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Card for neighbour with terminal Illness

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instantpotnoodle · 15/06/2023 16:43

we live in a cul de sac where we don’t really know any of the neighbours more than to say hi and smile. Only been here a few months and it’s temporary. Neighbours wife told us yesterday that he is terminally ill. It’s terrible, and so sad. I’d like to pop a card through their door but no idea what to say in it…what would you write to someone you have said about 5 words to before?!

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Zarataralara · 15/06/2023 16:50

A ‘ blank for your own message ‘ card or a Thinking of You maybe.
Sorry to hear xxx is poorly.
you can add Let me know if there’s anything I can do to help but only if you mean it and can.

2bazookas · 15/06/2023 16:54

" We're just down the road at number 12, our phone number is XYZ. Please don't hesitate to call if you need any help with shopping/a lift to hospital/ walking the dog. Or anything else we can do.
Kind wishes from your neighbour potnoodle.

ThatFraggle · 15/06/2023 16:56

2bazookas · 15/06/2023 16:54

" We're just down the road at number 12, our phone number is XYZ. Please don't hesitate to call if you need any help with shopping/a lift to hospital/ walking the dog. Or anything else we can do.
Kind wishes from your neighbour potnoodle.

This is a nice one.

You could also put out their bins and put them back (on bin day, not just randomly).

instantpotnoodle · 15/06/2023 17:22

Thanks! Sorry should also have mentioned we’re moving next month (as currently renting)

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User4873628 · 15/06/2023 17:25

Hmm, I'm not sure I'd do anything then if you hardly know them and are not going to be around much longer. I would have found that a bit intrusive I think. But everyone handles these things differently

SunshineAndFizz · 15/06/2023 17:55

The sentiment is lovely, but if you don't know them and you're about to leave, I'm not sure a card would be appropriate, as I'm not sure what you can say (i.e. you can't offer any help). I've never known a "sorry you have terminal illness" type card before, sadly just sympathy cards when someone passes away.

ImAChChChChihuahua · 15/06/2023 17:56

2bazookas · 15/06/2023 16:54

" We're just down the road at number 12, our phone number is XYZ. Please don't hesitate to call if you need any help with shopping/a lift to hospital/ walking the dog. Or anything else we can do.
Kind wishes from your neighbour potnoodle.

This.

ImAChChChChihuahua · 15/06/2023 17:57

instantpotnoodle · 15/06/2023 17:22

Thanks! Sorry should also have mentioned we’re moving next month (as currently renting)

Oh I wouldn't bother thenbifnyou can't actually help out in any practical ways I don't see the point.

ThatFraggle · 15/06/2023 17:59

ImAChChChChihuahua · 15/06/2023 17:57

Oh I wouldn't bother thenbifnyou can't actually help out in any practical ways I don't see the point.

In the card op can say, we are moving away at the end of June.

It seems callous to hear a person's devastating news then just give zero response.

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