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Working or Middle Class?

188 replies

WedTheBed · 01/05/2023 03:36

What’s the difference between them? As in.. what does one have to be middle class that working class don’t have?

I was talking to my friend, and I made a comment about being working class which she looked at me in shock and said I’m not working class, I’m middle.. but I don’t know how. I feel like we don’t really have anything to show to be middle class?😂

light hearted* I’m just interested to see what people interpret.

OP posts:
Reugny · 01/05/2023 08:08

frozendaisy · 01/05/2023 07:47

Working class bath - radox
Middle class bath - bath melts

Working class dinner - sausage and chips
Middle class dinner - seafood linguine

Working class theatre - panto
Middle class theatre - shakespeare

Working class cinema - James Bond
Middle class cinema - eternal sunshine of the spotless mind

Working class Saturday evening - couple of pints in pub back home to watch the snooker
Middle class Saturday evening - dinner party and discussing schools and Plato

What people really want to know about is money though, how much more money do I have than you.
Only way I can see to divide this, if you pay 40% and above tax you are middle class. Below working. Regardless of job.

Wrong.

Some of the people I hang out with are definitely upper middle class due to their up bringing and own jobs.

They like and actually prefer the WC items you mentioned, and in some cases e.g. panto and Shakespeare see both as of equal cultural value.

frozendaisy · 01/05/2023 08:09

Oopswediditagain2023 · 01/05/2023 07:47

I did my dissertation on this. Basically my definition is that it's based on your background. You can of course go up the ladder if you wish, but being WC has a unique set of positive values that you're brought up with. As PP said, "helping your neighbour" would be one, old fashioned values that are ingrained in WC culture. Whereas MC is generally more individualistic as a rule.

So becoming more individualist and not helping neighbours is "going up the ladder"?

Not a very good ladder is it.

katienana · 01/05/2023 08:09

SleepingStandingUp · 01/05/2023 07:44

Try this op https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/special/2013/newsspec_5093/index.stm

I'm ok with emergent service worker. Cash poor, culture rich.

I got elite! I think because we go to museums and high household income. Parameters probably need adjusting after 10 years. I did go to a red brick uni but first generation of my family to do so. I'd say I could pass for working or middle class, depending on who I'm with.

SeasonsBleatings · 01/05/2023 08:10

For that calculator to be even slightly accurate you need to input your 2013 income etc don't you?

frozendaisy · 01/05/2023 08:12

Reugny · 01/05/2023 08:08

Wrong.

Some of the people I hang out with are definitely upper middle class due to their up bringing and own jobs.

They like and actually prefer the WC items you mentioned, and in some cases e.g. panto and Shakespeare see both as of equal cultural value.

No need to mark me I wasn't being serious :-)

berksandbeyond · 01/05/2023 08:12

SleepingStandingUp · 01/05/2023 07:44

Try this op https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/special/2013/newsspec_5093/index.stm

I'm ok with emergent service worker. Cash poor, culture rich.

According to this I am elite 😂

I am not sure about that, but I would say probably middle class. Own our home in leafy suburb in Home Counties, 2 professional jobs, 2 cars one of which is a ‘premium car’, we have a cleaner, travel a lot…

Fatandfunny · 01/05/2023 08:13

SeasonsBleatings · 01/05/2023 08:01

I'm interested in posters citing their parents' class as how they identify. I strongly believe that how you are raised doesn't necessary 'carry over' to current class (although definitely can give you an enormous advantage or disadvantage).

I was raised solidly lower working class in an unemployed household living on benefits. Now PhD qualified and working in a professional and well-paid role so consider myself middle class rather than working class.

Agree, irs not about your parents, if so the definition would be what did your parents do. Any calculators would be about what did your parents do. Your class is uou. As an adult. Your parents class is theirs.

Reugny · 01/05/2023 08:13

frozendaisy · 01/05/2023 07:18

Which commentators?
Never heard it on the BBC, but then they do have standards that are regulated.
Are you talking about the radio shows, LBC, GB news type ones? Because they are made to make people dislike each other. And it works. Adding in feral, I assume it's to appeal to the "they shouldn't spend MY taxpayer money" brigade.

And it makes some grunts feel better I guess, having a whole supposed class of people beneath them.

None of the presenters on LBC whether they are left wing or right wing would refer to groups of people feral.

One or two could refer to an individual who was a criminal and had done particular acts as feral.

curlywhirled · 01/05/2023 08:13

SleepingStandingUp · 01/05/2023 07:44

Try this op https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/special/2013/newsspec_5093/index.stm

I'm ok with emergent service worker. Cash poor, culture rich.

According to this I'm established middle class... unless DH and I go separate ways and I'm immediately plummeted to emergent service worker as I'd be poorer. It's madness as I'm still me in the same job and with the same friends and interests.

I suppose I just won't be able to afford the theatre trips anymore!

MsDeb · 01/05/2023 08:14

@FourTeaFallOut not terrible written at all, its interesting to know I'm part of something by default that I've never considered.

