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How does the BBC get out of the presenter mess?

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mids2019 · 11/07/2023 07:13

Seriously how does the BBC now go forward and what can be the conclusion to this story? The story could run for some time with on going speculation about the presenter and eventually in my opinion a name will drop.

Can there therefore be any sort of fair investigation because I think there may be too much aspirational damage now for a career to be as ed. It seems the knives the BBC sit on this the more scrutiny there is and they desperately need a conclusion?

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x2boys · 11/07/2023 09:14

Countdowntowinter · 11/07/2023 09:08

Some gay men get married, maybe for their image, they want a family but prefer the same sex. Just because someone is with a female doesn't mean they are straight....Elton John married a female, Freddie Mercury - had a long relationship that was sexual at the start with a female, Phil Schofield, married with kids, etc etc

Also look.at age of both phiiip.schofield and the alleged.presenter in question
I would like to.think in the this day and age people can be more open about their true sexuality,and not fear any retribution and certainly there are presenters who are open about their sexuality
But this wasn't the case when both Philip schofield,and the alleged presenter were starting their careers .

AdamRyan · 11/07/2023 09:14

SmartHome · 11/07/2023 08:03

If people's private lives involve illicit sexual contact with vulnerable young people while their adult spouses are unaware then I'm all for it. Keeping it quiet is how they get away with it and why we have abominations like OF. And I'm talking about all 3 men here

It's fairly normal for young people to think I'm in control here, I've got the power. I'm using these pervs to get money and laughing at them behind their backs, why shouldn't I when they're so pathetic and just see me as a sex object. I was the same as a student.

Unfortunately, there more to it than that, as this case shows if true (enabling a drug addiction) and they don't necessarily see the harm caused to their lives, self esteem and psyches atvthe time that this kind of sex work involves. many older ex-prostitutes will attest to this. Up until recently, the punters got off unscathed. If the Sun changes that by bringing sunlight, whatever their own questionable motives, then I'm personally all for it.

Exactly

FloorWipes · 11/07/2023 09:16

Thearseyone · 11/07/2023 08:42

What an aappalling post. The mother and father have received no money and are disgusted by his actions, the BBC’s and want the money to stop as this kid is a crack addict. I’d do the same and more, I’d be out there with a fucking placard.

How is it appalling though. It seems to me that making this all so public is a cruel thing to do to their child, with a variety of potentially terrible consequences for them. The young person hasn’t consented to being part of this circus. Whatever the relationship was like before, I can’t imagine the relationship with the parents ever resuming happily after a move like that.

Wheresthebeach · 11/07/2023 09:19

Feels very similar to Scofield - denials by the young person, lots of pressure to keep quiet and not 'ruin' everyone's lives, expensive lawyers wading in. Groomers are very good at this.

I agree the image all over twitter may well be AI but I'm surprised that the person the image is of hasn't denied it/commented on defamation. If the parents have the proof they are talking about then I guess they will be looking at releasing it or demanding that the BBC confirm what they've seen.

prh47bridge · 11/07/2023 09:20

listsandbudgets · 11/07/2023 08:35

Does anyone know which lawyers he used? There is a world of difference between the likes of Carter Ruck or Schillings and your average high Street lawyer

Social media says Harbottle & Lewis but, as far as I can tell, that is based on a misunderstanding. The unnamed presenter is said to be using Harbottle & Lewis. The lawyers representing the young person have not been identified.

RudsyFarmer · 11/07/2023 09:20

i think this tale is as old as time. Before the internet this type of behaviour would be hushed up on accepted within the male club. Nowadays the public don’t accept it. Even if it lies within the boundaries of ‘not illegal’ it’s morally unacceptable and the public says no.

Michael Barrymore was the one from my youth that sticks in my mind. Spectacular fall from grace yet wasn’t charged with any crime. Career ending for him.

JohnPrescottsPyjamas · 11/07/2023 09:20

Genuine questions here:

As sleazy as it is - and not in anyway excusing the presenter’s behaviour to his family - if you’re supposed to be 18 to sign up to OF, who is at fault? OF for not having adequate screening of its membership or the presenter for not checking the age of the participant before he engaged in the exchanges.

Also, if The Sun is so sure the story is accurate and the facts are true, why are they not naming the presenter?

