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There we go Schofield has admitted ‘affair’

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muppetmayhem · 26/05/2023 18:34

Front page of the daily mail for my sins.

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SomeonTookMyAnonymousUserName · 27/05/2023 09:20

Dazedandbemused0 · 27/05/2023 03:24

Sorry but WHY is his love life anyone’s business except his own?! This is bizarre. Why on earth does he need to tell anyone? Nobody owes anyone their personal life! We are all entitled to privacy.

Are you reading ANY of this? His 'love life'? The man groomed a child FFS. If you class that as a love life, I despair.

Superdupes · 27/05/2023 09:23

I haven't RTWT so sorry if this has already been said but I'm assuming PS's super injunction is coming to an end (or he can't afford to keep paying for it) so he's admitted to this as damage limitation before it all comes out in an even worse way. What a wanker.

BordoisAgain · 27/05/2023 09:24

CherryCokeFanatic · 27/05/2023 09:16

Can anyone share/confirm the facts:

He knew the boy since 10

Later he got him the job. How old was he when he started working for TM?

There is apparently a video clip of them on a date? Anyone got the link? And how old was the lad then?

When Phil says legal but unwise, I read this to mean the lad was at least 16 before sexual activity took place? If he was 18 surely he would have used wording to imply they were consenting adults rather than it just being legal?

Yes, he first met the boy aged 10.

Tattle has all the evidence, some of it has been collated here: https://limegoss.com/phillip-schofield-runner/

Phillip Schofield this morning coming out

Phillip Schofield Runner - The Latest About His Personal Assistant

Rumours surrounding Phillip Schofield have been swirling since he came as out during This Morning

https://limegoss.com/phillip-schofield-runner

Babyhustwabtstodance · 27/05/2023 09:24

CherryCokeFanatic · 27/05/2023 09:16

Can anyone share/confirm the facts:

He knew the boy since 10

Later he got him the job. How old was he when he started working for TM?

There is apparently a video clip of them on a date? Anyone got the link? And how old was the lad then?

When Phil says legal but unwise, I read this to mean the lad was at least 16 before sexual activity took place? If he was 18 surely he would have used wording to imply they were consenting adults rather than it just being legal?

He was 19/20 when he started as a runner for TM.

Tillyteacup · 27/05/2023 09:25

Sorry but I dint actually see what he’s done wrong really. He had a consensual relationship with another adult not underage albeit much younger than him. People have affairs all the time. Unless there is more to it I’m struggling to see why he is being vilified just for this.

MrsSkylerWhite · 27/05/2023 09:25

ODFOx · Yesterday 18:47

He had an affair with another consenting adult. FGS the 'mystery' and conjecture has made it far worse than it ever was.
If he'd come clean about the affair when he came out it would be water under the bridge by now.”

You’d be comfortable with a 50 something man in a position of power in the workplace having a sexual relationship with an 18 year old “woman” in a junior role then having her fired when he’d tired of her?

caringcarer · 27/05/2023 09:25

So when he was married to Stephanie he was having sex with a boy a lot younger than his own children and sounds like he could have groomed them too. Vile man.

ohfuckedit · 27/05/2023 09:26

I'm confused! This came out when he came out as gay? I heard about this affair with a young runner well over a year ago? And through social media not a friend of a friend or something like that. Im not excusing it, I'm glad to see some repercussions but it had been so long since wind of this broke that I thought it had been brushed under the rug. How come he's now losing his job and being publicly shamed for it but he wasn't at the time?

RedToothBrush · 27/05/2023 09:27

Softoprider · 27/05/2023 09:16

OK so now you've had your feeding frenzy. Walk away and leave the guy alone. And no I am not him. It's threads like this that really make me feel sad and at times lash out at numpties who gobble up all the gossip. Keyboard warriors the lot of you. One day I will get permanently banned from here because it seems I can't really stomach the bile and lash out. Best behaviour from now on does not really cut it.
I like to believe that most people are good and have good in them but a massive percentage of the bad are seemingly posting here today... on this thread

Or alternatively. You know fuck all about safeguarding, don't have safeguarding awareness and have never done safeguarding training.

