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"High earners"

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JoanThursday1972 · 24/04/2023 09:08

I see this a lot on here. Exactly what makes someone a high earner? Over a specific figure? A high earner in Hartlepool will not be the same as one in the City of London. How high is high?

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Willowtre1 · 24/04/2023 14:16

A very high earner would be over 180k

ShinyAppleDreamingOfTheSea · 24/04/2023 14:20

RudsyFarmer · 24/04/2023 09:24

It’s over 100k for me too. DP earns £120k and I know that puts him in the top 5% or something in the country. Weirdly though we live more frugally than most people I know. Old cars, rarely have holidays, no beauty treatments, no hairdressers. The kids do do a million and one extra curriculars so money does get spent there. State schools. I always get the impression that Mumsnet thinks those people warming over 100k are somehow living like kings. Not in my experience.

We have a family income less than half of that . Only one DC - now grown up but when he was younger he did extra curricular activities and sports clubs. We have always managed a couple of holidays a year - including at least one abroad and eaten out regularly . I have always had my hair coloured regularly too.

I imagine there is a big difference in our housing costs .

I would say over £70k is high income.

BellePeppa · 24/04/2023 14:26

iliketobooogie · 24/04/2023 13:24

This!

The problem is we all make assumptions on other people's financial situations because we don't know what's going on.
So if someone says a 'high earner' we all think a well-off person, but if could be someone forking out thousands every month on debt and a gambling problem.

I would say a high earner is someone in the higher tax bracket, but that doesn't mean a wealthy person. You're wealthy if your high value assets are owned IMO.

They’re still a high earner regardless if they’re gambling it away or not. Is Elon Musk going to say he’s not a high earner because building his own rockets is just so expensive he doesn’t have much left over for luxuries. I don’t think the thread is about the differences between a high earner and a wealthy person.

BranchGold · 24/04/2023 14:30

The problem is Elon musk probably doesn’t qualify as a high earner @BellePeppa , his tax obligations will be at the absolute minimum allowable. His ‘income’ won’t be declared through the channels that the standard PAYE employee is.

ShinyAppleDreamingOfTheSea · 24/04/2023 14:35

YaWeeFurryBastard · 24/04/2023 11:55

Our household income is £200k but I wouldn’t consider us high earners, we actually live in a 1 bed flat in Sunderland and share a 2002 Nissan micra which we limit to using twice a week since Aldi is only a 25 minute walk away. I don’t understand how people manage to have two cars or ever go on holiday, MUST all be on credit cards or gifts from family.

Meanwhile in the real world 🙄🙄🙄

🤣🤣🤣

And I can see the OP's comment after yours that they didn't even pick up on your irony . Hilarious . Or maybe not .....

SecretSunflower · 24/04/2023 14:45

I'm a high earner - but money really does not buy health or happiness.
And as for it mitigating misery - only to a certain extent. I've spent two weeks in A and E wondering if I would live or die. Money is no help there.

Bedtimemode · 24/04/2023 14:45

Acting like anything around d £100k a more is not a high salary, in any part of the country is just wilfully ignorant. It doesnt take much thought or life experience to work out that it is a huge amount and way above average. I can't believe people intelligent enough to earn that much don't know that.

ShinyAppleDreamingOfTheSea · 24/04/2023 14:46

This question needs reframing as “high/low disposable income”

Of course it doesn't . Why should the person on £100k PA get to feel impoverished with less disposable income because they are paying the mortgage on a 5 bed detached property with grounds?

The only time this is relevant is in a comparison between an average wage person renting a two bed property in Nottingham vs someone on an average wage renting a similar property in London .

yakkyok · 24/04/2023 14:49

I think it depends on age and where you live - all relative really.

yea my older neighbour (an ex nurse) thinks 50k is a very high income. She has a 800k house & a 500k btl. Meanwhile my neighbours on the other side earn well but pay a shit ton of rent.

ShinyAppleDreamingOfTheSea · 24/04/2023 14:56

That's not the point of this thread though is it @yakkyok
If she is now retired she is expressing her understanding of a high salary based on when she was working .

yakkyok · 24/04/2023 16:21

@ShinyAppleDreamingOfTheSea why is it not the point? People opinion of what's a high earner is shaped by their own experience which can often be narrow or outdated.

JoanThursday1972 · 24/04/2023 16:34

ShinyAppleDreamingOfTheSea · 24/04/2023 14:35

🤣🤣🤣

And I can see the OP's comment after yours that they didn't even pick up on your irony . Hilarious . Or maybe not .....

Oh I did.

