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How does the BBC get out of the presenter mess?

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mids2019 · 11/07/2023 07:13

Seriously how does the BBC now go forward and what can be the conclusion to this story? The story could run for some time with on going speculation about the presenter and eventually in my opinion a name will drop.

Can there therefore be any sort of fair investigation because I think there may be too much aspirational damage now for a career to be as ed. It seems the knives the BBC sit on this the more scrutiny there is and they desperately need a conclusion?

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QueefQueen80s · 11/07/2023 09:51

Winchester100 · 11/07/2023 07:32

But if nothing illegal took place, and the parents went to a tabloid and ruined the guy’s life…what the hell?

If the young guy was on ‘Only Fans’ and selling content to whoever would buy it - distasteful but not illegal. Would the parents have gone after the person/people viewing that content had they not been famous? I doubt it. They had no power to go to anyone paying for OF content and tell them
to stop. We are talking about their adult ‘child.’

I think if the young person sticks to his story, the parents and The Sun are in the shit.

I don’t personally care what people get up to in their private lives providing it’s not illegal. Working for the BBC does not make you public property. I’d like to see this person back in his job tbh, I think he’s good at it and I prefer him to any alternatives.

Nah.. I don't want to be getting my news updates about abhorrent things in the world from someone who thinks of people young enough to be his grandchild in a sexual way.

JRHartley72 · 11/07/2023 09:52

Wheresthebeach · 11/07/2023 09:48

Its seems that it was over a longish period of time. So I can see a case where parents have info/access to bank accounts from when the kid was a teenager. If they've since spiralled into addiction, and are estranged I can see how the parents want the person they are blaming to be named and have their career ruined. They feel their child's life has been ruined - I think I'd take action of some sort too if I was seeing the person I blamed on TV making a small fortune while my kid was a wreck. I'm not saying the approach is right, but I'd have a visceral hate for someone I felt groomed my kid. Also - it looks to me like a last ditch effort to get it taken seriously after the BBC didn't really investigate, and the police dismissed. I bet they assumed that the BBC would act fast, in light of Scofield. If the parents are making it up, it's a hell of a risk.

Okay, but what if it was all done via an OF account and the presenter wasn't the only person logging on? Why aren't the parents going after all the other adults who watched their child perform? The fact the police won't investigate would make sense if it was an OF account – morally repugnant, yes, but what those adults were doing in watching isn't illegal. If the child lied about their age to set up an account, that's on OF's shit vetting process.

WomanStanleyWoman2 · 11/07/2023 09:53

WhileMyGuitarGentlyWeeps · 11/07/2023 09:46

Oh FGS not ANOTHER thread about this. 🙄

“And I just had to comment on it, therefore ensuring it appears in my watchlist and that I receive all those annoying notifications. Whatever will I dooooo?!”

Wheresthebeach · 11/07/2023 09:55

@JRHartley72 My guess would be they couldn't id the others, and also assuming the others didn't transfer quite such large sums of money. If the reports are true - 35K is a significant sum of money and they'd view that persons payments as the main reason for continuing to share the images.

baroqueandblue · 11/07/2023 09:56

WhileMyGuitarGentlyWeeps · 11/07/2023 09:46

Oh FGS not ANOTHER thread about this. 🙄

Don't waste your breath @WhileMyGuitarGentlyWeeps

There's no reasoning with vacuous!

StefanosHill · 11/07/2023 09:56

baroqueandblue · 11/07/2023 09:56

Don't waste your breath @WhileMyGuitarGentlyWeeps

There's no reasoning with vacuous!

Still here 😬

FriedEggChocolate · 11/07/2023 09:57

It depedends, I guess, on whether this is felt to have been actually illegal. Someone on OnlyFans has clicked to say they're 18, the young person says nothing illegal has happened and the police currently seem to be following the same tack.

In that case, as we don't officially know who the presenter is, the BBC need to look at why it took 2 months for them to look at the claim raised by the parent and then ask why their child wasn't making their own complaint, as they're an adult

WomanStanleyWoman2 · 11/07/2023 09:58

baroqueandblue · 11/07/2023 09:56

Don't waste your breath @WhileMyGuitarGentlyWeeps

There's no reasoning with vacuous!

