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Mum sentenced to 28 months in prison for abortion pills

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mumoftwobarnyboys · 12/06/2023 17:26

Used after the cut off point of 10 weeks.

Regardless of how far gone she was, surely this isn't right?

It is her body, despite me morally really thinking what she did was very wrong.

https://www.theguardian.com/world/2023/jun/12/woman-in-uk-jailed-for-28-months-over-taking-abortion-pills-after-legal-time-limit?CMP=twtgu&utmmsource=Twitter&utmmedium=&s=08#Echobox=1686577294

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Scottishdreams1991 · 13/06/2023 11:44

WarmWinterSun · 13/06/2023 11:35

For those saying the sole consideration is the woman’s body, I doubt they would condone smoking, drinking or taking drugs during pregnancy. Of course the body of the foetus matters too and that is why the law has a cut off point for ending its life (subject to exceptions where the mother’s life is in danger). To me it’s not as black and white as being solely about a woman’s body. I fully understand many women disagree (I support their right to do so) and it is incredibly important to discuss and debate the issue.

If a women smokes and drinks late pregnancy should she go ro prison tho? especially if her baby is stillborn? How about the babies born with a heroin addiction. Should there mum go to prison?

Scottishdreams1991 · 13/06/2023 11:45

Bananananananananana · 13/06/2023 11:03

Abortion is a choice, being murdered whilst pregnant isn't.

Its not about murder.

She's specifically asking why it's ok (according to some posters) to unlawfully kill a 32-34 week fetus if you are the mother.

But not ok for a third party to kill a fetus, such as if the mother is attacked or killed. We'd all say that killing somebody else's fetus is abhorrent and deserves a charge in relation to that act (in addition to assault or murder).

Fantastic way to put it!!

RoseslnTheHospital · 13/06/2023 11:45

Not just not prosecuted, no one could legally stop her. Although I'm sure some of the people posting here would be keen to imprison women for that sort of thing if they could.

ButterCrackers · 13/06/2023 11:48

She could have had the baby and given it for adoption. A night in hospital instead of two years in prison.

caringcarer · 13/06/2023 11:50

ZeroFucksGivenToday · 12/06/2023 17:37

She knew she was pregnant in the December. Didn't arrange to speak to BPAS until May. She searched for "how to abort a baby at 30 weeks". I'm fully pro-choice but bloody hell.
She lied to the team to get the medication for under 10 week abortion, and admitted she'd done that in police interview. She may have not known how far gone she was, but internet searches show she fully expected to be past 24 weeks.

it's a desperately sad case all around, and I agree she needs help, but she could have accessed support earlier.

Im not completely sure how I feel about the custodial sentence. She knew what she was doing. But equally what a sorry mess and her being imprisoned doesn't actually achieve anything.

If it achieved just one other woman doing the same it is worth it. This woman could have gone to her GP and asked for an abortion. There is just no excuse for her behaviour..

drstranger · 13/06/2023 11:54

I agree the baby could have been put up for adoption. I'm all for abortion rights but this is just so sad, babies can be and are born at that stage and are perfectly healthy.

I read this morning the baby was another man's and she had moved back in with her partner or something along those lines.

Q2C4 · 13/06/2023 11:56

Clymene · 12/06/2023 17:39

If you're judging a woman for having an abortion at any time for any reason, you're not fully pro choice.

How can an abortion at 32 weeks be ok but killing a baby who was born alive at 32 weeks be murder?

caringcarer · 13/06/2023 11:56

Cottagecheeseisnotcheese · 12/06/2023 18:17

I think there is public support for abortion before 12-15 weeks for any reason , and after 12-15 weeks upto results of anomaly scan ( around 20-24 ) weeks involving doctors signing it off, after 24 weeks should be very very rare ( as it already is)
I think public opinion is very much against the termination of a pregnancy of a healthy child (that would almost certainly would survive if born at that point) after 30 weeks for sure probably after 24-26 weeks

I think this is true. I would say most women would agree up to 16 weeks for any reason, then up to 24 weeks if severe abnormalities and doctor signs it off, after 25 weeks it would survive if born then if Mum does not want to keep baby she should give birth and hand it over for adoption.

