Ex has huge savings. He currently earns 75k but is taking 3 years out to do a PHD. DD is 1. This means I will have no help to pay nursery fees, I will struggle to work and pay for it. He’s 44 so hardly uni age and if I suddenly decided to do this DD would have nothing… how is this right? How can men get away with this? And yes,it’s almost always men. I’m upset/stressed and can’t believe this is allowed to happen. He’s got 300k in the bank and paid off a mortgage but because he is doing a course he doesn’t need to pay for his child?