Anyone who has worked in a situation where it's required for working with children or young adults knows that there is an issue with power dynamics and it's why relationships of any kind with someone in education / training / youth groups if you are their mentor are firmly regarded as disciplinary matters.

They don't HAVE to be illegal to be 'unwise' as Schofield puts it. They are still not ok and represent a potential abuse of power over someone vulnerable.

Schofield in saying he was unwise is admitting he broke these safeguarding protocols. Protocols which are in place to also protect the adults as well as the young people involved. In breaking the known protocol, he has knowingly screwed himself. So can not whine about his privacy. That's the entire point. The protocols are about protecting his privacy but he chose to ignore this.

PeaceLilyCactus · 27/05/2023 09:27

It’s not an affair when a grown adult grooms a teenager they have a lot of power over - it’s abuse. He’s taken advantage of this young man. I think there’s a lot of enablers and apologists around who don’t understand the difference. Being legal doesn’t make it morally right.

BordoisAgain · 27/05/2023 09:27

Tillyteacup · 27/05/2023 09:25

Sorry but I dint actually see what he’s done wrong really. He had a consensual relationship with another adult not underage albeit much younger than him. People have affairs all the time. Unless there is more to it I’m struggling to see why he is being vilified just for this.

It's comments like this that make it easier for groomers to get away with their actions.

AutumnCrow · 27/05/2023 09:28

SomeonTookMyAnonymousUserName · 27/05/2023 09:20

Are you reading ANY of this? His 'love life'? The man groomed a child FFS. If you class that as a love life, I despair.

I think there a lot of very stupid and deeply unpleasant people in the world, some of whom have gravitated to MN.

There were a lot of posters on here defending J Savile immediately after he died, and Prince Andrew, using the same arguments: entitled to privacy, leave him alone, none of our business, these youngsters wanted it, charidee work, nothing illegal. It’s grim.

Dillydollydingdong · 27/05/2023 09:29

So what? It happens every day. All these "holier than thou" types using it as a stick to beat him with. Let he who is without sin cast the first stone. He's gay, he had a relationship with a young man, but not underage. Maybe his wife knew about it anyway...

RhinoMoveFast · 27/05/2023 09:29

TimeLady · 27/05/2023 09:12

The sh!t really seemed to start to hit the fan when the news came out about PS's brother's conviction. The grooming allegations relating to MM have been around for some time. That's not's what's caused this latest bomb to go off.

My guess (and it's only a guess) is that there is a perceived connection to his brother's case and that's why everyone - HW, ITV, his agent - is now jumping ship as fast and as publicly as they can.

EH is hell bent on extracting revenge - he won't let this story quietly fade away.

I am not aware of all I know.

It seems to me EH & RL saw a safeguarding risk, they made a complaint, were then forced to humiliate themselves at work and do the 'brave' worship pat on the back to a man, in his big come out, the man they knew was a groomer, they would then go on to be sacked anyway and likely called phobes and nothing was done about that complaint.

I would be bitter too if that is how things happened.

I don't know how they did the fake pat on the back thing after the complaint, I wouldn't be able to do that.

Onefootinthegroove · 27/05/2023 09:30

Tillyteacup · 27/05/2023 09:25

Sorry but I dint actually see what he’s done wrong really. He had a consensual relationship with another adult not underage albeit much younger than him. People have affairs all the time. Unless there is more to it I’m struggling to see why he is being vilified just for this.

He knew him from age 10
He engaged with him on social media from the age of 14
He groomed him.

KatyKopykat · 27/05/2023 09:30

PeaceLilyCactus · 27/05/2023 09:27

It’s not an affair when a grown adult grooms a teenager they have a lot of power over - it’s abuse. He’s taken advantage of this young man. I think there’s a lot of enablers and apologists around who don’t understand the difference. Being legal doesn’t make it morally right.