Countdowntowinter · 11/07/2023 09:21

mids2019 · 11/07/2023 07:26

@WeAreTheHeroes

sorry for the typos.

if you are to describe this as a witch hunt realistically can careers be saved as there seems an extreme appetite for a name and for the BBC to maintain its investigations credibility will one have to come?

Everyone knows who it is although people are careful not to say, it's not a secret.

If it's not illegal under grooming for sexual pictures then it's immoral if a man in late 50's with a 17 year old (at the time) now both 3 years older. I imagine the BBC were badly bruised by Savile and ITV by Schofield so perhaps they need to look at how improvements can be made.

RudsyFarmer · 11/07/2023 09:21

Perhaps the presenter has used the law to prevent being names? Gagging orders are very common but run out eventually.

WomanStanleyWoman2 · 11/07/2023 09:22

Some gay men get married, maybe for their image, they want a family but prefer the same sex.

It isn’t unknown for a gay man and a gay woman to come to an arrangement either, if both wanted children and neither wanted to be out. For example, if they were both devout Christians.

Blossomtoes · 11/07/2023 09:22

prh47bridge · 11/07/2023 09:20

Social media says Harbottle & Lewis but, as far as I can tell, that is based on a misunderstanding. The unnamed presenter is said to be using Harbottle & Lewis. The lawyers representing the young person have not been identified.

They have. According to The Times it’s Child and Child.

Doagooddeed · 11/07/2023 09:22

Thearseyone · 11/07/2023 08:54

I think it's clear that there's no obvious illegal behaviour

really, you need to tell the met asap, as they aren’t so sure.

Its a very clear line, u18 = illegal, their first assessment was no further action & of course, with publicity, comes the opportunity for new evidence....

We don't know or rather most of us don't.

Countdowntowinter · 11/07/2023 09:22

Wheresthebeach · 11/07/2023 09:19

Feels very similar to Scofield - denials by the young person, lots of pressure to keep quiet and not 'ruin' everyone's lives, expensive lawyers wading in. Groomers are very good at this.

I agree the image all over twitter may well be AI but I'm surprised that the person the image is of hasn't denied it/commented on defamation. If the parents have the proof they are talking about then I guess they will be looking at releasing it or demanding that the BBC confirm what they've seen.

This seems to be the way that the rich men take these things. The younger person feels guilty for ruining family/career/image. It's all pretty sleazy

Countdowntowinter · 11/07/2023 09:23

The person cannot deny it as the other named people have because

Festoonedflurryfairy · 11/07/2023 09:23

RebelR · 11/07/2023 09:07

The press or the government? It's not always clear there's a difference.

Well, quite …

prh47bridge · 11/07/2023 09:24

Wheresthebeach · 11/07/2023 09:19

Feels very similar to Scofield - denials by the young person, lots of pressure to keep quiet and not 'ruin' everyone's lives, expensive lawyers wading in. Groomers are very good at this.

I agree the image all over twitter may well be AI but I'm surprised that the person the image is of hasn't denied it/commented on defamation. If the parents have the proof they are talking about then I guess they will be looking at releasing it or demanding that the BBC confirm what they've seen.

Denying it or commenting on it would be ill advised, in my view. It would publicise the existence of this image (which may be fake) and give oxygen to the allegations that they are the presenter involved.

In my view, the fact that the Sun hasn't named the presenter is telling. The only reason I can see for them not doing so is that they know they don't have the evidence to stand up this story.

prh47bridge · 11/07/2023 09:25

Countdowntowinter · 11/07/2023 09:23

The person cannot deny it as the other named people have because

The person cannot deny it as some of the other named people have because

Fixed it for you

StefanosHill · 11/07/2023 09:26

SmartHome · 11/07/2023 08:03

If people's private lives involve illicit sexual contact with vulnerable young people while their adult spouses are unaware then I'm all for it. Keeping it quiet is how they get away with it and why we have abominations like OF. And I'm talking about all 3 men here

It's fairly normal for young people to think I'm in control here, I've got the power. I'm using these pervs to get money and laughing at them behind their backs, why shouldn't I when they're so pathetic and just see me as a sex object. I was the same as a student.

Unfortunately, there more to it than that, as this case shows if true (enabling a drug addiction) and they don't necessarily see the harm caused to their lives, self esteem and psyches atvthe time that this kind of sex work involves. many older ex-prostitutes will attest to this. Up until recently, the punters got off unscathed. If the Sun changes that by bringing sunlight, whatever their own questionable motives, then I'm personally all for it.

