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what are you doing that no one knows about

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bingowings36 · 05/04/2023 18:34

(light hearted thread ) As the title says what are you doing or up to that no one knows about .
I got my passport i told no one i was getting one as im planing a nice holiday by my self but will say im working away when the time comes .😁

OP posts:
Walterwhiteswifey · 06/04/2023 10:59

I still watch old episodes of Newlyweds Nick and Jessica on YouTube. May well be the only viewer in the world 😂

deedeedelmonte · 06/04/2023 11:00

bigdecisionstomake · 06/04/2023 10:57

I've opened an investment account and am learning how to buy and sell shares - it's always interested me but I've never been confident enough to do it before now.

This is something I'd like to do but have not had the confidence to do. Do you mind me asking how you got started with it?

Maraa · 06/04/2023 11:03

I’m studying an open uni course whilst on maternity leave to pursue my passion in the future hopefully!

Ihavenoauthority · 06/04/2023 11:09

Drinking vodka for breakfast 😞only way I can cope

JudgeJ · 06/04/2023 11:09

Timetosayno · 06/04/2023 02:59

Tracking my dh movements daily

Hopefully he is tracking your's too, or is that called 'stalking'?

Goodread1 · 06/04/2023 11:17

I am tooting (farting quietly to myself as I am nervous waiting for a job interview at a posh place...

Hope my potential 🙏 boss doesn't find out

Tarkan · 06/04/2023 11:17

amberisola · 06/04/2023 09:26

@Tarkan Thank you!

That’s really useful to know. I’m deliberating over whether to do just English Literature or English Lit & creative writing and the choice of modules is a bit mind-boggling.

Sounds like I definitely need to get better at planning ahead and making time to read (and not procrastinating which I am terrible for as well...)

Good luck with your TMA and the last module!

I would definitely recommend adding the creative writing but I'm a bit biased as that side of things is the reason for my degree. Grin I've recently fallen into editing, originally to help out a friend who self-publishes but I love doing it and figured finishing off my degree would really help out as it's expanded recently into helping another friend with stage and screenwriting, she had the possibility to work with the BBC so I was basically learning on the job with helping her type and edit her script so when that's something they do in the advanced creative writing I thought that would help me out with expanding my work and I might even have the chance to write my own things with contacts I make there too.

The first creative writing course I did way back in 2011 and that's the course I've made the most friends through.

I chose A335 over A334 (both are level 3) as I just thought the range of set books sounded more appealing to me but according to other people on the course A334 wasn't anything like this and was much better. Because I have to do the advanced creative writing as my other level 3 course it meant I had the choice of the two when people just doing English Lit had to do both, I do think adding creative writing gives you more opportunity to be picky with the other courses you do at level 2 and 3 since you have one writing course you have to do at each level.

My other courses were level 1 AA100 (the arts past and present) in 2008 which I don't think they do any more, then level 2 creative writing (A215) in 2011.

I had a long break until I decided to finish off my degree before it "timed out" (the two courses gave me a Cert HE but I have until October 2024 to complete enough courses to turn it into a degree).

So in 2020 I did A112 Cultures then in 2021 A233 Telling Stories: the novel and beyond. I really loved both of these courses although I'm actually getting better TMA results in A335 (literature in transition: from 1800 to the present) than I did in A233. We got the option to write our own fairy tale for one TMA in A233 and that's something I'd love to go back and tidy up and explore more later on too.

I decided to keep the advanced creative writing to last just because I was already in the mindset of academic writing and typing out references etc which I know we didn't have to do so much for A215 and it means I finish off the degree with a course I've been really looking forward to.

The choice can be confusing but any time there is a choice just look at the different courses they recommend and see which one speaks to you the most. If you already know and enjoy some of the novels or at least the authors mentioned then that definitely helps.

Is it A111 then A112 you're doing for level 1 at least? I got to choose between them when I needed another level 1 course when I restarted and I really loved A112 and surprised myself when I did well in the art history side of things as I was looking forward to that part the least.

The only thing I found with creative writing is that you do get a lot of egos around. The forums have changed since I did it but back then we were allowed to share our work and our scores with others and we caused so much chaos I think that's why the OU doesn't allow that to happen now. Blush But we had people saying stuff like "I've published 5 novels, and I only got 65 and I know my tutor is unbelievably wrong, how did you get distinction for this piece of drivel compared to me?" I had it myself when we were sharing what we had done for the EMA (just our ideas, not the actual written pieces) and I literally said "I've written a reworking of Shakespeare's As You Like It set in a medieval fantasy setting instead" then described my plot. Someone (mansplained) to me that my plot was exactly the same as Shakespeare's As You Like It. 🤦🏻‍♀️ A lot of people slated me for it and said there was no way I would pass. Whoever marked my paper thankfully thought differently and I got a mark I was very happy with. I actually got really high marks for the idea despite what my fellow students said. Grin

I did learn to avoid those people though, most people are lovely on it and I'm hoping since we can't share our work the same way now it'll curb some of the egos. Fingers crossed anyway.

And apologies because this is incredibly long now so I'll stop there. Blush

Goodread1 · 06/04/2023 11:18

Wishing I have good luck for this interview 🤞

Bookist · 06/04/2023 11:19

I'm slowly but surely re-furnishing and re-furbishing our home but have set myself a challenge that everything I buy must be 2nd hand. I am haunting FB Marketplace and eBay constantly, it's quite addictive. Some of my beautiful bargains so far are interlined Sanderson curtains for £30, a Laura Ashley sofa and coffee table for £70 and a pair of large John Lewis framed prints for £15. It's crazy what people get rid of and everything I've bought looks brand new. Everyone thinks I must have spent a fortune but I really haven't at all.

