Friend going through a split seems to be isolating from us... just let her be?

[redwineatthurs]

TBH I get why because the rest of our group are getting engaged/married/pregnant. I've messaged her twice since she told us about the split but only got short answers. We used to be v close as a pair and we'd go for coffee regularly.

I am so worried about her and just want to know that she's ok.

I would send a last message and say something like ‘I know this is a difficult time for you but just call or message me whenever you want - you know I’m always here for you’ and then leave it there.