A guy I was seeing said he will only meet me for sex now

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So we had a thing for about 6 weeks, it started amazing and we both seemed to feel the same, really excited and just that instant click & spark.

I went on holiday and he stopped replying to messages. Did t even open my last 2 messages. 2 weeks I heard nothing!

I had to message yesterday as I realised he had something of mine which I needed back. He said that's fine and I could pick it up whenever and if I want sex then to let him know!!
I said I didn't think he was interested and his reply was 'for sex yes, but that's it'

Fucks sake how cheep can one person make me feel in a split second!

You're not cheap. He's a wanker.

His loss.

Block. Move on. Don't look back.

He's a completely tosser

At least you know where you stand. What a twat.

Do you really need to pick your thing up?

Glad you found out his true nature before too long. He's the cheap asshole, not you! 💐

Wow - you're not cheap he's odious. Er no thanks I'll move on then.

get your item back make the meeting last ten seconds only
if he tries it tell him he’s no longer your type then walk off

I'd just reply with "thanks, but to be honest the conversation was far better than the sex". And count yourself lucky for seeing his true colours early on.

Unless he had a kidney of mine he could keep the fucking thing.

I would block him.

Oh yes text him this.

In all honesty at least he's being honest. He hasn't really done anything wrong other than ghosting you.

Assume that's not what you want so you never speak to him again.

But nothing for you to feel cheap about whatsoever.

Definitely think of a reply that basically says the sex wasn't worth the bother.

Also, do you really need your thing back?

Hi him.saying that to you does not reflect on you at all. I would not grace him.with your presence.

Definitely been there OP. They might try and pursue you anyway 🤔 men are fucking odd. I'd ask for an explanation, he owes you one, you will feel better in the long run. But yeah completely a twat 😂 x

Unfortunately I do need it back, it's 1 earring that came off when I was at his last time. If it was any old earring I wouldn't bother but it's an expensive one.

I do feel cheap because I feel like he's ok for sex but I'm not good enough for a relationship. Bit shit really.

Think how cheap he is that he only wants sex, and sees no value in the amazing relationship he could have.

Go get the earring and act bemused/ like it's a massive joke that you'd want sex with him now. I'd literally laugh at the suggestion

Get the earring back first, then when he inevitably says "are we having sex then?", say as above - "no thanks, the conversation was better than the sex to be honest".

Can you get him to post the earring? I would stay well clear.

Wow what a catch..like similar posters I'd say go get the earrings back then when he tries it on just tell him nah the sex wasn't all that or you just need to nip out to the car and drive off

His opinion of you is not the gospel truth. Who cares what he thinks? I am sure you are lovely and worth far more than being treated this way.

Sounds as mature as a badly raised teenager. Dodged a bullet there OP!

Oh please do say the sex wasn't good enough for you when you get your earring back.

Or that getting the earring back was much better than sex with him.

He's the asshole 100%

If he doesn't know where you live go with a friend to pick it up , then reply ' sorry , you weren't that good' then block
Walker

*wanker