My husband and I are very fortunate to be very comfortable financially but I cannot believe how much money I've squandered over the years always buying brand new stuff.

MrsCake · 06/04/2023 11:20

I write FanFic too. Harry Potter in my case. I used to post it online, but I stopped a while ago when the site I used to use closed down, and I never got around to finding another one. Now I just keep it all in Google Drive for my own amusement. DH knows, but no one else does. Honestly, I wish DH didn't know either.

pinkyredrose · 06/04/2023 11:24

Mylittlesandwich · 05/04/2023 21:09

Considering a second child. I have told nobody. I've been so set on being one and done. I still might be but until I decide how I really feel about it I'm not sharing my feelings with anyone. Even DH.

Wouldn't it be crucial to let him know! 😂

RemoteControlDoobry · 06/04/2023 11:24

paulaparticles · 05/04/2023 23:55

Every day I pretend I'm ok but have had lots of family bereavements and will never let anyone see my pain. Faking it through life.

Why though? If you don’t show how you feel then you’ll never have an authentic relationship with anyone. If you have kids they will think that it isn’t ok to show their own emotions. It’s true that some people (who aren’t worth your time) lose respect for emotional people but mostly, they’re relieved that they have someone to share life’s burdens with.

It’s also a sure fire way of becoming ill.

shakeitoffsis · 06/04/2023 11:24

I want to get Botox but I don't want my husband to know! Or anyone really 🤣 problem is I bruise super easily and I'm scared he will notice!

dramalessllama · 06/04/2023 11:25

Using Duolingo as well to learn Spanish!

Timetosayno · 06/04/2023 11:26

readallaboutit90 · 06/04/2023 07:46

thinking about doing similar. also not happy with lies...not other women but pointless stuff. No idea why people lie like this

This is exactly it

Timetosayno · 06/04/2023 11:28

JudgeJ · 06/04/2023 11:09

Hopefully he is tracking your's too, or is that called 'stalking'?

He's not clever enough to track mine and secondly he has no reason too unlike me

May09Bump · 06/04/2023 11:29

NeverTrustAPoliceman · 06/04/2023 07:48

May09Bump That's so lovely.
I found out through the grapevine that a local charity needed a specific item but were nowhere near having the funds. I bought it for them on the understanding that as few people as possible knew. I've seen the item in use and am so glad I had the means to help.

I suppose that my secret thing is now keeping an eye out for a similar thing to do again. I'm the most ordinary, slightly shabby looking older woman possible. Nobody would guess I have the means to do this.

I'm loving all the stories on here.

That's so great - it's nice to see the impact of your gift.

This is such an interesting thread!

Greensleevevssnotnose · 06/04/2023 11:34

Me too but mine is rybelsus

crimsonpeak · 06/04/2023 11:43

I’ve applied for an allotment. If I get one I’m going to enjoy some me time there!

restisall · 06/04/2023 11:43

Another one growing a baby for the first time here.

My husband does know to be fair!

LyingWitchInTheWardrobe · 06/04/2023 11:43

LHReturns · 06/04/2023 03:00

Finally a good one! Why?

That's rude, LHReturns. There have been some incredible posts on this thread and a 'juicy' one is what you were waiting for? No disrespect to you, Timetosayno, sounds a very difficult situation for you, sorry.

LyingWitchInTheWardrobe · 06/04/2023 11:48

whataballbag · 05/04/2023 20:52

How lovely! That would make my day.

It would make mine too! Custardbanana do you put any initial or mark on them? If so, what is it? One of us might find one of your bookmarks. It would be like a message-in-a-bottle...

coodawoodashooda · 06/04/2023 12:06

InSpainTheRain · 05/04/2023 20:43

I take Ozempic and I've lost 35lb so far. I've not told anyone how I've lost the weight.

How does it help? If you don't mind to say.

bigdecisionstomake · 06/04/2023 12:18

deedeedelmonte · 06/04/2023 11:00

This is something I'd like to do but have not had the confidence to do. Do you mind me asking how you got started with it?

I started following a YouTube channel called 'Damien Talks Money'. He has lots of stuff on investing and the best platforms to use etc... From there I started following a few other investment content providers plus I subscribed to the free Money Week newsletter which has a round up of investment recommendations and ones to avoid each week.

I decided on a platform called Trading 212 based on Damien's recommendations and from there just started dabbling. I buy both funds (like pensions and ISAs are invested in) and also individual shares. In terms of individual shares I tend to buy things that I like for example I wear a lot of Under Armour sports wear so have a small holding of their shares now.

If you don't already have a stocks and shares ISA the best way to invest is to open one on your chosen platform and use that to hold your investments as any gains will then be tax free. I already hold and pay into a S&S ISA that my IFA manages for me and you can't pay into 2 in the same tax year so I've opened an investment account instead which means I will have to pay CGT on any gains over the allowance when I come to sell any holdings. To be fair though I'm really only investing a small amount each month so I'm not likely to incur much in the way of a CGT liability overall I suspect and if I do I'll have to be careful not to sell too much at a time.

I really enjoy doing the research though and deciding what I'm going to buy each month. Trading 212 has a fantastic app so I can see all my shares on my phone and watch them go up (and down!) in real time when the markets are open.

It is a bit addictive....😁

Hartleyhare1206 · 06/04/2023 12:29

MAFS Australia binging.

That is all 😁😁😁