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Another dog attack- 4 year old killed. Devastating

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singingsussie · 01/02/2023 06:14

Just woke up to this news this morning. It's just so incredibly heartbreaking for all involved. Seems to be happening so much more than ever these days

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Megifer · 01/02/2023 14:51

Tekkentime · 01/02/2023 14:50

What nonsense is that?

A large breed dog bite will also cause some sort of injury 100% of the time.

Can't believe I just replied to such nonsense.

I can't believe you misunderstood your own post tbh

berksandbeyond · 01/02/2023 14:52

Unphased · 01/02/2023 14:22

@berksandbeyond
i would imagine they will be in bits themselves,

play stupid games, win stupid prizes

Helloeveryone2023 · 01/02/2023 14:53

@potniatheron its a wider issue though isn’t it. There’s a silly culture in this country of thinking dogs are soft and forgetting that they all have wolf instincts!

Tekkentime · 01/02/2023 14:53

Megifer · 01/02/2023 14:51

I can't believe you misunderstood your own post tbh

What? Honestly.

I'll leave you to it, I don't think we're on the same level.

mumto2teenagers · 01/02/2023 14:57

@Helloeveryone2023 that's a good point regarding non-fatal attacks. I do agree that dogs should be on leads in public but think given the amount of dogs in the UK more designated dog areas would be needed. Our dogs love being off lead so I do think it is good for them, however when walking in public areas they are always on lead, we have one park local to us that has a designated dog area and we rent a local field, however appreciate this is an additional cost that some pet owners would not be able to afford.

watchfulwishes · 01/02/2023 14:58

potniatheron · 01/02/2023 14:51

Not sure why so many on this thread are blaming the dog rather than the parents for not looking after their kid and / or not training their dog.

Was it this thread or another where the NRA attitude was raised? Prime example here.

Guns don't kill people, people do.
Dogs don't bite people, owners do.

Not much good after you've been bitten.

watchfulwishes · 01/02/2023 15:03

Unphased · 01/02/2023 14:10

@Moxysright
Or we accept this tragedy as a accident and thankfully very rare, realise that the existing laws work for the vast majority of good dog breeders and owners

The problem is existing laws don't work for non-owners.

The whole area needs a discussion. There are too many dogs behaving badly in public.

potniatheron · 01/02/2023 15:05

Helloeveryone2023 · 01/02/2023 14:53

@potniatheron its a wider issue though isn’t it. There’s a silly culture in this country of thinking dogs are soft and forgetting that they all have wolf instincts!

They don't though, do they. In evo-bio behavioural terms, dogs have as much in common with wolves as we do with chimps. Do you indulge your chimp instincts often?

We know next to nothing about how dogs became domesticated and how they evolved from wolves to dogs. You're missing out huge stages, billions of years, of evolutionary development when you make silly generalising claims like that.

This girl came from a family where the parents were not very committed at being parents, or at looking after their children. It is sad. There is really no general conclusion to be drawn about dogs from this incident.

Autumnnewname · 01/02/2023 15:06

Ritasueandbobtoo9 · 01/02/2023 07:03

Yes. NRA sounds right.

If I could I would have this law. (Except assistance dogs).

No dogs in restaurants.
No dogs in shops.
No dogs off lead in a public area unless a designated dog exercise area.
Compulsory dog training and licensing and assessment of home and person environment.
Ban breeding and selling of all bully and larger breeds (exception for true working dogs on farms, estates and for police force).

We have this for guns but not dogs.

All of these points are really hard to argue with

Wolfiefan · 01/02/2023 15:12

So no dog should ever be off lead? That’s ridiculous. They already have to be legally under control. And it wouldn’t stop tragedies like attacks in the home.
No large breeds ever? Why? I have wolfhounds. Should they be banned? Why? How many wolfhound attacks have there been in the last ten years?

Octopusmittens · 01/02/2023 15:17

RunningFromInsanity · 01/02/2023 13:41

American bulldog only rehomed a couple of weeks ago.

How predictable.

Sadly this

Floofyduffypuddy · 01/02/2023 15:17

If a large dog ran at me in a field or somewhere how on earth could anybody possibly catch that's dog or owner?
No car reg ...a random person and dog?

Megifer · 01/02/2023 15:23

Tekkentime · 01/02/2023 14:53

What? Honestly.

I'll leave you to it, I don't think we're on the same level.

Theres no doubt in my mind of that 😂

You said you can't legally carry pepper spray but its legal to walk a dog unleashed/unmuzzled.

This is because:

Pepper spray = will definitely cause damage or injury to a human 100% of the time it is used

Walking a dog unmuzzled/unleashed = will not definitely cause damage or injury to a human 100% of the time they are walked unmuzzled/unleashed

There's probably more boring risk/probability stuff such as it can also affect innocent people who get downwind of it, risk it will be used by people with nefarious intent if its easy to get hold of etc etc

RunningFromInsanity · 01/02/2023 15:24

Autumnnewname · 01/02/2023 15:06

All of these points are really hard to argue with

I’m a dog owner and I agree with most of those.

The banning ‘larger breeds’ and bull breeds is difficult.
That would include Boxers, Great Danes etc. Newfoundlands are large breeds, should they be banned?Golden retrievers can be fairly big. Standard poodles etc.
What if you cross an American bulldog with a Labrador and call it a lab x?

Where do you draw the line?

