What things that DP/ DH/ bf/gf do, do you secretly love?

[Mindovermatter247]

Been with DP 20 years, tbh he can be annoying as f, but every morning (when he starts work before me) since we’ve lived together (16 years) he’s always kissed my head or cheek (depends how I’m sleeping) it’s funny but I feel it every time..
what little things does yours do that you secretly love…?

My husband always moves me to the inside of the pavement to protect me from an out of control car

He strokes me for hours for my pleasure. 😏

Just really really looks after me all the time and makes me feel so loved and cared for, especially just now when Im going through a hard time with my mums health. Gets up first and makes me tea in the morning. Asks me if I want anything to eat and drink every evening and goes and makes me it. Rubs my head/hair lovingly. Says have you got your ear plugs every night when we are going to sleep so I don't hear his snoring. Does most of the cooking and makes the best dinners.

My DH does all the washing up, and bins. Food smells make me gag so this feels like a real act of love

Mine gets up for work a lot earlier than I do. At night he sleeps under the duvet and I sleep on top of it under a light coverlet because otherwise I have drenching night sweats. If it's cold in the morning he doubles the coverlet over me and tucks my feet in. It's so lovely.

Tickles my back every single night before I fall asleep. It's not a secret that I love it though. He does all the bins and DIY and is in charge of feeding and cleaning up after the animals.

Tells me I am beautiful several times a week (with a look of awe on his face- so sweet)
Went to see my dad in the nursing home when he was there without me asking him to, he just did it off his own back
Does most of the cooking (he's way better at it than me)
Cleans the house without me having to ask
He wasn't keen on getting a dog and I cajoled him into it and every night now he tucks her into her dog bed so she's comfy

Always hangs up a dry towel for me after he uses the shower.

I have never had to think once about what day the bin men come or put them out.

When I tearfully told him (while being a sahm) that I hated asking him for money and having no direct access to accounts (he does all our finances) he quietly set up a savings account in my name and now even though I work, all our savings are controlled by me.

Even though I only say yes to tea once in a blue moon he still offers, every time.