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How does the BBC get out of the presenter mess?

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mids2019 · 11/07/2023 07:13

Seriously how does the BBC now go forward and what can be the conclusion to this story? The story could run for some time with on going speculation about the presenter and eventually in my opinion a name will drop.

Can there therefore be any sort of fair investigation because I think there may be too much aspirational damage now for a career to be as ed. It seems the knives the BBC sit on this the more scrutiny there is and they desperately need a conclusion?

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Blossomtoes · 11/07/2023 09:32

vera99 · 11/07/2023 09:31

Prince Andrew is far worse and he still gets to cosplay at various state occasions and hasn'tttty answered any FBI request for cooperation less we forget.

Go back to the Royal Family threads.

FastBlueHedgehog · 11/07/2023 09:33

Why is everyone assuming the mum and step-dad are telling the truth and the child isn't? Who on earth goes to a tabloid to resolve a family problem but doesn't go to the police? People tell huge lies sometimes for reasons most people can't fathom. The Sun newspaper also has form for this.

SirVixofVixHall · 11/07/2023 09:34

Thearseyone · 11/07/2023 07:25

What a mess this is.

As the mother said, how does this kid afford one of the most expensive law firms there is to represent them, or even know who they are and what they specialise in. If this kid has been got at to make that statement, or even paid this just got a whole lot worse for the presenter.

he’s clearly about to be named. Which is a bit of a moot point, as it’s literally everywhere, and if that happens before the bbc name, then I I am not sure they can come back from this, it’s looking like a massive, massive cover up and everyone else being thrown under the bus, inc the BBC’s remaining reputation to protect.

it’s now at the stage I think very few people are naive enough to believe it’s not true. It looks really bad, the denial and the refutal

He needs to stop trying to hide from it and take control of the narrative. It’s past the point of no return.

the bbc needs to step up today, they have tried to hide from it for too long.

Agree with this.

Hungrycaterpillarsmummy · 11/07/2023 09:34

FastBlueHedgehog · 11/07/2023 09:33

Why is everyone assuming the mum and step-dad are telling the truth and the child isn't? Who on earth goes to a tabloid to resolve a family problem but doesn't go to the police? People tell huge lies sometimes for reasons most people can't fathom. The Sun newspaper also has form for this.

I don't think everyone is. From what I've seen most people think the parents are wrong to have done this and both parties involved are consensual 🤷

Countdowntowinter · 11/07/2023 09:35

@baroqueandblue well why are you here then? You don't know one person in real life who mentioned this (probably due to your reaction), so what makes you seek out this thread and feel the need to whinge.

Go off and do your very important things whilst we chat on a chat site. Go preach somewhere else.

WomanStanleyWoman2 · 11/07/2023 09:35

baroqueandblue · 11/07/2023 09:29

You lot must be stuck in an echo chamber. I don't know one person in real life who has mentioned or even given a second thought to this so-called scandal. The drama online is fucking unbelievable. What do you do with yourselves between media-created so-called crises?!

Seriously, have you heard yourselves?

Well, aren’t you and all your friends lucky to exist on such a high intellectual plain compared to us plebs.

Did you take a break from debating the meaning of life and the philosophical constructs of society throughout history to pop onto Mumsnet and tell us all how trivial our lives and opinions are?

kirinm · 11/07/2023 09:35

It doesn't look like a cover up at all. If this isn't true by naming him the BBC may be sued. The presenter has potentially done absolutely nothing wrong but his reputation has been trashed.

StefanosHill · 11/07/2023 09:36

WomanStanleyWoman2 · 11/07/2023 09:35

Well, aren’t you and all your friends lucky to exist on such a high intellectual plain compared to us plebs.

Did you take a break from debating the meaning of life and the philosophical constructs of society throughout history to pop onto Mumsnet and tell us all how trivial our lives and opinions are?

Ha at all these responses to pp

Countdowntowinter · 11/07/2023 09:38

Hungrycaterpillarsmummy · 11/07/2023 09:31

You're on this thread discussing it. So welcome to the dark side - hypocrite!

It's funny how the hypocrites just cannot help themselves. No one made baroque comment yet they really had to. 😂

Harrythehappypig · 11/07/2023 09:38

I don’t look at the tabloids but I thought reporting stories under a category of perceived “sleaze” was a stable of theirs - has this stopped in recent years? Stories about MPs having affairs which didn’t relate to illegal activity has in the past caused a massive rumpus.

