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[Argole]

Looking for an ego massage/ reality check

5’6“ 9 stone 11
168cm 62 kg

Would you be happy at this height and weight?

Skinny?
OK but a bit chunky
Fat?

I don't understand the thread title.

It’s an arsehole thing to ask

I'm your exact height. Gone from 75kg (considered self a bit chunky, health check doctor confirmed this ). Now 65kg. Happy.

Sounds good to me

Don't be daft. You must know that's a healthy weight

That’s an amazing loss, well done you! How did you do it?

So glad to see you are happy 😃

Your sense of self worth shouldn't come from how tall you managed to grow and how much your body weighs.

I'm just slightly taller and I don't weigh myself anymore but as I recall I looked best literally about 60kg or just a few pounds lighter but that's because I carry weight around my middle in a horrible way. So I would feel slim but with a tiny few pounds to lose off my abdomen.

I thought I was fat at 46kg so unfortunately I don’t trust my judgment

That's really just down to me, though. I'm one of those that looks pregnant without being pregnant! 😔

That's about me and I'm chunky. I don't carry it well at all. If I was more muscle and toned at that weight it would be fine but I'm not! I carry it all in my face and tummy

It's a very healthy weight for your height.

That’s a healthy weight for sure

I know it shouldn’t but unfortunately right now it does

It's a slim and healthy weight.

I'm 5 7 and 66kg and I'm certainly not overweight or chunky! Fit in a 12 mostly with a 14 sometimes mainly for big boobs. so a big bigger than you but not "big"... You're a healthy weight and certainly can't be fat or chunky.

If you thought you were fat at 46kg you clearly shouldn't be asking. Please don't volunteer to put yourself in a tailspin.
I'm 5'4 and 40kg through illness. I'd love to be 60...

Depends what you look and feel like. Are you happy in your own skin? That's what matters.

Take me for example. I'm not. I dropped the ball on the 2nd lockdown in the pandemic. Loneliness and the menopause hit hard. My insatiable appetite went through the roof, which I can't see to control and I hate myself for it. I'm carrying 2 extra stones (maybe 3) and my confidence is zero, as no clothes fit or look remotely good. 😳 An accident and a few injuries later and I'm stuck unable to do any exercise. The combination is defeating. I need a good slap round the chops with a wet fish to slap me out of this rut, as I'm well and truly in the groove.

Now then.... do you feel better? 😁 I think I'd be happy where you are. You weigh one of my legs. 🦵🤣

I’m the same height and would be delighted to weigh doublle that (working on losing)
so it’s all relative!

I’m 5ft 6ins and 101kg

knock yoursen out

It's obviously you have issues around your weight OP if you thought 46kg, so I'm not sure it's advisable to be asking a bunch of strangers to give opinions on whether they think you're overweight or not. I'd advice if you're eating a balanced diet and feel healthy, then that's all that matters. If you're becoming too focused on your weight and it's affecting your self-worth, then maybe some counselling might be an idea

That’s my height and weight! Too heavy for me - I dont suit it (thanks Covid, and menopause, lol) - I am usually just under 9stone and look and feel much better. I totally understand that both weights (my current and my usual) are in the healthy weight range btw.

I’m so tired of looking at photos and thinking I look large.

I genuinely don’t know if I need to lose half a stone or have a reality check.

First world problems , innit

I am 2ft 4 ins and weigh 2,100 kgs.

I snack all day, but then I am a Manta Ray.

I would say slim if not a bit too skinny.

Im 5 ft 5 and look my best at around 62kg. I do carry a lot of muscle deliberately. Any less and I’d probably be too lean