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Feeling low

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roundcircle · 21/06/2023 21:12

Feeling quite depressed and tired, tired of life in general. I don't feel sociable, I just struggle with daily stuff. Yesterday and today I spent the whole day in bed except for doing the school run.

Anyone felt like this before? What do you do to make yourself feel better?

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Maverickess · 21/06/2023 21:26

I'm sorry you're feeling like this, I know it's cliché but have you had physical causes ruled out? Some physical illnesses can present like this.

If it's not physical has something happened in your life? I feel like that when 'coming down' from a big or traumatic event after the initial shock/dealing I then kind of stall and can't seem to get going again. Bereavement, house move, relationship breakdown, arguments in the family etc.

But there doesn't always seem to be a 'reason' for it though, and I tend to follow my intuition, sometimes I will push myself to do something that needs done like housework and sometimes I just don't and hole up in bed with a book or Netflix. It's like a cumulative effect and you just need a couple of days 'off' from life in a way.

Be kind to yourself, get checked out at the dr's and do something that you want to do, for you.

roundcircle · 21/06/2023 21:37

Thank you. I haven't checked out in a long time but last time I had pains in my stomach and back I did go to see the GP who did a series of blood tests all came back normal.

A friend asked if I wanted to meet up for coffee, I said sorry I'm not feeling well, she says I haven't met anyone who gets unwell as often as you do.

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roundcircle · 21/06/2023 21:40

Sorry. No bereavement or change in circumstances. Although DD will be taking 11+ this September and I feel a bit overwhelmed by it. School have started sex education and teacher has been teaching them more than they should which has been distressing me.

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