I agree with this too

TheBig4O · 11/07/2023 09:26

Get out of what? While all this was going on Boris Johnson failed to hand over his WhatsApp messages and all other documents requested in relation to his ongoing party scandal. This is exactly what the government and the bbc wanted to happen. Get us all salivating over a bbc sacndal so the government can go back to quietly dismantling the country and getting away with the usual fuckery.

Countdowntowinter · 11/07/2023 09:28

TheBig4O · 11/07/2023 09:26

Get out of what? While all this was going on Boris Johnson failed to hand over his WhatsApp messages and all other documents requested in relation to his ongoing party scandal. This is exactly what the government and the bbc wanted to happen. Get us all salivating over a bbc sacndal so the government can go back to quietly dismantling the country and getting away with the usual fuckery.

Indeed. It's worked.

However:
"SmartHome · Today 08:03

If people's private lives involve illicit sexual contact with vulnerable young people while their adult spouses are unaware then I'm all for it. Keeping it quiet is how they get away with it and why we have abominations like OF. And I'm talking about all 3 men here

It's fairly normal for young people to think I'm in control here, I've got the power. I'm using these pervs to get money and laughing at them behind their backs, why shouldn't I when they're so pathetic and just see me as a sex object. I was the same as a student.

Unfortunately, there more to it than that, as this case shows if true (enabling a drug addiction) and they don't necessarily see the harm caused to their lives, self esteem and psyches atvthe time that this kind of sex work involves. many older ex-prostitutes will attest to this. Up until recently, the punters got off unscathed. If the Sun changes that by bringing sunlight, whatever their own questionable motives, then I'm personally all for it."

Vulnerable young people need protecting from pervs.

kirinm · 11/07/2023 09:29

Have the BBC actually done anything wrong. The step dad has now said that he went to the police, they said nothing illegal has happened and he then sat down with the BBC for an hour presumably the BBC wouldn't have grounds to suspend the presenter if he his only crime was using a legal but grubby website.

When the Sun run a story the 'victim' is now 17! And the BBC act.

Interesting that the Sun don't appear to have seen any of the screenshots the step dad claimed to have.

baroqueandblue · 11/07/2023 09:29

Thearseyone · 11/07/2023 07:25

What a mess this is.

As the mother said, how does this kid afford one of the most expensive law firms there is to represent them, or even know who they are and what they specialise in. If this kid has been got at to make that statement, or even paid this just got a whole lot worse for the presenter.

he’s clearly about to be named. Which is a bit of a moot point, as it’s literally everywhere, and if that happens before the bbc name, then I I am not sure they can come back from this, it’s looking like a massive, massive cover up and everyone else being thrown under the bus, inc the BBC’s remaining reputation to protect.

it’s now at the stage I think very few people are naive enough to believe it’s not true. It looks really bad, the denial and the refutal

He needs to stop trying to hide from it and take control of the narrative. It’s past the point of no return.

the bbc needs to step up today, they have tried to hide from it for too long.

You lot must be stuck in an echo chamber. I don't know one person in real life who has mentioned or even given a second thought to this so-called scandal. The drama online is fucking unbelievable. What do you do with yourselves between media-created so-called crises?!

Seriously, have you heard yourselves?

Keha · 11/07/2023 09:30

I work in a job frequently dealing with complaints. I bet the BBC gets malicious and/or inaccurate complaints about celebrities. I wouldn't expect them to suspend someone without evidence. Doesn't sound like the now adult child wanted this story in the sun. Police apparently not interested. Ive got more questions about the parents choice to go to a newspaper and the papers choice to publish. Sounds like a shit situation and like the adult child isn't in a good place but is this helping?

Hungrycaterpillarsmummy · 11/07/2023 09:31

baroqueandblue · 11/07/2023 09:29

You lot must be stuck in an echo chamber. I don't know one person in real life who has mentioned or even given a second thought to this so-called scandal. The drama online is fucking unbelievable. What do you do with yourselves between media-created so-called crises?!

Seriously, have you heard yourselves?

You're on this thread discussing it. So welcome to the dark side - hypocrite!

vera99 · 11/07/2023 09:31

Prince Andrew is far worse and he still gets to cosplay at various state occasions and hasn'tttty answered any FBI request for cooperation less we forget.

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