Lolitaisfree · 13/06/2023 11:57

Scottishdreams1991 · 13/06/2023 11:44

If a women smokes and drinks late pregnancy should she go ro prison tho? especially if her baby is stillborn? How about the babies born with a heroin addiction. Should there mum go to prison?

Straw man.

Those women are not intentionally wanting to end the life of their foetus.

The woman in this case was. And did.

Isthatascratchonmygrandmother · 13/06/2023 11:59

SoloMamabyChoice · 12/06/2023 18:31

For all those saying she decided to kill the nearly term foetus before giving birth to it because of mental health reasons and this should thus mean she does not face charges: had she not taken the pills knowing she was at this point carrying a child that was able to survive, she would likely have birthed a live baby (instead of birthing a dead one - this is not ‘abortion’ in the sense of bleeding heavily). If she did not want to have another child/felt unable to have another child at this point in her pregnancy then birthing her child alive would have allowed said baby to be adopted and live out its life.
So yes, her mental health must have been impacted before her decision and certainly after. But would you also argue that eg a father struggling anxiety who is struggling say three weeks later with a term baby at home who shakes said baby in a moment of feeling extremely overwhelmed ending this child’s life, should not face any legal consequences?

Exactly this. Mental Health can be used to excuse any number of crimes. The more we learn about the psych the more we can easily attribute it's contribution to crimes and motives. I genuinely do not know the answer. I have PMDD and I know I am not in control of my thoughts during my flare ups. I love life, but my mind is telling me to kill myself. Its rough out there people, I wish I had the answers to these questions. Who do we choose to excuse on the basis of their past trauma/mental health and who do we hold liable for their actions? It's alot to think about.

Babyboomtastic · 13/06/2023 12:01

The uk already has some of the most relaxed abortion laws in the world. I'd very much caution against trying to get them changed as it could move in either direction.

The 'abortion should be available throughout pregnancy' idea is in place in very few countries in the world. Australia and China are the only ones I've come across where it is actually a 'thing'. There are a handful of other countries where abortion is notionally unrestricted (Canada and Vietnam for example) but in reality no healthcare provider offers abortions over a limit (24w in canada, 18w in Vietnam).

There are other countries where it is unrestricted but you have to jump through a lot of hoops - like go before a committee for approval.

Many countries are 12 weeks, some a bit later, and a few 20-24.

ButterCrackers · 13/06/2023 12:05

caringcarer · 13/06/2023 11:56

I think this is true. I would say most women would agree up to 16 weeks for any reason, then up to 24 weeks if severe abnormalities and doctor signs it off, after 25 weeks it would survive if born then if Mum does not want to keep baby she should give birth and hand it over for adoption.

Give the baby to the dad to bring up. She names the dad, dna test and he can parent his child. Make that a law. It would increase condom use for sure.

Lovepeaceunderstanding · 13/06/2023 12:07

Yes she should go to prison and while she is there she should be sterilised.

MakesMeFeelSad · 13/06/2023 12:17

oakleaffy · 13/06/2023 10:09

From what I gather, ( looking at various news outlets) it was her lies and deceptions- and pleading “ Not guilty “ that antagonised the Court.

Judge specifically mentioned this.

Its not about antagonising the court, there are sentancing guidelines and because she pleaded guilty quite late he was unable to take off as much from the sentance as he would have been able to if she had pleaded guilty earlier

As her sentence was still over 2 years because of that they were unable to give a suspended sentence

Labtastic · 13/06/2023 12:24

Lovepeaceunderstanding · 13/06/2023 12:07

Yes she should go to prison and while she is there she should be sterilised.

Love the juxtaposition of this comment, and your username

JenniferBooth · 13/06/2023 12:26

How many violent men who have beaten their pregnant girlfriends so bad that she lost the baby are doing time for it?

