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Seems like size 10 these days is considered 'large'?

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Echobelly · 31/07/2022 10:57

Caveat: Yes, I know actual clothes sizes are all over the place and not necessarily a guide to weight/shape.

I'm in my mid 40s and I'd swear when I was a kid, 10 was considered 'slim', yet it often seems to be talked about now as though it's the porky side.

I don't think that all that many women naturally fall into being a size 8 - I'd consider 10 a normal 'slim' size, I don't think anyone who is a size 10 would ever be medically overweight, even really short women like me.

Older people like me - do you think attitudes have changed? Younger women - have you grown up with 10 talked about as though it was an undesirable size to be?

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Foldingchair · 04/08/2022 15:56

Antarcticant · 04/08/2022 15:47

I've got an 80s 'Jackie' annual with a feature 'None of these girls is a perfect size 12'. It's about how to dress for your shape. The example of a girl who feels she is too thin is 'a very slim size 10'. The others are a very tall girl and a size 16. Obviously anecdotal but it suggests an attitude back then that a size 10 might have fewer curves than ideal.

And then the 90s hit and curves disappeared, becauseyou were meant to look like a waif. Unless you were in the lads' mag game, in which case you had to be skinny but also have big boobs. No wonder we were so confused.

jewishmum · 04/08/2022 15:58

I'm a 20-22 so double that, a 10 to me is thin, 8 is skinny thin, 12 is slim, 14 is slim but curvy. 16 is a little chubby. But I'm basing this off of being nearly 6 feet tall.

Sartre · 04/08/2022 16:39

Haha in what world is a size 10 ever ‘chubby’?? I’m 5 foot 7 and a size 10, I’m slim. If I was a size 8 which would probably never happen (I already run 20km a week and clock up 20-30k steps a day so I don’t think I’m getting much slimmer than this!) then I would honestly be super skinny at my height, Kate Moss style.

Average dress size for UK women is now a 16 so a 10 is definitely NOT chubby!

Adversity · 05/08/2022 09:07

www.womansworld.com/gallery/entertainment/bluebella-average-woman-in-1950s-vs-today-128174

Interesting article.

At the end it gave the statistics of actresses in the past and what size they were then and what that equates to today. Really it’s all about measuring yourself. I know I was 34, 24 34 in my teens and twenties. I signed a contract as a model so they actually measured you, I had a clause that meant I could not cut my hair without their permission.

I am mid fifties now, I would have to measure but there is no way I have a 24 inch waist post menopause and I’m still a size 10.

Kennykenkencat · 05/08/2022 09:12

Sartre · 04/08/2022 16:39

Haha in what world is a size 10 ever ‘chubby’?? I’m 5 foot 7 and a size 10, I’m slim. If I was a size 8 which would probably never happen (I already run 20km a week and clock up 20-30k steps a day so I don’t think I’m getting much slimmer than this!) then I would honestly be super skinny at my height, Kate Moss style.

Average dress size for UK women is now a 16 so a 10 is definitely NOT chubby!

When size 10 is more akin to what a size 14 used to be

If the average size of women is size 16 in the new sizing then really that means the average size is actually a size 20
Dd is a size 4 Any bigger and she wouldn’t fit in my olde size 8-10 clothing

CraftyClara · 05/08/2022 10:09

In the 1980s I weighed 10 1/2 stone and wore size 14 or 16. I’m now about 5 stone heavier and wear size 18. My size 10 daughter can’t get into a size 14 dress of mine from the 1980s.

LouisCatorze · 05/08/2022 10:37

@CraftyClara what you say is akin to what I reported previously about my size 6 DD and the gifted 80s frock (a 10/12) which is only slightly to big around the bust area. Fits perfectly elsewhere.

Hongkongsuey · 01/01/2023 20:52

I’m a size 10 and west size 10 clothes. But I’d never fit into the clothes I wore at 22-and guess what-I was a size 10 then too! So the clothes have definitely changed. Back then I was considered slim but my old clothes are tiny-possibly a modern size 6. My 23 year old daughter wears size 6 and she looks similar to me at the same age. Possibly that’s why a 10 is considered a bit more porky now.

