I have covid at the moment and whilst I'm not holed up in my bedroom, I'm staying away from my family more than usual (teenagers in their rooms most of the time anyway!) as I would if I had a stomach bug or flu. I would doubt I'm very contagious now - day 7 and the faintest of faint lines on a test. I look after MIL part of the time, hence the testing and wont go to see her until I'm 100% clear. Usual handwashing etc but it's struck me how different attitudes are from different people: one friend is horrified that I would venture out of my room at all, while another doesn't understand why I'm not going to the cinema with her tonight. What about you?
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camflower · 10/07/2023 18:55
for all those people who think covid has 'gone away' or is not a thing any more .... I'm on day six of my third covid infection (three jabs in) and still feel pretty crap - much worse than last time two years ago, and i am a generally fit and heathy person who didn't even get a cold during the winter. Got all the symptoms, have only just got a vague sense of taste back ... i have been isolating from even my family as much as possible - i don't want anyone else to get this, it sucks!
x2boys · 10/07/2023 18:46
But you understand that people have to.put their own families welfare first before that of of strangers its not selfish to.want to.be able to.keep.a roof over your families head and keep your kids fed
Specialcovidname · 10/07/2023 18:07
I'm actually self employed so the 6 weeks I couldn't work, I didn't earn and my business may well fail because of it. However my DFIL died and my DH almost died (and he was a fit man in his 40's who was running 10k a few days before he collapsed). I'd rather lose my business, job, house than DH and if I went out knowing I was positive and a friend or colleague died because of me I'd never forgive myself. I'm simply asking that people think about the consequences for those around them before they make a decision.
x2boys · 10/07/2023 15:29
Would you take time of if it meant losing your job ?
Specialcovidname · 10/07/2023 15:14
Those saying people have to go to work. No I didn't have a cosy wfh job. I lost 6 weeks pay nursing dh, dfil, sitting with him as he passed away and suffering with covid and heart complications myself. The financial problems caused are still ongoing. I had no choice though - we were all very seriously ill so yes I'd take time off and miss a few days pay to avoid putting someone else through that.
Specialcovidname · 10/07/2023 20:33
But how do you know its a stranger who might suffer. This was DH's 3rd infection and his first 2 were just like heavy colds. So it could be your friend, colleague or relative who has scary side effects - surely you'd want to protect them even if you don't care about strangers.
x2boys · 10/07/2023 18:46
But you understand that people have to.put their own families welfare first before that of of strangers its not selfish to.want to.be able to.keep.a roof over your families head and keep your kids fed
Specialcovidname · 10/07/2023 18:07
I'm actually self employed so the 6 weeks I couldn't work, I didn't earn and my business may well fail because of it. However my DFIL died and my DH almost died (and he was a fit man in his 40's who was running 10k a few days before he collapsed). I'd rather lose my business, job, house than DH and if I went out knowing I was positive and a friend or colleague died because of me I'd never forgive myself. I'm simply asking that people think about the consequences for those around them before they make a decision.
x2boys · 10/07/2023 15:29
Would you take time of if it meant losing your job ?
Specialcovidname · 10/07/2023 15:14
Those saying people have to go to work. No I didn't have a cosy wfh job. I lost 6 weeks pay nursing dh, dfil, sitting with him as he passed away and suffering with covid and heart complications myself. The financial problems caused are still ongoing. I had no choice though - we were all very seriously ill so yes I'd take time off and miss a few days pay to avoid putting someone else through that.
SallyWD · 10/07/2023 19:09
Yes I still test and take precautions if positive. I don't like all this "WTF is still testing?" as if we're some sort of weirdos to do so. I know several people who've died from Covid. I know a formerly fit and healthy 40 something who's been in a wheelchair because of long covid since 2020. I have another friend (again formerly fit and healthy) who's has long covid since last summer, can no longer work and has just lost her job.
So people saying "Oh it's just a mild cold" Well, I dont know anyone who's died from a cold, ended up in a wheelchair or been ill for over a year with a cold.
SquirrelHash · 10/07/2023 21:12
I work in a special school where there are kids with various medical conditions but we are not "supposed" to test.
Okay so they can't stop us buying our own but if we cll in sick with Covid we get asked how we know and we are judged on our time offre same way as if we have a cold. If we self certified fr more than 5 days that would be frowned upon and go on our sickness record etc. We would be duty bound t phone the head each day before 7am and provide lesson cover etc.
Needless to say if we aren't on deaths door, we don't test.
Beezknees · 10/07/2023 21:57
To be fair, I personally don't know anyone who has died, ended up in a wheelchair or been ill for over a year from Covid either.
SallyWD · 10/07/2023 19:09
Yes I still test and take precautions if positive. I don't like all this "WTF is still testing?" as if we're some sort of weirdos to do so. I know several people who've died from Covid. I know a formerly fit and healthy 40 something who's been in a wheelchair because of long covid since 2020. I have another friend (again formerly fit and healthy) who's has long covid since last summer, can no longer work and has just lost her job.
So people saying "Oh it's just a mild cold" Well, I dont know anyone who's died from a cold, ended up in a wheelchair or been ill for over a year with a cold.
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