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Seems like size 10 these days is considered 'large'?

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Echobelly · 31/07/2022 10:57

Caveat: Yes, I know actual clothes sizes are all over the place and not necessarily a guide to weight/shape.

I'm in my mid 40s and I'd swear when I was a kid, 10 was considered 'slim', yet it often seems to be talked about now as though it's the porky side.

I don't think that all that many women naturally fall into being a size 8 - I'd consider 10 a normal 'slim' size, I don't think anyone who is a size 10 would ever be medically overweight, even really short women like me.

Older people like me - do you think attitudes have changed? Younger women - have you grown up with 10 talked about as though it was an undesirable size to be?

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MissyCooperismyShero · 31/07/2022 13:43

DirectionToPerfection · 31/07/2022 13:36

That's not a rational view, the PP you were quoting is right.

You sound like you have serious body image issues.

It's simply impossible that you don't know anybody over a size 10. Just not credible at all. You know the UK average is 16?

Thing is though almost everybody at size 16 is big. They may be average UK size but UK people are too big.

BellePeppa · 31/07/2022 13:44

ThorsBedazzler · 31/07/2022 12:35

I hate people trotting out the old "vanity sizing" thing. People are bigger these days - taller and broader. Sizes have to change to reflect that.

But why change what a size 10 or 12 or 14 is? Just add different numbers to reflect the other sizes.

eatingapie · 31/07/2022 13:45

I’m usually the smallest woman, or one of the smallest, in a workplace or given group. This gets commented on - Im usually a 6-8 so that is still ‘functionally’ slim. I’m average height and what makes the real difference is I have a small frame - I can fit into age 12 kids clothes over the hips (I literally have the hips of a pre- pubescent girl which doesn’t make me feel super sexy if I think about it 😂) and that reads as ‘small’ even though I have a bit of squish. I’m lucky that I don’t feel caught up in dress size angst because I am always on the acceptably small size but it’s the size of my frame that achieves that which is something I have no control over. Some people will have the opposite in that they will have a larger frame that they can’t do anything about.

there are people I know who are probably less squishy than me over all but they are also just physically bigger so they don’t seem ‘small’ in the way that I do and people don’t comment on it like they do to me!

JosephineGH · 31/07/2022 13:45

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Sakura7 · 31/07/2022 13:46

The average female BMI in France is 24.6

And you think that represents a demographic where very few people are over a size 10?

If anything it proves that size 10 is smaller than the average. Most women would be at least a 12 at that BMI.

PollyEsther · 31/07/2022 13:47

I disagree hugely that a '10 years ago 16' is a 10 today. Mostly because I still own size 16 clothes from 10 years ago, that fit me, and I am a size 18-20 these days, not for lack of trying to shrink, but apparently I can't lose weight even if I starve so that's fun. I cannot fit into today's size 10 clothes, the concept is laughable.

Size 10 is not plump or, as they seem to call it these days 'mid-size.' It's just completely normal, IMO.

mamakoukla · 31/07/2022 13:47

BellePeppa · 31/07/2022 13:20

Back in the 70s/80s ten was the smallest adult dress size you could get. A few places stocked an 8 but not many and you would be super slim to have an 8. About 20 years ago I went on holiday to the US and was shocked to find clothes in 00, 0, and 2-6, I couldn’t work out how you could be and adult in those smaller sizes and still be alive?

The US has a different sizing system so what used to be a UK 10 was a US 6. Don’t know if their sizing has changed similar to the UK but there’s also a sizeable portion of ethnic backgrounds which are smaller sizes

Riddlemethisplz · 31/07/2022 13:48

Height and frame dependent totally.

im 5’3 and a small frame never been bigger than a large 10 and I’ve be relentlessly bullied about my weight my entire life. Since my 20s I’ve never been larger than an 8/10 (shop dependent) and A LOT of people in different walks of life have pointed out my weight/ size.

JosephineGH · 31/07/2022 13:48

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DirectionToPerfection · 31/07/2022 13:49

MissyCooperismyShero · 31/07/2022 13:43

Thing is though almost everybody at size 16 is big. They may be average UK size but UK people are too big.

I never said it wasn't, but claiming not to know anyone above a 10 is frankly ridiculous. That poster is trying to make out like a perfectly healthy size is fat.

20viona · 31/07/2022 13:49

I don't think a 10 is large but websites such as Vinted class a 12 as a large which isn't nice to read lol

constantias · 31/07/2022 13:51

If you are happy being larger, just be satisfied with that, and stop insulting people who are able to walk past a cake shop.

Really @JosephineGH

That's completely out of order.

pushions · 31/07/2022 13:51

If you are happy being larger, just be satisfied with that, and stop insulting people who are able to walk past a cake shop.

ignore the troll people!

3peassuit · 31/07/2022 13:51

In the seventies and eighties I was a size ten. 2 kids, the menopause and about 10/15 lbs heavier, I’m a size eight, apart from Zara where I’m anything from a six to a twelve.

ProseccoandPizza · 31/07/2022 13:51

Size 8-10 in ASOS, topshop, new look. XS in Nike/Ryderwear and H&M. I have some pieces from my late teens/early 20’s I still wear from Topshop and Miss Selfridge all size 12 from 2005-2007.

justasking111 · 31/07/2022 13:52

Today's size 10 was a 14 in the seventies.

BellePeppa · 31/07/2022 13:53

amylou8 · 31/07/2022 13:38

Clothing sizes have changed. I sell vintage clothes and what was a 14 in the 70s and 80s would now be 10. This is an 80s size 14 M&S skirt, to fit a 27 inch waist. A size 10 is now a 28 inch waist.

Crikey that really is a change. To me a 10 will always seem like the perfect size as that’s what I grew up with. God knows what I am now as I rarely buy new clothes but probably a 14 minimum.

JosephineGH · 31/07/2022 13:53

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DirectionToPerfection · 31/07/2022 13:55

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Who said I'm large? Why would you make that assumption?

I am a size 10, though to you that makes me a heifer.

I find your posts really unpleasant, claiming that perfectly normal and healthy sized women are fat.

JosephineGH · 31/07/2022 13:56

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pushions · 31/07/2022 13:57

why are you calling everyone who disagrees fat?

pushions · 31/07/2022 13:58

based on me being happy in my size

someone is happy with themselves doesn't tend to be so bitter...

greatblueheron · 31/07/2022 13:58

Pushmepullyou · 31/07/2022 11:04

Vanity sizing has completely changed what a size 10 is over the past 20 years. I was a size 10 at about 8st 4 in the mid 90s - I’m still a size 10 at 10st 2 now. I am definitely not the same size! I was slim, and I’m towards the top of a normal bmi now, but I’m I could visibly do with losing a stone

This.

SemperIdem · 31/07/2022 13:58

@JosephineGH

I think it is fair enough, if you are of a particular background and social circle, to view sizes differently to the wider population.

God knows there are enough threads on here about how wealthy women all seem to be very slim, under size 10 etc!

DirectionToPerfection · 31/07/2022 13:59

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I am not attacking your size, I'm attacking your horrible attitude towards other women.

You resort to insulting me and calling me fat when you know nothing about me.