Then why are you spending so much of your time here? Go and start another thread debating the infinite nature of the universe or whatever it is you’d prefer to discuss, and we can all ignore it.

RebelR · 11/07/2023 09:59

FastBlueHedgehog · 11/07/2023 09:33

Why is everyone assuming the mum and step-dad are telling the truth and the child isn't? Who on earth goes to a tabloid to resolve a family problem but doesn't go to the police? People tell huge lies sometimes for reasons most people can't fathom. The Sun newspaper also has form for this.

For all the nonsense The Sun prints, they do check their sources. They haven't printed a story like this without seeing some evidence.

Soothingaftersun · 11/07/2023 09:59

From what I have seen the young person has said nothing inappropriate or unlawful happened. They have not denied knowing said presenter or having any interaction with him

QueefQueen80s · 11/07/2023 09:59

Tlolljs · 11/07/2023 08:05

Well it’s all a bit grim isn’t it?
A middle aged man sending money to a young lad for pictures. Not something I would want for my sons.
Illegal? Depends how old the lad was when it started. But definitely immoral.

Exactly.. people in jobs like this are influential and the impressionable masses see what behaviour is acceptable or not, the fuss this has caused along with Schofield is good. People need to see this behaviour is wrong. As time goes on this all filters through to younger generations and progress is made. I can already see it with men. Younger men aren't sleazing on women like old men do.

JRHartley72 · 11/07/2023 09:59

Wheresthebeach · 11/07/2023 09:55

@JRHartley72 My guess would be they couldn't id the others, and also assuming the others didn't transfer quite such large sums of money. If the reports are true - 35K is a significant sum of money and they'd view that persons payments as the main reason for continuing to share the images.

Or the other theory is that the 35k accounts for ALL the person's earnings from OF and they don't have an individual breakdown.

BloodyHellKen · 11/07/2023 10:00

Please could someone tell me where the idea that the youth has an OF's account came from because I can't see anything in the original or subsequent news items on this so it appears to be just supposition.

Maybe the presenter approached the youth on social media, or was approached and their 'relationship' developed from that?

Also, The Sun is, IMO chip-paper, but despite my low opinion of tabloids I really can't see them leading on this story without decent evidence. Maybe 20-30 years ago but since then the law has really clamped down on printing what you like about who you like without proof.

Wheresthebeach · 11/07/2023 10:01

@JRHartley72 Yeah...that's possible. It's like a vicious game of chess...waiting for the next move.

SirVixofVixHall · 11/07/2023 10:01

JohnPrescottsPyjamas · 11/07/2023 09:20

Genuine questions here:

As sleazy as it is - and not in anyway excusing the presenter’s behaviour to his family - if you’re supposed to be 18 to sign up to OF, who is at fault? OF for not having adequate screening of its membership or the presenter for not checking the age of the participant before he engaged in the exchanges.

Also, if The Sun is so sure the story is accurate and the facts are true, why are they not naming the presenter?

Only Fans is just speculation.

Blossomtoes · 11/07/2023 10:02

I don’t understand why the parents didn’t go to the police in the first instance. Surely that would be the logical first port of call? Add to that the complete lack of police interest, the denial of the alleged victim and the apparent inability of the BBC to come up with any definitive proof in its investigation to date and this is looking remarkably like a smear campaign to me.

Superfood · 11/07/2023 10:03

baroqueandblue · 11/07/2023 09:56

Don't waste your breath @WhileMyGuitarGentlyWeeps

There's no reasoning with vacuous!

Not like the very important threads you've been posting on, on subjects such as eating egg and chips, when Sex in the City is on TV, and who is playing at Glastonbury.

You're right - potential child abuse, government, media and state corruption,, and the problems of pornography and drug addiction are really 'vacuous' compared to your interests.

Now hurry on back to chatting about your Chinese takeaway and the price of cucumbers in Tesco.

How utterly embarrassing and hypocritical of you.

Juanmartinez · 11/07/2023 10:04

@Blossomtoes they did go to the police.

MouseSculptureMadeOfOldHairbrushFluff · 11/07/2023 10:04

JohnPrescottsPyjamas · 11/07/2023 09:20

Genuine questions here:

As sleazy as it is - and not in anyway excusing the presenter’s behaviour to his family - if you’re supposed to be 18 to sign up to OF, who is at fault? OF for not having adequate screening of its membership or the presenter for not checking the age of the participant before he engaged in the exchanges.

