As ever on MN, a child dies in unknown circumstances or has an accident, and some twat falls over themselves to blame the parents and tell the world it would never happen to them because of X Y or Z reason.
Why bother? Taking time out to boost your own ego at the expense of someone who has just had their whole world crushed.
The fact is we are all one decision away from a tragedy, it literally could be any of us.
It takes a special kind of cunt to start blaming a newly bereaved parent though.
Nearly 25 years on from the death of my son I still clearly remember listening to two women talking in a shop about some young mother who murdered her baby, they went into details and it sounded awful, and it wasn't until they said the name of the street that I realised they were talking about me with a load of made up nonsense. I soon put them straight and have never seen two people more embarrassed, but it has stayed with me all these years.
That's the sort of shit that happens to bereaved parents, people use our tragedies to make themselves feel better with no thought for us at all.
I hope the poster who is smugly suggesting people Google tragedies and is casually blaming the parents never has to suffer being on this side of it.
None of us need to speculate or even comment other than to offer sympathies for the situation.