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Films you see differently as an adult...

674 replies

LoveShitJokes · 19/11/2022 18:45

I presume this has been done before but fuck it, it's Saturday night and I'm bored. So I'll start...

Mrs Doubtfire. As a child I saw Miranda as a boring, stuck up cow. As an adult I see her as a successful, independent woman exasperated with her man child husband who gives me The Ultimate Ick. And then some. I'm gobsmacked she ever married him. Stuart was a capable, equal partner not the villain I once thought him to be. Anyone else?

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Mummapenguin20 · 19/11/2022 23:16

Peter pan

Herefishy · 19/11/2022 23:17

lindaha · 19/11/2022 21:09

Yes and why he didn't get removed from the place when he hijacked the end of the season show remains a mystery

they were both adults, he wasn't her teacher. You are thinking wayyy to much into this.

Agreed!

Sparklingbrook · 19/11/2022 23:21

Herefishy · 19/11/2022 23:17

Agreed!

I meant him being removed because he was no longer an employee nothing to do with being adults or teachers or whatever.
Can ex employees just do that?

lindaha · 19/11/2022 23:24

No, she mentions at the beginning something about recently being 16 so I think she'd just turned 17. Johnny was well into his 20s

No she didn't mention her age. Her father said she was attending mount holyoke in the fall which which infer she's at least 17 or 18 as she was going to 3rd level. Swayze's character was supposed to be 24/25. He was even referred to as the ''dance kid Johnny''. Swayze though was nearly 35 when the film was made.

Neodymium · 19/11/2022 23:26

i remember watching that scene - where he tells baby he was fired and his dad has got him into the painters and plasterers union. I thought that was the worst thing ever - like what a cruel punishment. Now it seems like probably what he needs, a proper job and some direction in his life instead of scraping by teaching dancing during the summer. What does he do for the rest of the year? Plus quite reasonable he would be fired - I’m pretty sure most places like that would have rules against that. He also admits to baby that he’s slept with a bunch of other patrons too slipping their keys in his pocket and paying him. And then tells her ‘but they were using me’ 🙄 seems like he was a serial offender and management had enough of his antics.

Sparklingbrook · 19/11/2022 23:27

Swayze though was nearly 35 when the film was made.

And she was 26. Grin

lindaha · 19/11/2022 23:27

Fatal Attraction. We're supposed to feel sorry for Dan? He should have kept it in his pants

oh ffs would you say the same if it was reverse gender?? Him having an affair does not in any way excuse/justify her psychotic behaviour.

TiaraBoo · 19/11/2022 23:28

Yes and why he didn't get removed from the place when he hijacked the end of the season show remains a mystery

Because…nobody puts Baby in a corner!

Neodymium · 19/11/2022 23:28

lindaha · 19/11/2022 23:24

No, she mentions at the beginning something about recently being 16 so I think she'd just turned 17. Johnny was well into his 20s

No she didn't mention her age. Her father said she was attending mount holyoke in the fall which which infer she's at least 17 or 18 as she was going to 3rd level. Swayze's character was supposed to be 24/25. He was even referred to as the ''dance kid Johnny''. Swayze though was nearly 35 when the film was made.

The opening scene implies she is young and naive. ‘Everyone called me baby and it didn’t occur to me to mind’

even if she was meant to be 18 she was portrayed as young and innocent.

Florenz · 19/11/2022 23:30

containsnuts · 19/11/2022 20:38

I watched the first Ghostbusters film with DCs for halloween remebering from my own childhood a silly family movie, but and there were bits that made me quite uncomfortable. The harassment of Dana by Murray's character was maybe funny in 1982 but now seems sleezy and misogynistic. Also the bit when the guy is lying in bed and the ghost undoes his belt and (heavily implies) gives him a bl#w j#b. DCs were like "what's happening?" I'm like "it's ok, the ghost is just helping him put his pajamas on!". Why put that in a kids movie? Why?

Ghostbusters really wasn't a kids movie.

Ginger1982 · 19/11/2022 23:32

petermaddog · 19/11/2022 23:16

dirty dancing baby was 18
grease- onj was actually 30 yr old
john t was 18

Travolta was 24.

Sparklingbrook · 19/11/2022 23:33

TiaraBoo · 19/11/2022 23:28

Yes and why he didn't get removed from the place when he hijacked the end of the season show remains a mystery

Because…nobody puts Baby in a corner!

I guess if someone had turned him away at the door it would have been a somewhat different ending. 😂
But we would have been saved the cringey dance. 👍

Rummikub · 19/11/2022 23:33

badbaduncle · 19/11/2022 19:30

Yeah, read about the amazing and tragic woman who wrote it. Heartbreaking. She knew EXACTLY what she was writing and she lived on the hell hole estate it is set on.
So so sad: en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Andrea_Dunbar

I was going to say Rita Sue and Bob too. Thought it funny at the time. But horrific as a mum.