Unphased · 01/02/2023 15:25

@Helloeveryone2023
we over 13 million dogs in the UK, by your numbers the chances of getting bit by a dog is very slim, people seem to think the threat is more real than it is

WFHbore2023 · 01/02/2023 15:39

The dog attacked, but it's the actions of humans that allowed it to get that far.

The dog was 'rehomed'
Any responsible breeder would have a clause in their contract stating that the dog can and should be returned to them in the event that the dog needs to be rehomed.
The fact that this didn't happen will be down to unlicensed, backyard breeders. This needs to be clamped down on.

On the same note, the parents made a choice to 'rehome' a dog, rather than rescue. This is because the option to rescue with a 4 year old in the house wouldn't be there. The fault lies with them.

I would also bet my last pound that this dog will have been giving out signals and warnings for a long time before it attacked. Again, the onus lies with the parents to pick up on these and act accordingly.

What has happened is an awful tragedy for the child, and also her parents. They will have to live with this for the rest of their lives.

Dogs can be, and are, owned responsibly.

I have a dog, and I would be more than happy to have to prove my worth when in comes to owning him.

A licence, tests in order to receive that licence, I'd be happy to comply.

Things do need to change, but I'm really not sure how it could be implemented and policed.

Breeders would probably be a good place to start.

JesusInTheCabbageVan · 01/02/2023 15:48

I do think there will be changes in the law around American/XL bullies by the end of this year, as that'll be seen as a 'quick win' by the government.

Unphased · 01/02/2023 15:51

Surely it’s deed not bread, you can’t simply judge a dog by it’s breed, the Labrador, the most popular breed in the UK has caused the most bites,

Hoppinggreen · 01/02/2023 15:55

Unphased · 01/02/2023 15:51

Surely it’s deed not bread, you can’t simply judge a dog by it’s breed, the Labrador, the most popular breed in the UK has caused the most bites,

Not fatal bites

icanneverthinkofnc · 01/02/2023 16:10

plumduck · 01/02/2023 09:38

This may be controversial but if there was an outright ban on dogs in council/housing association owned properties, this wouldn't keep happening. you can't ban dogs from one type of housing. That's ridiculous.

Knee jerk reaction... agree, ridiculous.. I live in a smallish council place, I work FT, pay rent, and don't claim any benefits. I have a large dog. We had her when we had a house, but downsized to release a family house.

She is 4, we still go to dog training regularly, she does dog activities ( specific class) weekly, and I do 1-2-1 sessions regularly. She is walked every day.
I keep her on lead unless we are in an enclosed dog area. She has company all day due to DH being retired.

If children visit, she is put into another room and then kept on a lead so I have control.

We still get children running up to her to throw their arms around her as she looks so cuddly while parents look on indulgently.

The biggest threat to a child is car journeys, parents, and particularly step fathers. We don't suggest banning those. The problem with any restrictions is that those who are a problem will avoid rules.

potniatheron · 01/02/2023 16:13

icanneverthinkofnc · 01/02/2023 16:10

Knee jerk reaction... agree, ridiculous.. I live in a smallish council place, I work FT, pay rent, and don't claim any benefits. I have a large dog. We had her when we had a house, but downsized to release a family house.

She is 4, we still go to dog training regularly, she does dog activities ( specific class) weekly, and I do 1-2-1 sessions regularly. She is walked every day.
I keep her on lead unless we are in an enclosed dog area. She has company all day due to DH being retired.

If children visit, she is put into another room and then kept on a lead so I have control.

We still get children running up to her to throw their arms around her as she looks so cuddly while parents look on indulgently.

The biggest threat to a child is car journeys, parents, and particularly step fathers. We don't suggest banning those. The problem with any restrictions is that those who are a problem will avoid rules.

The biggest threat to a child is car journeys, parents, and particularly step fathers. We don't suggest banning those.

Hard agree. But going by the logic of some of these threads we should perhaps enact legislation which forces stepfathers always to be kept on leads when in public whilst cars should be muzzled in large cushions to minimise fatalities...

Octopusmittens · 01/02/2023 16:20

Why on earth would anyone ‘rehome’ an American Bulldog in a house with a small child. It defies belief. People should be held accountable.

Olidora · 01/02/2023 16:27

Octopusmittens · 01/02/2023 16:20

Why on earth would anyone ‘rehome’ an American Bulldog in a house with a small child. It defies belief. People should be held accountable.

Agree. Also surely they must have been advised against getting this dog by friends ,neighbours and family.

JesusInTheCabbageVan · 01/02/2023 16:28

The biggest threat to a child is car journeys, parents, and particularly step fathers. We don't suggest banning those. The problem with any restrictions is that those who are a problem will avoid rules.

There are plenty of things that are banned or controlled, even though a) they cause fewer deaths than cars and b) people who really want to can still get hold of them.

JesusInTheCabbageVan · 01/02/2023 16:34

JesusInTheCabbageVan · 01/02/2023 16:28

The biggest threat to a child is car journeys, parents, and particularly step fathers. We don't suggest banning those. The problem with any restrictions is that those who are a problem will avoid rules.

There are plenty of things that are banned or controlled, even though a) they cause fewer deaths than cars and b) people who really want to can still get hold of them.

Also, there are various laws and regulations in place geared towards reducing car deaths.

I could give quite a few reasons why this is just a silly argument.