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Would it be disrespectful to do anything other than stay inside

149 replies

xsquared · 15/09/2022 22:45

on the day of the Queen's funeral?

Everywhere is shut so it's not like you can go and have coffee or go shopping anyway.

What about going for a walk with a friend any, going for a run or meeting up at a friends house to catch up? Would any of these be deemed inappropriate?

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Candleabra · 15/09/2022 22:47

Of course, do what you want!
Good luck finding anywhere that’s open, but any of the things you’ve said are fine, why ever not?

Everylittlethingsgonnabealright · 15/09/2022 22:47

Id say do as you wish! It’s your time, your life, do what you want.

Juicelooseabootthehoose · 15/09/2022 22:47

Do what you want to do surely.

There are lots of people who still need to work on Monday. They will be carrying on as normal.

carefullycourageous · 15/09/2022 22:48

Last time I checked it was a free country. I think you can do as you like but I wouldn't be loud or disturb others.

Quveas · 15/09/2022 22:48

I intend to do whatever I would normally do on any day of the week. I certainly have no intentions of staying inside. And I don't give a damn what anyone else thinks is appropriate.

GreenManalishi · 15/09/2022 22:48

I'm not sure why you'd stay inside unless you wanted to.

Skinnermarink · 15/09/2022 22:49

I think as long as you’re not setting off fireworks or popping a bottle of champagne and shouting ‘woooo!’ you’ll probably be grand to crack on as you wish.

we are travelling back from a weekend away ourselves, not staying inside.

Tsort · 15/09/2022 22:50

We’re going to the pub. Day drinking in her honour. 😂

Elphame · 15/09/2022 22:53

We’ll be going out and if there is a business open then we’ll support it.

Do not allow yourself to be bullied into staying home unless that is what you really want to do.

And if I fancy some champagne on Monday I will be cracking open a bottle

Cm078 · 15/09/2022 22:54

I will absolutely not be staying it all day with my 2.5 year old! And then I am off to work. (nhs)
It's a free country. You are not expected to stay indoors all day, surely?

Crystaly · 15/09/2022 22:58

It’s my daughters birthday so we will be celebrating that. Hoping to go for a meal as I’ve seen a few places open after 3pm

bellac11 · 15/09/2022 22:58

There will be plenty of places open. We might go for a little bike ride when its not on

MyLovelyPen · 15/09/2022 22:59

Do what you like! I’ll be enjoying a day walking in the countryside 😍

xsquared · 15/09/2022 22:59

No, I really don't want to stay inside on Monday.

I wouldn't even have minded going to work to be honest but work is shut and we're using annual leave for it so I definitely intend to use it as a "holiday".

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TheFlis12345 · 15/09/2022 23:03

I have a dentists appointment in the morning, followed by a long walk with the dog and a late pub lunch. As someone who recently lost a parent I can’t bear to stay in and watch it al.

NiteCat · 15/09/2022 23:03

Probably best not to eat or drink for a few days around the funeral in case you needed to use the loo.
That would be highly disrespectful!
They'll probably monitor sewage outlets to identify who's pooing on the big day!

QueSyrahSyrah · 15/09/2022 23:07

Tsort · 15/09/2022 22:50

We’re going to the pub. Day drinking in her honour. 😂

It's what she would have wanted Grin

mindutopia · 15/09/2022 23:08

All fine. Dh and I going to work as normal - best we can around dc being home from school as we both have jobs where ‘bank holidays’ still mean work needs doing.

Snugglemonkey · 15/09/2022 23:12

I completely understand that some people wish to grieve or pay respects etc, but I do not. I don't see this as anything to do with me. I will be out having fun with my son.

Luredbyapomegranate · 15/09/2022 23:14

Tell me you aren’t serious..

xsquared · 15/09/2022 23:14

Sorry for your loss @TheFlis12345 . 💐

Many things have been cancelled and there have been some strange examples of public mourning "out of respect" this week.

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Mumof3girlsandaboy · 15/09/2022 23:22

If I wasn’t working I could have gone to visit my cousin but instead I will be sleeping after a night shift and working on Monday night shift.

Weefreetiffany · 15/09/2022 23:26

I mean, it’s our taxes that are paying for the thing, so what you want.

justusandmoo · 15/09/2022 23:26

I had an email from my gym earlier to say they are open. It's part of a big hotel so planning to go there for a swim and food with my daughter. I'll do it a little later after the main bits of the funeral is over though.

BlooberryBiskits · 15/09/2022 23:35

Although I will be watching with family, plenty of my friends would rather walk on coals, plus for some it would just be upsetting (recently bereaved etc)

I don’t think any of the things you are suggesting are remotely disrespectful … and there is always the traditional bank holiday favourite of going to the pub. You could try a dubonnet in honour of HMQ if you want to go all out :)

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