Also, if The Sun is so sure the story is accurate and the facts are true, why are they not naming the presenter?

Yeah, at the moment it just seems seedy but not illegal and therefore an issue between the unnamed BBC person and their spouse, rather than anything bigger. I too wonder why The Sun aren't naming names, if they're so sure of their story.

JRHartley72 · 11/07/2023 10:05

BloodyHellKen · 11/07/2023 10:00

Please could someone tell me where the idea that the youth has an OF's account came from because I can't see anything in the original or subsequent news items on this so it appears to be just supposition.

Maybe the presenter approached the youth on social media, or was approached and their 'relationship' developed from that?

Also, The Sun is, IMO chip-paper, but despite my low opinion of tabloids I really can't see them leading on this story without decent evidence. Maybe 20-30 years ago but since then the law has really clamped down on printing what you like about who you like without proof.

It is a supposition at this stage, but it's a strong one, because there has to be a reason the police aren't investigating. If the presenter was in direct contact, it would be a criminal offence for them to solicit images. But if the presenter was accessing the images through a site where the youth would've had to lie to say they are 18+ to set up an account the criminality isn't clear cut. And The Sun don't appear to have actual proof, because they aren't producing the bank statements and in today's front page story the paper says they have seen emails the stepfather sent to the BBC telling them of the large sums of money involved – but reading an email isn't proof the money was paid to the youth!

HoldOnMiGenna · 11/07/2023 10:06

I still cannot , with all the will in the world connect any concept of " good, loving parenting" with going to The Sun newspaper in order to control a domestic situation pertaining to one's child that started on the parents' watch and wasn't caused by the BBC employee ( no matter how closeted and sleazy he is) and would still be a thing whether or not said son received large payments that have enabled a crack addiction.
No crackhead has ever let a lack of money stop them from being a crackhead. To not be politically correct; it is impossible to be an incognito crackhead, also crackheads haven't met a dynamic that they won't turn into a hustle.....even a " hello".
This was out of control way before Mr BBC came along and the coyness of The Sun and the weird parenting of the parents tell me that they are trying to offshore blame/ humiliation.
I know nobody who would have gone to a newspaper without money not being on their mind via low key blackmail.
What's put a fly in the ointment is the non capitulation of said presenter.
One's child doesn't become an overnight down bad crackhead Only Fans sex worker under one's roof , so a serious lapse of parenting has been going on and I hope that said parents have enough know how about them to realise that their tea will be exposed if it means that The Sun will get out of schtuck with their "throw rocks, hide hands' machinations where the health and safety of a young person is NOT their concern, but the humiliation of the BBC is.
What thickos! Sensible people do not use The Sun for family salvation!

JRHartley72 · 11/07/2023 10:06

Blossomtoes · 11/07/2023 10:02

I don’t understand why the parents didn’t go to the police in the first instance. Surely that would be the logical first port of call? Add to that the complete lack of police interest, the denial of the alleged victim and the apparent inability of the BBC to come up with any definitive proof in its investigation to date and this is looking remarkably like a smear campaign to me.

They did and the police told them the presenter hadn't done anything illegal.

Bellajac · 11/07/2023 10:06

He's 20. He's an adult. His behaviour now is nothing to do with his parents and they had no right to go to the press. If they believe illegal activity had taken place when he was underage it was a matter for the police. Not for the world to know.

BloodyHellKen · 11/07/2023 10:07

Blossomtoes · 11/07/2023 10:02

I don’t understand why the parents didn’t go to the police in the first instance. Surely that would be the logical first port of call? Add to that the complete lack of police interest, the denial of the alleged victim and the apparent inability of the BBC to come up with any definitive proof in its investigation to date and this is looking remarkably like a smear campaign to me.

Apparently they did go to the police but they said nothing illegal was going on - presumably because youth is now 20yrs (and a crack addict - ie not a credible witness).

If this was my child my first port of call would be to find out where the presenter lived and go ask them what the hell they thought they were doing.

Soothingaftersun · 11/07/2023 10:07

The tried and trusted 'unwise but not illegal' defense yet again

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