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Woman prosecuted for illegally aborting her baby at 34 weeks pregnant

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Endlessdark · 13/06/2023 10:49

What are your thoughts of this? My heart breaks for the poor baby. There was so much time to do it earlier if she wanted to. ☹️ obviously don’t know her reasoning behind it so I’m interested to hear others thoughts! It’s said she claimed to only be 7 weeks pregnant and as it was during covid, she was sent abortion pills in the post.

https://apple.news/AEftuMVmFQ2quaiDb-lN78Q

what do you think, is it right that she was prosecuted or do you think there needs to be a reform of this law?

Demands to reform ‘out-of-date’ 1861 abortion law used to jail mother-of-three — ITV News

Parliament must consider overhauling the “out-of-date” law used to jail a mother-of-three who illegally obtained abortion tablets to end her pregnancy during lockdown, a senior Tory has said.

https://apple.news/AEftuMVmFQ2quaiDb-lN78Q

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ShippingNews · 13/06/2023 14:28

JustGeorgie · 13/06/2023 14:19

I truly hope that little one didn't suffer or feel pain

Hmm, it was killed. Do you really think it wouldn't have felt anything?

Badbadbunny · 13/06/2023 14:28

Branleuse · 13/06/2023 10:51

I think that it isnt comfortable, but its her body and noone should be jailed for an abortion.

What, even after so many weeks when the baby could have been viably born?

JustGeorgie · 13/06/2023 14:32

@ShippingNews hmm, you see I don't know!

How do those pills work? I thought abortion pills stop the heartbeat then induce labour

Not something I've ever looked into hence me saying I HOPED the little one felt no pain!

Spanielsarepainless · 13/06/2023 14:36

Like other posters I am pro-choice but this was not an abortion. It was an almost full-term baby. Such abuse of the system deserves a custodial sentence.

stbrandonsboat · 13/06/2023 14:56

JustGeorgie · 13/06/2023 14:32

@ShippingNews hmm, you see I don't know!

How do those pills work? I thought abortion pills stop the heartbeat then induce labour

Not something I've ever looked into hence me saying I HOPED the little one felt no pain!

They're designed for much less developed babies though. Under 10 weeks gestation I think.

stbrandonsboat · 13/06/2023 14:59

If someone did this in some North American states they'd be looking at a life sentence.

JustGeorgie · 13/06/2023 15:00

@stbrandonsboat Thankyou. I've no idea. If it wasn't painless then I'm even more convinced prison is the correct place for this woman

JustGeorgie · 13/06/2023 15:02

stbrandonsboat · 13/06/2023 14:59

If someone did this in some North American states they'd be looking at a life sentence.

Chris watts got a life sentence for his unborn child which he murdered, as well as for his 2 daughters and wife.

stbrandonsboat · 13/06/2023 15:06

JustGeorgie · 13/06/2023 15:00

@stbrandonsboat Thankyou. I've no idea. If it wasn't painless then I'm even more convinced prison is the correct place for this woman

I'm trying not to think about the actual process and what would have been felt. It's certainly a very sobering thing to consider and the reason why things have to be done properly and not done in a DIY way. I think the CPS were justified. I think even pro choice people would have to agree that individuals can't go around doing things like this.

Ilovebountybars · 13/06/2023 15:14

I read somewhere that she knew she was pregnant much earlier and she could have easily had an abortion legally. She chose not to. If that is correct, then prison is the right place for her.

gogohmm · 13/06/2023 15:45

I think the right decision was made, this isn't straight forward but she knew what she was doing and lied using an emergency system in place for the pandemic

Newnamenewname109870 · 13/06/2023 15:47

stbrandonsboat · 13/06/2023 14:56

They're designed for much less developed babies though. Under 10 weeks gestation I think.

That’s what’s so upsetting :(

Newnamenewname109870 · 13/06/2023 15:49

I’m glad more posters on this thread agree. Some on the others seemed to think it was completely her right. I wonder what they think about child abuse cases of newborns…

JustGeorgie · 13/06/2023 15:51

The other thread was batshit

7Worfs · 13/06/2023 15:54

Unfortunately some women seem to think that "feminism" means women should have absolute rights and privileges, but no responsibilities.
It's regressive.

