Hi all
I really need help.
I work with my other half, Im his boss, we have been in a relationship for 6 yrs. Yes we've had our ups and downs but nothing major, until now!
A couple of yrs ago, a co worker showed interest in my partner, flirts, etc, nothing major but she always did it in front of me. Asking to see pics of him, asking me about private information.
This turned his head as it would do any man but I made it clear to him that I wasn't happy about him having cosy conversations with her and if he preferred her then I would walk away.
He assured me that he wasn't interested, and things calmed down. However Ive since found out they have little conversations when Im not there, He tells her about our relationship etc.
3 weeks ago she started again, asking me if he was at work, what time he finished etc, I just ignored her. I told him but he shrugged it off.
We always have our breaks together but this day he didn't tell me he was going for his break and when I went to the canteen he was sitting with her laughing and joking, I just left.
Later that day we had a massive row about it and his excuse was he was waiting for me.(he always came to the office before).
Anyway to cut a long story short, the next day he deleted me from Facebook and added her, no explanation, nothing. When i confronted him he said I'd annoyed him and he did it on a whim, Problem is he wont deleted her even though he says he doesn't even like her, He sent me a friends request which i told him I will not accept until she's deleted. He bluntly said well that wont happen. To me he's overstepped my boundary and because of his attitude over the last 2 weeks I've decided to end it, he doesn't seem bothered in the slightest, But Im having a hard time because to me he prioritised her over me.
Do I stick to my guns and walk away.