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"High earners"

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JoanThursday1972 · 24/04/2023 09:08

I see this a lot on here. Exactly what makes someone a high earner? Over a specific figure? A high earner in Hartlepool will not be the same as one in the City of London. How high is high?

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wingingit1987 · 24/04/2023 10:37

TheBeesKnee · 24/04/2023 09:15

How long is a piece of string?

I used to think a household income of £80k+ was high until we reached that and realised that actually it didn't stretch as far as you'd think and we still couldn't afford luxury holidays (but could definitely do a supermarket shop without thinking about a budget 🙄)

Now I reckon one person needs to earn maybe £100k? Difficult to say!

This is our situation. We earn about £85,000 as a household with me part time. I do not feel like a high earner by any stretch of the imagination. To me, £150,00 would probably be a high earner.

wherethewaterisdarker · 24/04/2023 10:37

BranchGold · 24/04/2023 09:12

I think the general rule is following the tax brackets, higher rate starting at £50k and the additional rate is £125k.

I think a big issue when discussing wealth and inequality currently, is the big push from media/government that talks about money mostly in terms of annual taxable income. Most of the wealth in the country/world is not held as earned salary income, but through holding assets such as property, shares, natural resources etc. it’s very much about letting the ‘little people’ squabble amongst themselves.

Absolutely nailed it.

50percentNamaste50percentGoFuckYourself · 24/04/2023 10:38

RudsyFarmer · 24/04/2023 09:24

It’s over 100k for me too. DP earns £120k and I know that puts him in the top 5% or something in the country. Weirdly though we live more frugally than most people I know. Old cars, rarely have holidays, no beauty treatments, no hairdressers. The kids do do a million and one extra curriculars so money does get spent there. State schools. I always get the impression that Mumsnet thinks those people warming over 100k are somehow living like kings. Not in my experience.

So where is all you money going?

I never understand these posts. "Oh we earn 5 times what a lot of you here do, but we drive a banger and never have a holiday. We're not rich or anything!!"

....well where are you spending it then? Coke and hookers or massive savings? You have tons of money, stop pretending you're one step from a foodbank. It's obscene.

wingingit1987 · 24/04/2023 10:38

Tabby87 · 24/04/2023 09:54

40% in Scotland at a much lower salary than England.

Yip- we are nurses and husband is on high tax. We really don’t have a huge take home wage.

YetMoreNewBeginnings · 24/04/2023 10:38

curlymacv · 24/04/2023 10:34

So true, it's actually quite funny how many people consider themselves "just getting by" on some mental figure like 120k because they chose to get a humongous mortgage, or whatever else.

I'd consider anybody earning 50k+ a high-earner. I really don't think most people ever hit earning that much around where I live.

I think people forget sometimes that the best thing high earning buys you is choices.

if you have a high mortgage, lots of expenses and the likes you can make changes. It might mean career change and drastic change, but the option is there somewhere.

if you’re on min wage, in a one bed social housing place, and already cut to the bones you have nowhere to go.

Babdoc · 24/04/2023 10:43

Well in Scotland, according to the SNP, it’s anyone earning over £28K. That’s the threshold at which we pay more tax than the rest of the UK, as we are “high earners”.
Humza Useless is now pushing for an effectively 68% tax rate for the top tax band. Which will drive the few remaining wealthy people out of Scotland.

SavBlancTonight · 24/04/2023 10:46

I think technically it's probably anyone who is earning a substantial amount over the average. ONS says mean average in England is just shy of £40k [[https://uk.indeed.com/career-advice/pay-salary/average-uk-salary uk.indeed.com/career-advice/pay-salary/average-uk-salary so I'd say on that basis, it could be argued that anyone earning 25% higher than that is a high earner.

I tend to think of people on over £100k as high earners but then I work and live on the outskirts of London and am surrounded by lots of people in professional city jobs. I suspect the average income around here is significantly higher, which then skews what I think of as "high earner".

TheSnowyOwl · 24/04/2023 10:48

We live in an affluent area and whilst I don’t consider us as high earners, we are by many of these suggestions. However, we have the outgoings that mean it’s all used up.

I’d consider £250k+ a high earner.

Socialdistancechampion · 24/04/2023 10:48

Over 50k and the ability to asset hoard

OnlyFoolsnMothers · 24/04/2023 10:48

Over 100k.
A 55k earner isn’t living lavish by any stretch of the imagination, there’s no private school in that bracket.