RightWhereYouLeftMe · 13/06/2023 15:55

JustGeorgie · 13/06/2023 14:24

She would have got a suspended sentence if she had pleaded guilty

But she didn't

She lied

She denied "child destruction" which was the original charge. She pleaded guilty to section 58 of the Offences Against the Person Act 1861, administering drugs or using instruments to procure abortion, which was accepted by the prosecution.

MichelleScarn · 13/06/2023 16:03

7Worfs · 13/06/2023 15:54

Unfortunately some women seem to think that "feminism" means women should have absolute rights and privileges, but no responsibilities.
It's regressive.

This, I actually felt sick reading how disparaging some posters were being towards the baby.
I'm also thinking of her husband and the paramedics who didn't know what she'd done, and tried to save the baby.
That'll likely be trauma that stays with them despite now knowing she'd calculated the killing.

ElmTree22 · 13/06/2023 16:24

While it isn't something I think I could do, the mental state of this woman has to be taken into consideration. She has children, 3 of them. So she knows what it all entails and still something made her feel like this was her only way out!

What concerns me more is the possibility that this case is going to be used as ammunition for parliament to introduce the same legislation as the US when it comes to abortion laws. We aren't protected by EU legislation anymore so this is a real possibility.

ElmTree22 · 13/06/2023 16:30

ElmTree22 · 13/06/2023 16:24

While it isn't something I think I could do, the mental state of this woman has to be taken into consideration. She has children, 3 of them. So she knows what it all entails and still something made her feel like this was her only way out!

What concerns me more is the possibility that this case is going to be used as ammunition for parliament to introduce the same legislation as the US when it comes to abortion laws. We aren't protected by EU legislation anymore so this is a real possibility.

I realise this makes it sound as though I condone this action. I absolutely do not, and I do agree with other posters that the word abortion should be used lightly here. What I meant to say but didn't say well enough is that I believe she couldn't have been in her right mind. If she already had 3 children I can't believe someone would then so willingly do this to another child.

Babyboomtastic · 13/06/2023 16:31

ElmTree22 · 13/06/2023 16:24

While it isn't something I think I could do, the mental state of this woman has to be taken into consideration. She has children, 3 of them. So she knows what it all entails and still something made her feel like this was her only way out!

What concerns me more is the possibility that this case is going to be used as ammunition for parliament to introduce the same legislation as the US when it comes to abortion laws. We aren't protected by EU legislation anymore so this is a real possibility.

Eh, you do realise that our abortion laws are far more relaxed than most (if not all) EU countries.

The laws this woman was prosecuted under have been around for a very very long time, and she's not the first woman who has been prosecuted. For 'social/any' grounds (ie not to save life/disabled baby) france is 16w, Germany is 12w, greece 12w, Italy 90 days, netherlands 24w, Spain 14w, sweden 18w etc.

We are one of the outlets, and could have restricted abortions any time we wanted.

We aren't the US.

drpet49 · 13/06/2023 16:33

JustGeorgie · 13/06/2023 14:24

She would have got a suspended sentence if she had pleaded guilty

But she didn't

She lied

This. She was cold and calculating to the very end. She deserves prison. Newspapers report that there were two possible fathers and she didn’t know who the father was. She knew she was pregnant for several months and didn’t do anything. She should have got longer.

Applecrumble24 · 13/06/2023 16:38

She murdered her baby, she belongs in prison.

Riverlee · 13/06/2023 16:40

I think it was right to prosecute - she knew she was alot more than ten weeks. However, I don’t think a prison sentence in this case would serve any purpose. Suspended sentence?

DidyouNO · 13/06/2023 16:42

Surely this crosses the line from abortion to plain murder? Did she give birth then kill the baby because it would have survived independently at that age or did the drugs she took kill it pre birth? How horrific either way.

Pootle40 · 13/06/2023 16:46

I was born at 35 weeks. This is manslaughter at least surely