Dont have any kind of relationship with Ex H. We don’t have much contact really as he doesn’t want to see children/ children do not want to him, if any at all it goes through my DP as he was extremely abusive to me and the children when we were married. We have been separated 7 years and we are both married to other people, they have been together longer than us.
I have been told some information from an extremely reliable source. He’s slept with two different women while away for the weekend with work last year.
I don’t know his wife, he’s told her that I am the extremely abusive one, I won’t go into details but that we engage in illegal activities etc, she seems pretty scared of me, puts her head down if I’m in the car, hides behind the door on the odd occasion I’ve seen her. I know that she came from an abusive relationship previously and I’ve always been concerned for her and her children that she’d come from one abusive man and I knew she’d ended up with another one. He also cheated on me while we were married. Do I just ignore what I’ve been told as it’s none of my business? I have no way of telling her, but regardless she would never believe me.