He's described it as either an affair or a relationship. Classic minimizing.

BordoisAgain · 27/05/2023 09:32

ohfuckedit · 27/05/2023 09:26

I'm confused! This came out when he came out as gay? I heard about this affair with a young runner well over a year ago? And through social media not a friend of a friend or something like that. Im not excusing it, I'm glad to see some repercussions but it had been so long since wind of this broke that I thought it had been brushed under the rug. How come he's now losing his job and being publicly shamed for it but he wasn't at the time?

Because "the public" are now ready to listen and accept what was being said as true. Even now we have people on this thread who still don't see the problem and making excuses.

The court of public opinion is still a thing and you can get away with a lot of dodgy things if you're in favour, especially with a background threat of legal action.

The tide is turning on a lot of things that people were being villified for speaking out about now, thank goodness!

RedToothBrush · 27/05/2023 09:32

Dillydollydingdong · 27/05/2023 09:29

So what? It happens every day. All these "holier than thou" types using it as a stick to beat him with. Let he who is without sin cast the first stone. He's gay, he had a relationship with a young man, but not underage. Maybe his wife knew about it anyway...

If DH did this with one of his scouts, he would be treated the same as Schofield. If not investigated by the police.

Cos safeguarding.

DunkingMyDonuts · 27/05/2023 09:33

If Eamonn and Ruth knew about this years ago (which is why they all fell out I presume) why is he being so loud now about an ITV coverup? It just makes him look like a hypocrite for going along with the hand-holding "coming out live on TV" façade.

And as for HW willingly taking her family, including a young son, on holiday with PS when she MUST have at the very least have heard the rumours....😡

TimeLady · 27/05/2023 09:34

Haffiana · 27/05/2023 09:19

The most significant clue is that his management company have dumped him.

They would not do this merely because he had an affair with a much younger man at work.

There is much more that has not yet been made public.

Yep, that's my take on it too. Whatever is about to be revealed in the coming days/weeks is career-ending.

RhinoMoveFast · 27/05/2023 09:37

DunkingMyDonuts · 27/05/2023 09:33

If Eamonn and Ruth knew about this years ago (which is why they all fell out I presume) why is he being so loud now about an ITV coverup? It just makes him look like a hypocrite for going along with the hand-holding "coming out live on TV" façade.

And as for HW willingly taking her family, including a young son, on holiday with PS when she MUST have at the very least have heard the rumours....😡

I gather some of the holidays were with Timothy and Phillip.

ICalledYouLastNightFromGlasgow · 27/05/2023 09:40

Holly must have known. She's going to have to deny knowing, but I'm wondering if schofield will say she knew. It's all so disgusting that this has been allowed to happen, again. When will we learn. Holly is hopefully toast too.

Hellenabe · 27/05/2023 09:41

Is the TS boy related to them both

RedToothBrush · 27/05/2023 09:42

TimeLady · 27/05/2023 09:34

Yep, that's my take on it too. Whatever is about to be revealed in the coming days/weeks is career-ending.

They stuck by him all last week. And all this week. Despite the publicity. THEN they dropped him when he admitted the relationship.

Admissions like this usually come after a celebrity has had a call from the Mail telling them they are about to drop an exclusive tell-all of some description.

Basically someone has threatened to spill the beans and the celebrity is given their 'opportunity' to give their right to reply.

So you would guess that a colleague or the ex are about to do a story in one of the Sundays.

And there's a possibility of previous exs also being willing to now come forward.

Schofield's statement was a 'damage limitation' statement - and his agent dropped him immediately on this. It was not a confession / taking responsibility off his own back. It was forced out of him.

Watch social media about 9/10pm Saturday night when it drops.

Topee · 27/05/2023 09:43

The rumours about his relationship with MM and the allegation that he had an injunction have been in the public domain for some time.

I find it difficult to believe that those working on This Morning during the period of time involved had no knowledge of it. It is disgusting that those in a position to do something about it didn’t.

I’m really surprised that there’s people on here that are seeing no issue with it.

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