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JoanThursday1972 · 24/04/2023 16:35

ConfessionsOfAMumDramaQueen · 24/04/2023 14:16

I think to some extent the top 5% aren't the top 5%. It's the top 5% according to whats reported. The smart top 5% are self empolyed and 'pay themselves' much less while taking their actual wealth through other avenues. I bet the actual top 5% are probably managing to set themselves up looking like they're much further down the pole!

Back when EMA was available to college students, I remember there was one kid who would turn up for registration every day in the brand new audi his parents got him for his birthday, having driven from their 6 bed detached house, to collect his registration tick to get his EMA. The EMA you could supposedly only get if your household income was less than £20K ish a year. Both parents self employed.

I remember EMA. It was known as Extra Money for Alcohol.

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BashirWithTheGoodBeard · 24/04/2023 16:48

Outside the top few percent, it's subjective. Depends on age, stage, level of unacknowledged privilege, location, life experiences. I always feel quite well off as an adult because of not having had a pot to piss in growing up. But were I to start a thread referring to myself as well off on the income we're on, within about 5 minutes I'd hear from half a dozen posters whose grocery bills it wouldn't even cover.

Labraradabrador · 24/04/2023 16:49

TiredButDancing · 24/04/2023 13:50

But your £1500 is NOT the cheapest. I always find this amusing about people like this who live in London. they seem to think all their minimum wage cleaners, baristas, junior admin staff etc etc don't ALSO live in London? Do they just beam in from Yorkshire every day?

You ARE a high earner. You make choices to live in more expensive environments. It is absolutely true that your £1500 rent is higher than a similar home might be in Wales, but it doesn't change the fact that it's still significantly more than what most people are paying, yes, even in London. Just because you only see the ones earning the same or more than more, doesn't mean the rest don't exist.

You are tight in a really narrow sense - flatshares, student and retiree housing is sometimes available in London for under £1k. None of those would be acceptable (nor would you be accepted) as a family, or even a couple in most cases. The cheapest 2 bed I can see advertised in all of London is about £1,300

YetMoreNewBeginnings · 24/04/2023 16:59

BashirWithTheGoodBeard · 24/04/2023 16:48

Outside the top few percent, it's subjective. Depends on age, stage, level of unacknowledged privilege, location, life experiences. I always feel quite well off as an adult because of not having had a pot to piss in growing up. But were I to start a thread referring to myself as well off on the income we're on, within about 5 minutes I'd hear from half a dozen posters whose grocery bills it wouldn't even cover.

That it wouldn’t cover their grocery bill doesn’t make them not a high earner though.

A high earner with high spending is still a high earner. They just don’t have high leftover/disposable income.

BashirWithTheGoodBeard · 24/04/2023 17:00

YetMoreNewBeginnings · 24/04/2023 16:59

That it wouldn’t cover their grocery bill doesn’t make them not a high earner though.

A high earner with high spending is still a high earner. They just don’t have high leftover/disposable income.

Well yeah but it goes back to the point of how we decide whether the amount being discussed is high or not!

Tryingtokeepgoing · 24/04/2023 17:06

High earner, like middle or old age, is surely just a concept that’s slightly too far away from where an individual is at any point of time for them to recognise it’s actually them. Until you’re about 50, middle age is somewhere 20 years ahead of where you are. But at some point as you approach 70, old age becomes 20 years away, though you never actually get any closer to it ;)

Same with earnings…for me, high earner is always someone earning twice what I do, despite the fact that, objectively, I am one :)

gemstoneju · 18/07/2023 09:10

Depends where you live. Here in Northern Ireland that would be classed as a very high earner, average wage here is about £25K a year. It's a meaningless phrase really that doesn't really take into account regional variations, for instance our teachers are paid much less. Like 'well-off' - well, rent here is about £700-£900 pm for houses in the city and £600- £700 pm for more rural. That's very do-able if you're earning that kind of money.

You can buy a fairly okay house in Greater Belfast for anything around £120 K (ex authority even cheaper) though obviously prices rise in more 'desirable' areas. So someone on £65k would be very comfortable here.

1dayatatime · 18/07/2023 09:29

The top 1% of income earners pay 28% of all income tax receipts

amp.theguardian.com/business/2019/nov/13/richest-britain-income-tax-revenues-institute-fiscal-studies

Also the tax burden as a percentage of GDP is t its highest since the end of WW2 and Gov spending as a percentage of GDP is at its highest since the end of the 1970s.

So we are taxing more, spending more but still the country (NHS, education system etc) seems to be broken.

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