If it’s all made up then that is a different matter but if it’s true then it doesn’t seem very different from other tabloid tales. If it is the case that the story is true but nothing going on is illegal it seems to me to be the kind of tale that the News of the World would have run with. Are there less stories like this now that the NotW has gone?

If the person directly telling the story was the young person here, would that be different or would it still be a personal matter? Is the difference here that even if true, it is being told by people when it’s not their story to tell?

cyclamenqueen · 11/07/2023 09:38

some posters are very naive, the idea that the parents are not benefitting financially at all is risible. Papers have all sorts of mechanisms for paying people whilst not paying them ; ‘expenses’, blind trusts , payments through third parties , delayed payments or even the use of shell companies or off shore settlements . For papers like The Sun these mechanisms are all available ‘off the shelf’.

Also if the presenter is an employee then like it or not the BBC have a duty of care to their employee especially if the employee has any conditions which may be classified as them qualifying for extra considerations . They have to walk a fine line. Whatever happens the career of this presenter is over, at least at the BBC , whoever they are.

JRHartley72 · 11/07/2023 09:39

FastBlueHedgehog · 11/07/2023 09:33

Why is everyone assuming the mum and step-dad are telling the truth and the child isn't? Who on earth goes to a tabloid to resolve a family problem but doesn't go to the police? People tell huge lies sometimes for reasons most people can't fathom. The Sun newspaper also has form for this.

Agree! It's a bit coincidental that the parents contacted the BBC for the first time on May 19 - the day Phillip Schofield left This Morning. Three years they did nothing and then suddenly they want to act out of concern? Plus, I find it very suss The Scum aren't sharing pictorial evidence of the payments and that they're being very vague about the £35k. If it was paid incrementally into the youth's account by the presenter, that should be easy to show, right? They can redact the name if worried legally – just show the dosh going in. Or is it because that money actually went to the parents and not the youth, whose own lawyer says is estranged from their family and has been for some time? I'm not saying the presenter hasn't engaged in watching the youth perform sexually online, but this is really starting to feel very shady.

Tink51971 · 11/07/2023 09:39

Sorry but I am confused, yes all the press are concentrating on the bbc, but it maybe my job but to me there are a few I consistences with the family, originally mum went to the papers as the police would do nothing, and the bbc did nothing and she didn’t want money for it, then a stepdad comes on to the scene (did he take money and not mum), then mums story would be correct she didn’t take money but step dad did, for the story.

Step dad today has now said they did talk to BBC.

Then young person involved said it’s not true and according to them they have been estranged from mum for some time.

Do we actually know they take crack cocaine or is this a shock factor for clicks. Do we also know the £35,000 figure is correct.

if the person is on the site mentioned, can they be funding the lawyer from other men/women on this site and if this is the case, why is mum not complaining about them!!

if the person is estranged how has mum got pics, videos and bank statement, as my son lives with his girlfriend and is in early 20’s, I don’t have access to his phone bank statement ect.

Gut feeling is it’s a money grab.

Brrrrrrrrrrrr · 11/07/2023 09:39

JohnPrescottsPyjamas · 11/07/2023 09:20

Genuine questions here:

As sleazy as it is - and not in anyway excusing the presenter’s behaviour to his family - if you’re supposed to be 18 to sign up to OF, who is at fault? OF for not having adequate screening of its membership or the presenter for not checking the age of the participant before he engaged in the exchanges.

Also, if The Sun is so sure the story is accurate and the facts are true, why are they not naming the presenter?

Exactly this. Teenagers today can often look much older than their actual age so if a profile states 18 or even 19 and they look that age why would you question it? OF should have done due diligence on this performer which leads to the bigger question of how many other underaged performers are there on that platform?

Also if this performer has a large subscription audience then every single one of those viewers is technically complicit, hell there could be a few DH of MNers who have been a subscriber too.

The grey areas of this whole thing are sleazy and the ramifications for the alleged presenters family are devastating.

My question though- what is being hidden by this huge distraction? It’s like the Titanic sub all over again. Is it BJs phone not being handed over or something else? Because whatever it is it’s certainly not getting the attention it deserves because of this circus…. 🤔🔎

Countdowntowinter · 11/07/2023 09:40

WomanStanleyWoman2 · 11/07/2023 09:35

Well, aren’t you and all your friends lucky to exist on such a high intellectual plain compared to us plebs.