Babyboomtastic · 13/06/2023 12:38

JenniferBooth · 13/06/2023 12:26

How many violent men who have beaten their pregnant girlfriends so bad that she lost the baby are doing time for it?

More than women bringing about their own late abortions. Many are only prosecuted for the assault on the mum, as cold destruction is quite difficult to prove, but in reality, sentence will reflect the reasons for the assault and likely be elevated as a result.

But there are men in prison for the offence of chuld destruction. Asa Davison, who was given a life sentence for it, Nicholas Leaning, serving a sentence of 10 years for attempted child destruction and assault.

It does happen, perhaps not enough. You've got to price the baby was 28w+ gestation and intention to kill. So mum being beaten up and the baby dies isn't enough...

The victim of the oftener is the baby, not the mum. The offence reflects the seriousness of deliberate killing of a child of that gestation. If the offence is used more widely, then that would apply to women as much as men (it was the original offence this woman was prosecuted for).

Nutellaonall · 13/06/2023 12:39

Solomamababy you are comparing murdering an actual living breathing child as opposed to taking some pills. I do not understand for a second how you can relate the two things.

Once a child is born they are a person in their own right. Until then they are just an extension of the mother and the mother should be able do to her own body whatever she pleases or where does it stop? Are we going to start arresting pregnant women that are having a few glasses of prosseco!

I seriously cannot believe that number of people that think it is right this woman has gone to jail.

Isthatascratchonmygrandmother · 13/06/2023 12:39

Labtastic · 13/06/2023 12:24

Love the juxtaposition of this comment, and your username

🤣🤣

AgathaSpencerGregson · 13/06/2023 12:41

Gothambutnotahamster · 13/06/2023 11:12

Couldn't agree more.

Why though? Why do you think the US position - which was based on judicial interpretation of a written constitution- is comparable to a statutory settlement which has endured for almost 60 years?
do people genuinely not understand the difference between case law and statute? Is this the problem?

FlippyFloppyFlappy · 13/06/2023 12:41

Nutellaonall · 13/06/2023 12:39

Solomamababy you are comparing murdering an actual living breathing child as opposed to taking some pills. I do not understand for a second how you can relate the two things.

Once a child is born they are a person in their own right. Until then they are just an extension of the mother and the mother should be able do to her own body whatever she pleases or where does it stop? Are we going to start arresting pregnant women that are having a few glasses of prosseco!

I seriously cannot believe that number of people that think it is right this woman has gone to jail.

What do you think the punishment should be? I personally think the decision was the right one.

Nutellaonall · 13/06/2023 12:43

And I would argue that child destruction at the hands of the man is also not comparable. That is the harm to somebody else. That is the fundamental difference. We can do what we like to ourselves. We cannot do it to someone else! Not to mention that beating somebody up is slightly different to taking a pill.

Nutellaonall · 13/06/2023 12:44

I don't think she should be punished. I think she should have councelling. I think the NHS is in the wrong for supplying her with the drugs without assessing her in person.

twoandcooplease · 13/06/2023 12:48

Nutellaonall · 13/06/2023 12:44

I don't think she should be punished. I think she should have councelling. I think the NHS is in the wrong for supplying her with the drugs without assessing her in person.

It was during Covid that she got the medicine over the phone illegally and not from the NHS, from BPAS

Betsybetty · 13/06/2023 12:48

Solomamababy you are comparing murdering an actual living breathing child as opposed to taking some pills. I do not understand for a second how you can relate the two things.

How can you not relate these two things? at 32 weeks (or 34) the foetus is viable. Meaning this is the body of another person. It is a baby. Has a brain, fully developed nervous system. She is not simply a body “extension” like my toe. So you are saying if the baby was born premature and then killed than it is murder, but simply remaining inside she can be killed at this stage, with no percussions? So the difference is being wanted and unwanted. If unwanted, she can be killed, up until 40 weeks. no problem. If wanted, then someone stabbed the mother’s belly, that’s is murder. Is this not discriminatory to the baby?

I can’t believe how people are minimising the scale of what happened. Taking some pills. Fgs...

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