TheWomanTheyCallJayne · 05/01/2023 23:31

Steelesauce · 31/07/2022 11:45

Sizes have got bigger but this thread has made me feel like crap.

Pre kids I was incredibly slim and struggled to fit into a size 10. Even with a BMI of 20. I am 5'8 and pear shaped.

Now about a stone heavier then pre-kids and easily fit into a 10 but was thinking I'm looking slim. Now I just think I'm bloody porky and should be a bloody size 14.

I think taller than average and those with features such as very wide hips shouldn’t read these types of threads as they always make us feel crap.
I’m 5ft 11, have a huge difference in my hip and waist measurements, am not overweight, but wear a size 14 to allow for hips and boobs. So they always make me feel rubbish too yet I know I’m ok. (Apart from being unable to find clothes)

Effieinamaisonette · 05/01/2023 23:59

I recently bought a vintage Jaeger skirt in size 8. I have to breathe in to fasten it (especially after post Christmas overindulgence) as it's 24 inch waist. I don't know if I'll slim down enough to keep it though.

That's probably a size 6 in equivalent sizing?

St, Michael is the same and I think is smaller the further back you go, so 1960s is smaller even than '80s.

Effieinamaisonette · 06/01/2023 00:01

I don't think people should feel bad. I think we're taller, and that sort of thing, compared to the past.

SemperIdem · 06/01/2023 00:08

We are bigger in every sense - taller, broader Because we are better nourished than our ancestors. I am a slim woman. Stand me, at 5’7, next to my 5’1 grandmother and I look like a shire horse next to a particularly dainty Falabella pony.

Standardised dress sizes are a very recent convention, less than 150 years old and we all know full well, as women, that sizes are not standard between shops.

It does nobody any good to fixate on clothes sizes or weight vs actual physical fitness and muscle tone. I can be the exact same weight and look wildly different if I’ve been exercising or not.

Lemonyfuckit · 06/01/2023 00:29

Definitely there's vanity sizing - I have a vintage leather skirt which used to be my mum's (from M&S! But from the late 70s I would guess) which is a size 12 and the waist is absolutely tiny. Sadly there's no way I can fit into it at the moment even though broadly speaking I'm a 12 in today's sizes (but short, and definitely overweight), but I keep it partly for posterity and partly in the hope I will fit into it again. I imagine it's about an 8 in today's sizing.

SoupDragon · 06/01/2023 08:03

Lemonyfuckit · 06/01/2023 00:29

Definitely there's vanity sizing - I have a vintage leather skirt which used to be my mum's (from M&S! But from the late 70s I would guess) which is a size 12 and the waist is absolutely tiny. Sadly there's no way I can fit into it at the moment even though broadly speaking I'm a 12 in today's sizes (but short, and definitely overweight), but I keep it partly for posterity and partly in the hope I will fit into it again. I imagine it's about an 8 in today's sizing.

Even clothes I have from 20-30 years ago are smaller than current sizing.

MardyDimSum · 06/01/2023 08:35

I am in my fifties and still own a few pieces of clothing I wore in my younger days. My statistics were 34 24 34 and my upper thighs were I think 21 I was a model when very young and my exact measurements were taken all over and I had a contract stipulating weight gain and what I was allowed to do with my hair. I was a size 10, the mini skirt I have from that time is a size 10, I weighed 8st 4lb. I am still a size 10 though it’s a bit snug and weigh about 9st 8lb. The last time I measured my waist it was 28 but that was a while ago.

What the clothing manufacturers have done is fool women. We have an obesity and diabetes epidemic. There was one overweight child at my high school in the 1980’s. Now I see so many kids her size and it’s all normalised. Whilst I do not agree with people being awful to overweight people I disagree with making out it is ok. So we have gone from a society where people were openly hostile to overweight people to saying it’s ok to be fat . Neither way is helpful or healthy.