Did you take a break from debating the meaning of life and the philosophical constructs of society throughout history to pop onto Mumsnet and tell us all how trivial our lives and opinions are?

Indeed 😂why do these people they are so superior and feel the need to let us know how they feel. Off you trot baroque and debate something more important.

crumpet · 11/07/2023 09:40

This thread is already quite long so someone may already have mentioned it, but the News Agents podcast (recorded before the new statement from the individual’s lawyers) was quite informative on the complexities of the situation and what the various players might/could do next

gogomoto · 11/07/2023 09:44

Employees have rights, that includes employees of the bbc. You cant suspend someone from heresay, even the stepfather said the police told them no crime has been committed. Sleezey isn't grounds for dismissal from work in most jobs. Unfortunately there's elements of extortion here. We don't have the facts except that the bbc were willing to go public and a superinjunction was out in place

AutumnCrow · 11/07/2023 09:45

What can the BBC do?

  1. Demonstrate that it fully implemented all the recommendations from the Dame Janet Smith inquiry (post-Savile), and explain why not if it didn't;
  2. Establish the truth;
  3. Co-operate with the police as necessary;
  4. Match that against the contract of 'the talent' - e.g. is there a clause about not bringing the BBC into disrepute?
  5. Establish who knew what and when.
How they do all this ^^ quickly and discreetly while simultaneously being under scrutiny from the parliamentary Select Committee for Culture, Media & Sport, that has the power of parliamentary privilege to name whoever it likes, is a bit of a mystery tbh.
Thehonestybox · 11/07/2023 09:46

If this was an OF thing then he should sue the parents.

The circulated photo is so fake and 100% photoshopped, I'm really surprised there are people on here naiive enough to think it's real - even an AI art app could photoshop that in two seconds

WhileMyGuitarGentlyWeeps · 11/07/2023 09:46

Oh FGS not ANOTHER thread about this. 🙄

Festoonedflurryfairy · 11/07/2023 09:46

TheBig4O · 11/07/2023 09:26

Get out of what? While all this was going on Boris Johnson failed to hand over his WhatsApp messages and all other documents requested in relation to his ongoing party scandal. This is exactly what the government and the bbc wanted to happen. Get us all salivating over a bbc sacndal so the government can go back to quietly dismantling the country and getting away with the usual fuckery.

Yes I suspect this is all over the papers and on sm now to cover up something far worse.

Not that alleged grooming isn’t hideous (if that is the case here, we do not know, a lawyer interviewed in LBC the other evening said the case was “more complicated than one might imagine”) but I think there have been huge swathes of injustices carried out by Johnson and co who try and steer the press in a certain direction away from their own activities…

StefanosHill · 11/07/2023 09:48

WhileMyGuitarGentlyWeeps · 11/07/2023 09:46

Oh FGS not ANOTHER thread about this. 🙄

That took longer to post than hiding the thread

Wheresthebeach · 11/07/2023 09:48

Its seems that it was over a longish period of time. So I can see a case where parents have info/access to bank accounts from when the kid was a teenager. If they've since spiralled into addiction, and are estranged I can see how the parents want the person they are blaming to be named and have their career ruined. They feel their child's life has been ruined - I think I'd take action of some sort too if I was seeing the person I blamed on TV making a small fortune while my kid was a wreck. I'm not saying the approach is right, but I'd have a visceral hate for someone I felt groomed my kid. Also - it looks to me like a last ditch effort to get it taken seriously after the BBC didn't really investigate, and the police dismissed. I bet they assumed that the BBC would act fast, in light of Scofield. If the parents are making it up, it's a hell of a risk.

CarterBeatsTheDevil · 11/07/2023 09:49

I have no idea what was going on here or who the TV presenter was, but the fact that the teenager involved thinks nothing inappropriate happened does not mean that it didn't. (It doesn't mean it did, either, it's just not a call they're in a position to make.)

Efacsen · 11/07/2023 09:50

FastBlueHedgehog · 11/07/2023 09:33

Why is everyone assuming the mum and step-dad are telling the truth and the child isn't? Who on earth goes to a tabloid to resolve a family problem but doesn't go to the police? People tell huge lies sometimes for reasons most people can't fathom. The Sun newspaper also has form for this.

Yeah why didn't the parents go on Jeremy Kyle to sort out this issue with their offspring? It's got that vibe

Maybe it's a pity for some dysfunctional families that Jezzas interventions are no longer available to them

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