Letting go

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My 17 year old (18 in a month) wants to spend a couple of nights a week at his girlfriend's.

I'm not happy about it. Should I just let him?

You can’t really stop him can you

You can't stop him

My slightly older dd is at Uni and will be away all summer working. 2 nights is not something to stress about.

What is it you are worried about op?

Why are you not happy about it?

Depends how you want the relationship to be between you and your dc..
I left home a week after I turned 17...

Tbh I'm having problems letting go. Plus he fancies some other girl at college so I'm questioning why he's getting serious with someone he's not 100% sure about.

I dunno really, I probably just need to get a life😩

Support your ds in his choices even if they appear a bit odd pays off long term!

I'm surprised he asked your permission . He's almost 18 bro It really isn't your call .
You can give advice but what he does with that is his own business , he has to make his own mistakes .