JoshLymanIsHotterThanSam · 06/01/2023 08:41

FreyaStorm · 31/07/2022 11:07

Possibly due to vanity sizing? 25 years ago a 10 was approx a 26” waist. It’s now approx 30” inches.
I came across a pair of size 12 topshop hot pants I had as a young teen and in today’s sizing they would be a 6/8.
More recently I was a size 14 for about 10 years and in that time I gained 2.5 stone but my size didn’t change (because clothing companies have been increasing the measurements but not the label size).
I don’t know where it’s going to end!

I’m a size 10 and a 28inch waist so I think your sizing is a little off there.

Vanity sizing is a thing but not to the extent you are claiming.

In the 90’s I was a size 10, I’m a size 10 now (having been all the way up to an 18 in previous years). I’m probably about a stone heavier than I was back then. So I reckon if sizing hadn’t changed I’d be a 12.

underneaththeash · 06/01/2023 09:11

sdfsdipf9ue · 31/07/2022 11:12

That's pretty much exactly right IME. I buy quite a bit of stuff in charity/vintage shops, and a vintage M&S 16 is what I would say was a 10 now.

People keep posting this, but I can still fit into all my size 10 clothes from years ago. I'm a pretty standard 10 (5'4" and 9 stone, so my BMI is 21) and I've been that weight for about 11 years and intermittently for the years in between babies. I've still got a couple of skirts which are almost 20 years old and they fit fine.

Effieinamaisonette · 06/01/2023 10:24

People keep posting this, but I can still fit into all my size 10 clothes from years ago. I'm a pretty standard 10 (5'4" and 9 stone, so my BMI is 21) and I've been that weight for about 11 years and intermittently for the years in between babies. I've still got a couple of skirts which are almost 20 years old and they fit fine.

Further back than that. @underneaththeash

My vintage skirt is from the 1980s I think. Size 8 - 24 inch waist. I think that's more like a 6 now. An old thread showed the sizes of 1960s and earlier measured even smaller.

Effieinamaisonette · 06/01/2023 11:40

Going on from the 80s size 8, 24 inch waist skirt from the 80s. I also have a C & A vintage skirt from the 1970s which is a size 10 on the label but a 23 inch waist.

3peassuit · 06/01/2023 14:22

In my twenties and thirties, I was a size 10. 30 odd years later, 2 kids, the menopause and about 20 lbs extra, I’m an 8 apart from Zara where I’m anything from an 8 to a 14.

Solonge · 06/01/2023 15:37

Sizes have changed! I’m late 60s….I used to weigh just under 9 stone, had a 34 inch hip and that was a 12. I’m three stone heavier 🥲44 inch hip and size 16.. I’ve kept some of my old clothes from teenage…on average measurements are three sizes bigger than they used to be….ie…what was a 12 in the 60s is now an 8.

TheWomanTheyCallJayne · 06/01/2023 15:51

onlythreenow · 02/08/2022 00:43

@busymomtoone - I feel exactly the same. I am now wearing two sizes up from when in my early 20s, but I don't look that much bigger. According to some of the posts on this thread I should still be in size 12, but I'm not. I would say I have gone up two sizes, but according to some of these posts I have gone up around six - and I just don't believe that.

Similar for me
One thing I’ve realised though is that what size people claim to be means nothing really.
I have a friend who is quite a bit larger than me yet says she is (and does wear) a 14 the same as I do. The clothes just fit her differently.
I reckon I’m probably not actually that different in size to some of the size 10 wearers on here. But also a completely different size to others.
We need actual measurements. But even then it’s about how fitted you like to wear your clothing. I’m sticking with on the looser side as tighter clothes irritate me.

RampantIvy · 06/01/2023 16:10

I'm a 12/14 these days Sad and don't believe people who look larger than me when they say they are an 8/10. I look slimmer because I am not very blessed in the boob department Sad

Deathraystare · 06/01/2023 16:14

@jewishmum ·
I'm a 20-22 so double that, a 10 to me is thin,

Same here! Well a double 10!!!

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