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A child has died at Centre Parcs

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KenAdams · 24/12/2022 15:57

BBC News - 'Serious medical incident' involving child at Center Parcs resort

www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-england-wiltshire-64086918

Only 4. On Christmas Eve. How horrific.

OP posts:
Verbena17 · 24/12/2022 17:00

So desperately heartbreaking 😢 That poor family. I just cannot imagine.

pinkpotatoez · 24/12/2022 17:03

Gosh, how awful how do you even go on, especially with Xmas tomorrow I can't even imagine 😢

Florenz · 24/12/2022 17:03

RIP.

I don't think it's been confirmed to have involved water or happened in the swimming pool, people have just assumed that because they've used a picture of the pool on the story. Anything could have happened.

Emotionalsupportviper · 24/12/2022 17:04

GreyCarpet · 24/12/2022 16:59

If this saves even a single life, then it will be worth it.

And this sort of comment is exactly why these sorts of threads should never be started.

I'm not sure what you mean by that.

The death and distress aren't worth it - never.

But raising awareness is.

However I will bow out now because it is a very distressing thread and I'm not looking to cause distress or arguments.

CherApparent · 24/12/2022 17:07

Emotionalsupportviper · 24/12/2022 17:04

I'm not sure what you mean by that.

The death and distress aren't worth it - never.

But raising awareness is.

However I will bow out now because it is a very distressing thread and I'm not looking to cause distress or arguments.

You can't raise awareness of something you know nothing about. And, even if it was relevant, it's utterly inappropriate and ghoulish here.

Unifolorn · 24/12/2022 17:08

Emotionalsupportviper · 24/12/2022 17:04

I'm not sure what you mean by that.

The death and distress aren't worth it - never.

But raising awareness is.

However I will bow out now because it is a very distressing thread and I'm not looking to cause distress or arguments.

Raising awareness makes it sound like someone was at fault or more could have been done to prevent it. Neither of which we know, but it does come across a bit blame-y when in reality these things sadly do happen, sometimes nothing could be done to stop then. If the parents choose to release details in the future to raise awareness IF relevant then that would be the time to discuss it.

PurpleButterflyWings · 24/12/2022 17:09

Gosh what terrible news. That poor family. Whatever it is/was that happened, it's a terrible and tragic accident. I am praying for his family. What a DREADFUL thing to happen on what was clearly a Christmas family holiday. R.I.P. (And shame on anyone posting horrible remarks on here. WTF is wrong with you?!) Hmm

RandomCatGenerator · 24/12/2022 17:10

Jesus Christ @KitchiHuritAngeni I am so sorry - that that happened to you and for the loss of your child. 💐

SocialLite · 24/12/2022 17:11

Florenz · 24/12/2022 17:03

RIP.

I don't think it's been confirmed to have involved water or happened in the swimming pool, people have just assumed that because they've used a picture of the pool on the story. Anything could have happened.

Unfortunately not the case, prior to announcing the child had died, it was announced that the pool had been evacuated after a child was pulled from the water and an air ambulance called to the scene.

NowThatsWhatICall22 · 24/12/2022 17:11

Greengr · 24/12/2022 16:21

As well as thinking about the family we must also consider the emergency workers as well as the CP staff involved
Very very sad.

Yes, it will have impacted everyone involved. Such an awful, deeply sad thing to read about today.

JadeSeahorse · 24/12/2022 17:12

Four years old and on Christmas Eve!

Dear God, that is horrendous.😥

PeonyRose80 · 24/12/2022 17:12

This is absolutely tragic, those poor parents. On Christmas Eve too, fly high little angel, RIP

Gwdihooooo · 24/12/2022 17:19

Fuzzywuzzyface · 24/12/2022 16:48

Delete my comments away, however when you have all calmed down the footage is very relevant and shows how very easily an accident can happen.
For all of you that think I am this dreadful person this footage alerted me to how vigilant you need to be around children and water.
It was a mumsnet poster who shared the link following a child death in water.
You will be pleased to know I will not post any more on this thread but don't ever take your eyes off of your children in water and never ever assume the lifeguard is enough.

I haven’t seen your other posts. But i think it’s mostly about your timing op

MakeWayMoana · 24/12/2022 17:19

It says serious medical incident, which doesn’t sound like the little boy drowned.

Even if he did drown, it’s a tragic accident not anyone’s fault. It could happen to anyone, accidents happen all the time - they could go under in the 30 seconds you look away, they could slip and hit their head, they could step in the road and be hit by a car.

