I have covid at the moment and whilst I'm not holed up in my bedroom, I'm staying away from my family more than usual (teenagers in their rooms most of the time anyway!) as I would if I had a stomach bug or flu. I would doubt I'm very contagious now - day 7 and the faintest of faint lines on a test. I look after MIL part of the time, hence the testing and wont go to see her until I'm 100% clear. Usual handwashing etc but it's struck me how different attitudes are from different people: one friend is horrified that I would venture out of my room at all, while another doesn't understand why I'm not going to the cinema with her tonight. What about you?
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Specialcovidname · 10/07/2023 15:14
Those saying people have to go to work. No I didn't have a cosy wfh job. I lost 6 weeks pay nursing dh, dfil, sitting with him as he passed away and suffering with covid and heart complications myself. The financial problems caused are still ongoing. I had no choice though - we were all very seriously ill so yes I'd take time off and miss a few days pay to avoid putting someone else through that.
Specialcovidname · 10/07/2023 15:14
Those saying people have to go to work. No I didn't have a cosy wfh job. I lost 6 weeks pay nursing dh, dfil, sitting with him as he passed away and suffering with covid and heart complications myself. The financial problems caused are still ongoing. I had no choice though - we were all very seriously ill so yes I'd take time off and miss a few days pay to avoid putting someone else through that.
lovemelongtime · 10/07/2023 16:19
So many selfish, thoughtless people shout there it amazes me.
A lot of people are vulnerable or have reduced immunity, if we get Covid it could very easily lead to complications and hospitalisation.
Please think of others before you go out knowingly spreading germs.
lovemelongtime · 10/07/2023 16:19
So many selfish, thoughtless people shout there it amazes me.
A lot of people are vulnerable or have reduced immunity, if we get Covid it could very easily lead to complications and hospitalisation.
Please think of others before you go out knowingly spreading germs.
TheOrigRights · 10/07/2023 16:56
People will do what is best for them and their immediate family at the end of the day.
It's this mindset that we're trying to get people to think beyond.
e.g. If you are unwell with suspected covid then maybe see if you can send someone else to the supermarket or get home delivery, rather than power on and risk infecting others.
If you know your neighbour has covid then maybe offer to get groceries for them so they can stay in, or offer to collect their children from school.
TheOrigRights · 10/07/2023 16:56
People will do what is best for them and their immediate family at the end of the day.
It's this mindset that we're trying to get people to think beyond.
e.g. If you are unwell with suspected covid then maybe see if you can send someone else to the supermarket or get home delivery, rather than power on and risk infecting others.
If you know your neighbour has covid then maybe offer to get groceries for them so they can stay in, or offer to collect their children from school.
TheOrigRights · 10/07/2023 16:56
People will do what is best for them and their immediate family at the end of the day.
It's this mindset that we're trying to get people to think beyond.
e.g. If you are unwell with suspected covid then maybe see if you can send someone else to the supermarket or get home delivery, rather than power on and risk infecting others.
If you know your neighbour has covid then maybe offer to get groceries for them so they can stay in, or offer to collect their children from school.
Beezknees · 10/07/2023 17:10
Also this is naive thinking. I live in social housing and my neighbours are not the most savoury characters, no way would I have trusted them to pick up my child.
My DS is older so childcare not an issue for me, but working is.
TheOrigRights · 10/07/2023 16:56
People will do what is best for them and their immediate family at the end of the day.
It's this mindset that we're trying to get people to think beyond.
e.g. If you are unwell with suspected covid then maybe see if you can send someone else to the supermarket or get home delivery, rather than power on and risk infecting others.
If you know your neighbour has covid then maybe offer to get groceries for them so they can stay in, or offer to collect their children from school.
x2boys · 10/07/2023 17:03
What about people that have to.go to.work ?
You can't expect people not to prioritize their immediate family and lose money and potentially a,job for the sake of others ,many employers expect their employees In, Covid or no.Covid .
TheOrigRights · 10/07/2023 16:56
People will do what is best for them and their immediate family at the end of the day.
It's this mindset that we're trying to get people to think beyond.
e.g. If you are unwell with suspected covid then maybe see if you can send someone else to the supermarket or get home delivery, rather than power on and risk infecting others.
If you know your neighbour has covid then maybe offer to get groceries for them so they can stay in, or offer to collect their children from school.
x2boys · 10/07/2023 15:29
Would you take time of if it meant losing your job ?
Specialcovidname · 10/07/2023 15:14
Those saying people have to go to work. No I didn't have a cosy wfh job. I lost 6 weeks pay nursing dh, dfil, sitting with him as he passed away and suffering with covid and heart complications myself. The financial problems caused are still ongoing. I had no choice though - we were all very seriously ill so yes I'd take time off and miss a few days pay to avoid putting someone else through that.
Specialcovidname · 10/07/2023 18:07
I'm actually self employed so the 6 weeks I couldn't work, I didn't earn and my business may well fail because of it. However my DFIL died and my DH almost died (and he was a fit man in his 40's who was running 10k a few days before he collapsed). I'd rather lose my business, job, house than DH and if I went out knowing I was positive and a friend or colleague died because of me I'd never forgive myself. I'm simply asking that people think about the consequences for those around them before they make a decision.
x2boys · 10/07/2023 15:29
Would you take time of if it meant losing your job ?
Specialcovidname · 10/07/2023 15:14
Those saying people have to go to work. No I didn't have a cosy wfh job. I lost 6 weeks pay nursing dh, dfil, sitting with him as he passed away and suffering with covid and heart complications myself. The financial problems caused are still ongoing. I had no choice though - we were all very seriously ill so yes I'd take time off and miss a few days pay to avoid putting someone else through that.
MzHz · 10/07/2023 18:48
Well exactly! I’ve got boxes of tests that the school gave out so I tested this morning having come down with a hefty flu overnight
positive. I’m not going to just carry on, I’ll stay home and keep to myself. I’m not a wanker. Anyone could be vulnerable.
25sheets · 09/07/2023 18:19
I would still test and isolate if I was positive. Anyone who does not is a selfish git.
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