MsDeb · 01/05/2023 08:15
  • terribly, not terrible.
frozendaisy · 01/05/2023 08:15

There are nice people and grunts in all walks of life, shouldn't that be more how we judge people not some moving "class" target.

billysboy · 01/05/2023 08:15

Blimey , just did the calculator and it suggested Elite lol

Not having matching furniture is the biggest indicator of class for me

frozendaisy · 01/05/2023 08:17

Reugny · 01/05/2023 08:13

None of the presenters on LBC whether they are left wing or right wing would refer to groups of people feral.

One or two could refer to an individual who was a criminal and had done particular acts as feral.

So which commentators do then?

Because I've not heard it, and being a feral myself, am quite interested in how feral is portrayed.

Boomboom22 · 01/05/2023 08:19

It's often said you don't change class but your kids do. So even after uni etc wc remain wc but their kids are mc. Can go the other way too.

Catspyjamas17 · 01/05/2023 08:19

I have a job in a traditional profession and people would laugh if I called myself anything other than middle class nowadays. But I come from a long line of miners, potters, plumbers and other doing skilled/semi-skilled full on manual work and labouring as far back as I've managed to go in my family tree. My mum did banking/office work and I was the first one to go to university and move out of the area. So definitely working class/LMC background which is absolutely a big part of who I am today.

mindutopia · 01/05/2023 08:20

Sociologist here, class in the UK has not so much to do with what job you do or even necessarily what jobs your parents did, but about identity and social and cultural capital (the knowledge, experiences, networks you can call on to navigate your way in society).

For example, Dh’s parents had jobs that are borderline wc/mc but he went to private school (lots of financial support from family and a bursary), he went to uni, has a business in a traditional ‘trade’ (if you were to look at him, you’d assume he’s wc because it’s manual and he comes home filthy), but makes well over £100k a year, even as a ‘poor student’ was travelling, taking part in sports that are quite mc (think skiing, diving, etc). All friends very mc due to social networks growing up and in uni.

It’s much more complex than just what you do for work, particularly as most of our socialising takes place outside of work, within family/via other family members.

Ohow · 01/05/2023 08:20

The vast majority of civil servants have unskilled roles. Obviously there are exceptions but generally I’d say it’s a working class job.

I don't think you understand the civil service or how fast streamers work. Of whom about 50% come from selective state or private schools.

ShoesoftheWorld · 01/05/2023 08:21

Declaring people 'feral' is dehumanising. Asserting that an entire group of people serve 'no useful purpose to society' is 1930s Germany territory.

Reugny · 01/05/2023 08:21

frozendaisy · 01/05/2023 08:12

No need to mark me I wasn't being serious :-)

On these threads when you do cultural comparisons they have to be called out for being shit otherwise foreign posters believe such stereotypes.

Sudeko · 01/05/2023 08:22

I think that a lot of people who identify as middle class are really upper working class. When the classifications for mc were split into two levels, wc should have been split into upper and lower as well. IMO, you need to have a solid family history in the professions going back several generations to be any kind of middle class. So many people graduate nowadays that going to university is not a marker of anything.

willWillSmithsmith · 01/05/2023 08:23

YaWeeFurryBastard · 01/05/2023 06:05

Yes doctor/lawyer/accountant is middle class. Nurse is a working class job as is civil servant unless you’re the PM!

Surely civil servants are white collar workers, managers, accountants etc pretty middle class I would say. My dad worked in the civil service but it was in the mailroom and we were working class.

badgermushrooms · 01/05/2023 08:25

The old working/middle class divide is only meaningful culturally now. In my team at work we have people with degrees or without, with wealthy parents or without, whose holidays are cultural city breaks or all inclusive in English language resorts, who liked Blur or Oasis in the 90s. We all do the same job and earn the same - it doesn't matter, these are just cultural markers. The thing we should be concerning ourselves with is the divide between those of us who need to work for a living and those whose income derives from having money - cash investments, landlords etc. It doesn't matter what music you listen to if you're trapped paying someone else's mortgage.

But of course it suits the current ruling elite to set ourselves against each other rather than addressing the underlying problem, which is that there is not enough of anything to go round due to a small percentage of the population hoarding all the wealth and using that wealth to extract more and more from us.

ShoesoftheWorld · 01/05/2023 08:26

I take the point about cultural capital, but class prejudice is baked into the very concept (not the concept itself but the definitions we fill it with). Who decides what's valuable and class-advancing 'culture' and what isn't?

Any 'class' concept implies a stratification of society into above/below that should be obsolete in our day (look at the language people are using on here re that (itself class-prejudice-ridden) BBC calculator - e.g. 'plummeting' down to service worker). I don't think we as a society should be keeping reinventing and breathing new life into these concepts.

Reasonableadjustments · 01/05/2023 08:26

I'm from a very working class background. My dad worked in a factory and my mum in a shop part time.

I still consider myself working class even though I've a degree and don't work a manual job.