Anyone who blames a person for the death of their child is a disgusting person and should have a good look at themselves. If your child has ever injured themselves at home, you are not perfect and the injury you ‘allowed’ to happen could have been a death were you unlucky enough. Accidents can’t always be avoided and compassion and sympathy is all that’s needed in this scenario.

Cuppasoupmonster · 24/12/2022 17:23

Absolutely horrible thing to happen, especially on Christmas Eve. Poor little lad, RIP 🕯

PurpleButterflyWings · 24/12/2022 17:28

KitchiHuritAngeni · 24/12/2022 16:50

As ever on MN, a child dies in unknown circumstances or has an accident, and some twat falls over themselves to blame the parents and tell the world it would never happen to them because of X Y or Z reason.

Why bother? Taking time out to boost your own ego at the expense of someone who has just had their whole world crushed.

The fact is we are all one decision away from a tragedy, it literally could be any of us.

It takes a special kind of cunt to start blaming a newly bereaved parent though.

Nearly 25 years on from the death of my son I still clearly remember listening to two women talking in a shop about some young mother who murdered her baby, they went into details and it sounded awful, and it wasn't until they said the name of the street that I realised they were talking about me with a load of made up nonsense. I soon put them straight and have never seen two people more embarrassed, but it has stayed with me all these years.

That's the sort of shit that happens to bereaved parents, people use our tragedies to make themselves feel better with no thought for us at all.

I hope the poster who is smugly suggesting people Google tragedies and is casually blaming the parents never has to suffer being on this side of it.

None of us need to speculate or even comment other than to offer sympathies for the situation.

I'm so sorry. Flowers Dreadful women, gossiping spitefully this way! Hope you're OK. 😘

HelloagainLilibet · 24/12/2022 17:34

Tragic, heartbreaking news. Thoughts with the family, and all the professionals involved in trying to help today. No words for how sad this is

oakleaffy · 24/12/2022 17:49

Fuzzywuzzyface · 24/12/2022 16:48

Delete my comments away, however when you have all calmed down the footage is very relevant and shows how very easily an accident can happen.
For all of you that think I am this dreadful person this footage alerted me to how vigilant you need to be around children and water.
It was a mumsnet poster who shared the link following a child death in water.
You will be pleased to know I will not post any more on this thread but don't ever take your eyes off of your children in water and never ever assume the lifeguard is enough.

I agree that lifeguards CANNOT be relied upon at all times.

A friend I am seeing tomorrow lost a child in their family very suddenly in a pool.

Lifeguards are fallible.

Pools are noisy and the surface of the water is rippled
A child in serious difficulties does not make a noise.
People assume they will thrash and scream.
Not so.

It takes seconds for a child to get into difficulties.
Ponds, lakes, pools- even water tanks, children are drawn to them.
The video I think you referenced- The child survived, Mercifully.
Much more awareness around water danger is needed.
Life guards can get distracted.

Runmybathforme · 24/12/2022 17:52

There are no words. Also thinking of the staff who were there.

BoreOfWhabylon · 24/12/2022 17:53

Greengr · 24/12/2022 16:21

As well as thinking about the family we must also consider the emergency workers as well as the CP staff involved
Very very sad.

Thank you Flowers

Forty years on, I can still remember with utter clarity one such case.

Scalottia · 24/12/2022 18:03

Why did you feel the need to post about this? Have some respect for the family involved.

GoodVibesHere · 24/12/2022 18:28

Scalottia · 24/12/2022 18:03

Why did you feel the need to post about this? Have some respect for the family involved.

Agreed, and I think this thread ought to be deleted really. How does it help anyone? It's awful.

GreyCarpet · 24/12/2022 18:42

GoodVibesHere · 24/12/2022 18:28

Agreed, and I think this thread ought to be deleted really. How does it help anyone? It's awful.

I agree with both of you.

Very bad taste. Tbh, I think the people saying how they're holding their own children closer and listening to them running around upstairs are no better.

Have those thoughts privately by all means but a public forum is not the place to do it.

If the family aren't expected or intended to read the 'condolences' or 'compassion' expressed here, it does nothing but make posters feel a little bit better about themselves at best or be part of the 'drama' at worst.

Threads like this serve nobody relevant.

ChristmasJingleBalls · 24/12/2022 18:43

A thought also for the lifeguards. They will be utterly traumatised.

HashBrownandBeans · 24/12/2022 19:30

That poor family 💔

It is extremely easy to lose sight of a small child in the water. My own toddler son was on his older teen brothers back once, arms around his neck, then in a flash he’d slipped off and was on the bottom of the pool. No lifeguards even noticed. It took seconds for his brother to notice and he’d already sunk in that time. Luckily I was with them and noticed. It’s honestly a lot easier than you think to lose them.