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Friend has told me he's in love with me. I'm Muslim and he's not.

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Custarde · 01/01/2023 00:33

My friend whom I adore has told me that he's in love with me and I don't know what the hell to do! I like him alot but have never entertained the idea of us being a couple as I'm Muslim and he's not. Also he's alot younger than me and although he's my friend I would consider him way out of my league as a partner. Without putting myself down, he really could do much better than me. I honestly don't know what he's thinking!

I'm kind of torn between let's do this to feeling cautious about it.

Has anyone been in a similar situation?

OP posts:
Onthecuspofabreakthrough · 01/01/2023 00:35

What's he suggesting - a date, a relationship, marriage?
How much is "a lot" younger?
Is he respectful of your beliefs?

Itisbetter · 01/01/2023 00:37

Why is you being a Muslim an issue? Are either of your families particularly anti the others religion?

RambamThankyouMam · 01/01/2023 09:38

Either he needs to convert to Islam or you need to leave Islam. Honestly, from many years of experience, religiously mixed marriages end up being a nightmare. Especially if children are in the picture. It's all well and good to be all modern-minded and breezy and think love conquers all, but I have seen a lot of regretful women (and it's usually the women who suffer) who wish they hadn't married out.

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