Just read that link about the author. Incredible and sad.

Pythonese · 19/11/2022 23:36

username8888 · 19/11/2022 21:01

Never liked Pretty Woman, then or now. Buying sex!
Never liked any jim Carey films. He gives me the creeps. You mark my words, one day something nasty will come out.

Really ?. I thought “The Truman Show” was an amazing film. It showed remarkable imagination and a protest against all reality shows. Carey has also made some notable stuff on depression ( he had a tough upbringing and suffered from quite severe depression himself ) and some of the appalling aspects of Hollywood. He came across of an intelligent and sensitive man.

RemusLupinsBiggestGroupie · 19/11/2022 23:38

HowieDBreakfastBeef · 19/11/2022 22:57

Clueless. Though feminist in some ways. She gets off with her stepbrother. And her dad approves.

Cher's dad isn't Josh's dad - he was just married to Josh's mum for a while.

Rummikub · 19/11/2022 23:39

SDTGisAnEvilWolefGenius · 19/11/2022 22:58

I used to love Seven Brides for Seven Brothers, until I watched it as a grown up and was horrified at the whole marriage by abduction scenario. With the jolly song about how the kidnapped Sabine women were sobbin’, sobbin’, sobbin’.

Yes this one too! I loved it as a child.

Started to watch it with my dds hoping they’d love it too and had to turn over as an adult.

elephantonacid · 19/11/2022 23:42

Beauty and the Beast. Basically a story of a woman kidnapped, abused and suffering with Stockholm syndrome.

lindaha · 19/11/2022 23:43

Sleepless and Seattle and While you were sleeping have 2 young attractive women doing stalkerish stuff men would be crucified for.

In While You Were Sleeping the original screenplay was about a woman in a coma and a man pretending to be her fiancé. Many studio executives thought this to be too predatory, but one suggested reversing the roles. Once the script was rewritten, the movie was picked up by Hollywood Pictures.

lindaha · 19/11/2022 23:44

40 days and 40 nights and Desperate Housewives both have male characters getting raped by women and it's supposed to be seen as funny.

ToGanymedeAndTitan · 19/11/2022 23:51

lindaha · 19/11/2022 23:44

40 days and 40 nights and Desperate Housewives both have male characters getting raped by women and it's supposed to be seen as funny.

Never seen 40 nights so can't comment on that one but Desperate Housewives wasn't supposed to be seen as funny if you're referring to Orson?
Can't think who else you mean if so.
It was quite a serious plotline, his ex wife was collaborating with his mum to drug and rape him so she could get the grandchild she always wanted.
Wasn't depicted as funny in any way?

Eleusa · 19/11/2022 23:51

Watching Ferris Bueller as an adult is a bit like reading that last Wimpy Kid book.

SlashBeef · 20/11/2022 00:05

I've been rewatching Desperate Housewives and found it to be surprisingly problematic for such a recent show, relative to the films discussed.

Bree when she finds the neighbours son under Danielle's bed.. "Danielle is there a black man under your bed?!" Wouldn't "man" have sufficed? Bree hadn't shown signs of racism before so it wasn't as if it was just in character. Seemed an odd way to phrase it from the scriptwriters.

Lynette.... just bloody awful to Tom. She used to be my favourite but now I can't stand her.

Orson's rape was portrayed as just a bit mortifying and silly at points.

Don't get me started on Susan.

Imogensmumma · 20/11/2022 00:08

Neodymium · 19/11/2022 21:04

Trainspotting.

when I saw it as a teen and the baby died I didn’t really think much of it.

when I saw it again post having children I was so upset by that scene I couldn’t keep watching.

not a movie - but friends. it is so inappropriate. Eg Joey mentions having sex with his teacher in year 7. And Ross. I hate Ross now. He was so controlling to Rachel when she was pregnant. He was off dating Mona but got mad when she wanted to date anyone. And he got in the way of her and Joey due to his issues. And pretending he did the divorce when they were still married and not telling her. Plus I think Monica should have ended up with Richard not chandler. And Rachel should have ended up with Joey. He actually treated her well and cared about her.

So agree with Friends (except for Monica and Chandler) I’m watching season 10 right now and the bond and care between Joey and Rachel is amazing and Ross was always controlling and demeaning about Rachel’s job

TomPinch · 20/11/2022 00:09

Iamboredandgoingforatwix · 19/11/2022 22:36

The whole storyline is odd, but it seems I'm the only one who noticed. He bloody kidnaps a baby and lures a girl into a labyrinth, punishes her constantly then drugs her via a peach. Plus those tights......

American Pie has aged badly. Very letchy and a bit sexist.

?? So when you first watched it you thought David Bowie was playing the good guy?

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