Botw1 · 24/04/2023 10:49

@TheSnowyOwl

Everyone has outgoings

39starstartry · 24/04/2023 10:49

BranchGold · 24/04/2023 09:12

I think the general rule is following the tax brackets, higher rate starting at £50k and the additional rate is £125k.

I think a big issue when discussing wealth and inequality currently, is the big push from media/government that talks about money mostly in terms of annual taxable income. Most of the wealth in the country/world is not held as earned salary income, but through holding assets such as property, shares, natural resources etc. it’s very much about letting the ‘little people’ squabble amongst themselves.

Completely agree!

GerbilsForever24 · 24/04/2023 10:53

TheSnowyOwl · 24/04/2023 10:48

We live in an affluent area and whilst I don’t consider us as high earners, we are by many of these suggestions. However, we have the outgoings that mean it’s all used up.

I’d consider £250k+ a high earner.

You can be a high earner and still not have much money. The two aren't mutually exclusive. Just like a low earner can still be wealthy - eg if they inherited a home so don't pay a mortgage or rent or have a separate income from investments/family etc.

namechangefortheflame · 24/04/2023 10:53

Depends on location I think. To me it's over £100k. By which I mean one salary. A combined salary of 100k doesn't make you a high earner.

The fact that you have large outgoings doesn't make you not a high earner.

As a female high earner I would love it if there were more women posting who were able to discuss their own salaries rather than their DH/DPs salaries. But that is by the by.

SpeckledlyHen · 24/04/2023 10:56

50percentNamaste50percentGoFuckYourself · 24/04/2023 10:38

So where is all you money going?

I never understand these posts. "Oh we earn 5 times what a lot of you here do, but we drive a banger and never have a holiday. We're not rich or anything!!"

....well where are you spending it then? Coke and hookers or massive savings? You have tons of money, stop pretending you're one step from a foodbank. It's obscene.

the poster didn’t say she had no money and was not pretending she was skint. She simply said she lived frugally which I guess is a decision for her to make.

A lot of people might be saving money rather than spending it.

I for one am a high earner (90k) and my husband is about (150k), however you probably wouldn’t think quite that much by looking at us. We own cars that are 5 and 6 years old, not flashy. My husbands car is just a cheap skoda run about. I do have a horse but I keep her locally and do her myself so no high livery costs etc.

I for one got into huge amount of debt in my 20’s and never want to be in that place again. We both are working hard at clearing our mortgage, upping our pension pots and saving for retirement. We have a nice life and can pretty much buy most things we want but are not flashy in anyway. Purely because we don’t want to be living a frugal existence in retirement.

Monkeybutt1 · 24/04/2023 11:03

We have a household income of 100K, we regularly have meals out, days out, I can do the food shopping without worrying about what we are spending. We have 1 child aged 10. DS goes to a state school.
We have a smallish mortgage, have no other debt and we own our car outright. We don't have a top of the range car as we both WFH so its not needed.
Neither of us are overly concerned with labels, we do have the odd item of designer clothing (Tommy Hillfiger level of cost, not Gucci). I get my nails done now and then but I am not bothered about having it regularly.
We have a holiday abroad every year and a city break. Last year was Mexico for 2 weeks and then 4 days in Bruge.
From talking to friends who are in similar positions but have less disposable income the difference is they have the posh cars, usually on HP that they then have to pay for monthly. Some have a bigger house, we have a 4 bed detached in a lovely area, we could afford a bigger house but its just not needed.
We are not frugal but we don't like to be ripped off, I will spend good money on something if we think its worth it.
We prefer to spend our money on experiences, holidays, days out rather than designer clothes/bags and nice cars.

SavBlancTonight · 24/04/2023 11:04

SpeckledlyHen · 24/04/2023 10:56

the poster didn’t say she had no money and was not pretending she was skint. She simply said she lived frugally which I guess is a decision for her to make.

A lot of people might be saving money rather than spending it.

I for one am a high earner (90k) and my husband is about (150k), however you probably wouldn’t think quite that much by looking at us. We own cars that are 5 and 6 years old, not flashy. My husbands car is just a cheap skoda run about. I do have a horse but I keep her locally and do her myself so no high livery costs etc.

