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11 dpo BFN TTC looking for advice

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Twocatstwodogs · 29/06/2023 09:20

Hi everyone, looking for some advice/reassurance or some hard truths I guess. Long story short is that, I used to have 28 days cycles and I had a miscarriage in April around 6/7 weeks which was horrible and a dilation and curettage and on the 26th of May. Since the D&C, my pre tests went back to negative which was reassuring, no period since but I ovulated on 18th June and timed sex well around this period, BBT has been steadily rising since the 19th which seemed good. Today I am 11 DPO today and used clearable ultra early and got a BFN with the first wee of the day, my app says my period is probably due tomorrow but after the surgery everything is a bit unclear now. I've been having what I thought were implantation cramps yesterday and a few aches and twinges, my cervix feels in mid to high position with not much discharge and medium firmness, seems closed and no bleeding or spotting...yet. My BBT looks ok, maybe I might be a bit late implanting and so I don't have enough HCG in my urine yet for it to be detectable but I'm probably clutching at straws here, today is kind of the latest I could implant I think. It might be a bit easier if my period just came and I knew I was out this month, just feels like it could be a really long time until my cycles get back to normal. Does anyone have any thoughts or advice?

11 dpo BFN TTC looking for advice
11 dpo BFN TTC looking for advice
11 dpo BFN TTC looking for advice
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mindutopia · 29/06/2023 09:56

I would give it a couple more days and test again, and try not to worry. My cycles were completely normal right away and I got pregnant the cycle after my mc (mc in early April, got pregnant in May after 1 period and BFP early June). I felt absolutely wrecked from 5 dpo, so ill. But all tests were negative, even on 12 dpo, I think. I finally had to come home from work as I felt so awful and tested again the next day which was 16 dpo and it was very positive. He's 5 now!

Twocatstwodogs · 29/06/2023 10:02

@mindutopia oh this is so good to hear! Definitely gives me a bit of hope. I guess I'm relying on what's happened previously but maybe that's not a good indicator. Also you have an amazing memory! Thanks again. I'll test again tomorrow if no period I think as you say

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Twocatstwodogs · 29/06/2023 11:15

Update - I've started to feel some cramping a but like period pain, not bad but could be AF on the way I guess..no bleeding yet

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