every other person we met was lovely

ssd · 15/07/2023 22:29

Oh, and if you're called a c**t in Glasgow, don't worry. Its a term of endearment.

Newname211 · 15/07/2023 22:32

GotMooMilk · 15/07/2023 20:53

Don’t be ridiculous. I’ve been to different parts of Scotland and everyone has always been lovely. I think they hate dickheads rather than the British in general. If youre a respectful visitor the Scottish are excellent hosts!

🙄🙄🙄 unless you do shite like this and use the word British when you mean English, obv.

toochesterdraws · 15/07/2023 22:45

Hiddenvoice · 15/07/2023 21:27

Scottish here with Welsh and English family. One of my parents is welsh and always been very welcomed, as have my family when they’ve visited. I’d be embarrassed for them if they felt any hostility.
I think I’d feel like most other Scottish people saying we have no problem with any tourists, especially English people, as long as they weren’t being rude.

I have found myself at the blunt end of some very rude people in England who still like to joke and ask questions about Scotland having electricity and refusing to take my cash. Wouldn’t hold it against England though and would just blame ignorant individuals.

Refusing to take your cash isn't personal. It is just that in some areas of England people don't often come across Scottish notes very often, so they don't know how to spot dodgy ones. In our small (rural, home counties) town a couple of years ago there was a spate of forged Scottish notes doing the rounds and several local businesses only found out when they tried to bank them. Because of that, they decided not to accept them any more.

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