I for one got into huge amount of debt in my 20’s and never want to be in that place again. We both are working hard at clearing our mortgage, upping our pension pots and saving for retirement. We have a nice life and can pretty much buy most things we want but are not flashy in anyway. Purely because we don’t want to be living a frugal existence in retirement.

This is all perfectly reasonable but I think one thing it misses out on is that being able to pay off mortgage quickly, increase pension savings and buy pretty much whatever you need does put you into the category of relative wealth. The point is that as higher earners, you have choices about what do with your money. You choose to save for a future retirement rather than buy expensive cars, but it's still a form of wealth and flexibility that simply doesn't exist for a lot of other people.

DH and I often feel a bit skint but the reality is that our combined income does make us high earners - not stratospheric, but high earners. We are lucky enough to have bought a home but our mortgage is still quite high and expensive because we're self employed and no one has ever been willing to give us a good interest rate (worse now, obviously). We also choose to spend a lot of money on things like kids activities and things that make our life better. I'm not going to say however that we're struggling or that we don't count as high earners because we don't both drive fancy Mercedes. We have choices that a lot of other people don't have.

50percentNamaste50percentGoFuckYourself · 24/04/2023 11:13

She said she lived frugally and went on to comment that high earners don't live like kings. She gave the impression that they can#'t afford holidays.

You see it all the time on here "Oh we have 200k a year but its all relative, life is expensive, we have nothing left over, its not as easy as you think".
Yes your life is expensive because you have chosen to make it that way, you have nothing left because you spend huge amounts of money.

The pretend poverty by high earners is pathetic. Its onl this thread even "It's relative, a high earner is not a high earner in London". Its still the same amount of money, if you spend more, you don't earn less!

RudsyFarmer · 24/04/2023 11:17

50percentNamaste50percentGoFuckYourself · 24/04/2023 10:38

So where is all you money going?

I never understand these posts. "Oh we earn 5 times what a lot of you here do, but we drive a banger and never have a holiday. We're not rich or anything!!"

....well where are you spending it then? Coke and hookers or massive savings? You have tons of money, stop pretending you're one step from a foodbank. It's obscene.

I’m not pretending I’m using a food bank. That’s a huge reach from you there. I’m saying that people think those who are considered high earners are rolling in disposable income. It’s not true. We live in the South East, so everything’s fucking expensive. NOT in a huge house. The majority of the money goes on mortgage, bills, kids and savings.

gogohmm · 24/04/2023 11:19

£100k seems a decent benchmark to me. Obviously it goes further in some areas

50percentNamaste50percentGoFuckYourself · 24/04/2023 11:20

RudsyFarmer · 24/04/2023 11:17

I’m not pretending I’m using a food bank. That’s a huge reach from you there. I’m saying that people think those who are considered high earners are rolling in disposable income. It’s not true. We live in the South East, so everything’s fucking expensive. NOT in a huge house. The majority of the money goes on mortgage, bills, kids and savings.

It's called hyperbole.

And you have LOTS of money, and the freedom to save it. Playing the poor mouth is not ok.

shivawn · 24/04/2023 11:21

I think the term high earner means different things to different people.

For me, high earner is probably 80k+ for a single person or 140k+ for a household. I often see posters who consider 100k household income to be high earning or other posters who think anything under 200k isn't high.

Botw1 · 24/04/2023 11:24

@RudsyFarmer

I dont think all higher earners are rolling in 'disposable' income.

They are rolling in income though

SallyWD · 24/04/2023 11:25

I'd say it's someone in the top 5% salary range - I think this is around/above £80,000 a year. If being in the top 5% doesn't make you a high earner I don't know what does!
However, there seem to be many wealthy people on Mumsnet who think you have to be on about £250,000 to be a high earner. They see £80,000 as verging on poverty. They really have no idea that many family survive on a 3rd of that (or less).

Withnailandeye · 24/04/2023 11:25

BranchGold · 24/04/2023 09:12

I think the general rule is following the tax brackets, higher rate starting at £50k and the additional rate is £125k.

I think a big issue when discussing wealth and inequality currently, is the big push from media/government that talks about money mostly in terms of annual taxable income. Most of the wealth in the country/world is not held as earned salary income, but through holding assets such as property, shares, natural resources etc. it’s very much about letting the ‘little people’ squabble amongst themselves.

But to me that is different from “high earners” - the phrase lends itself directly to what a person earns rather than their wealth in general?