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Ever met anyone who (you thought) pronounced their own name wrongly?

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ErmineAndPearls · 29/07/2022 15:29

Inspired by a few posts on the Secret Confessions thread. I once met a woman called Leigh. She insisted that everyone must call her “Lay”. Also, a whole family whose surname is Onions, but they pronounce it “O’Nyons”. Like, just own it or change the spelling. There are more.

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SundayTeatime · 29/07/2022 20:00

queenMab99 · 29/07/2022 19:56

Guy is a derivation of Guido, as in Fawkes, so Gui or gooey would be an acceptable way to pronounce it, I also know a French Guy, who pronounces it Gui.

No, you can’t get gooey out of Guido. It is nothing like it. It’s pronounced Gee-do. Hard G.
And that Guy/gooey story has been around for decades. My gran told me of that story years ago when I was a child, and I’m now 60.

HaveringWavering · 29/07/2022 20:04

Sewannoying · 29/07/2022 19:44

For those saying woof and roof rhyme (which they don’t in my mostly RP but northern tinged accent), I’m intrigued as to whether it’s woof or roof that you pronounce differently to me and most people I know.

Here’s how I pronounce woof.

I've found an excellent YouTube clip which begins with a Scottish lady saying "Woof Woof" . You need to catch the very start!

https://fb.watch/ezW5fNPgP3/]]

HaveringWavering · 29/07/2022 20:05

https://fb.watch/ezW5fNPgP3/

Wood Wood weddings

HaveringWavering · 29/07/2022 20:06

Aaargh autocorrect!

Woof! Woof!

I also don't know how to get the clip to appear online like the previous poster did!

GeriTheBerry · 29/07/2022 20:09

SundayTeatime · 29/07/2022 20:00

No, you can’t get gooey out of Guido. It is nothing like it. It’s pronounced Gee-do. Hard G.
And that Guy/gooey story has been around for decades. My gran told me of that story years ago when I was a child, and I’m now 60.

I think Italians say Gweedo, Spaniards say Geedo, or at least this is how my Italian and Spanish friends say it.

(I agree that but everyone can know a Gooey though. It’s just a good story.)

Beekeepersapprentice · 29/07/2022 20:12

I would say dan-ee-ELL.
To rhyme with Gabrielle

AMindNeedsBooks · 29/07/2022 20:12

barbrahunter · 29/07/2022 16:13

My mum's friend is Yvonne but calls herself EEV-on.

Any Yvonne I've ever met pronounces it that way too.

Sewannoying · 29/07/2022 20:12

HaveringWavering · 29/07/2022 20:05

https://fb.watch/ezW5fNPgP3/

Wood Wood weddings

Ah, thanks. So it’s more woo -f rather wuff, as I would say it.

HelloThereObiWan · 29/07/2022 20:13

Language evolves. It's like a living, growing beast, adapting and changing. The use of Alistair is a fine example of this. Perhaps 100 years ago this was incorrect, but now it's perfectly acceptable and anyone who claims otherwise needs their head checking. There are lots of words we use now where the meaning or pronunciation has changed over time, and I've got news for all the pedants out there: this is normal and OK. After all, lots of you would struggle to understand the speech of a medieval English peasant....

Sewannoying · 29/07/2022 20:13

Sewannoying · 29/07/2022 20:12

Ah, thanks. So it’s more woo -f rather wuff, as I would say it.

Rather than wuff

RossPoldarksWife · 29/07/2022 20:14

savehannah · 29/07/2022 17:21

I know it can be either but to me Sarah is "Seh-ra" and Sara is "Sah-ra"

My daughters a Sarah Pronounced Seh ra like fairer.
Sara is pronounced like Zara. The H on Sarah softens the name.
it bugs me when they call her Sara.

littlerayofsunshine0 · 29/07/2022 20:14

Friffle · 29/07/2022 16:43

Yep.

That's incorrect @Friffle I'm irish. Everyone I know over here myself included pronounces Niamh (Neeve)

FullBush · 29/07/2022 20:15

HaveringWavering · 29/07/2022 19:36

@FullBush (re Kirsten/Shashten)

"she isn’t remotely Scandinavian!"

Isn't this entire thread full of people who are berating others for not using the correct original source language pronunciation for their names?

Also, have you never just asked her why she uses that pronunciation?

Not felt comfortable asking her to be honest, she’s not very approachable.

Friffle · 29/07/2022 20:17

littlerayofsunshine0 · 29/07/2022 20:14

That's incorrect @Friffle I'm irish. Everyone I know over here myself included pronounces Niamh (Neeve)

You and everyone you know might pronounce it as neeve but that doesn't change the fact that there are two syllables in the name Niamh.

Do you also pronounce Brian as brine?

IrisVersicolor · 29/07/2022 20:17

SundayTeatime · 29/07/2022 20:00

No, you can’t get gooey out of Guido. It is nothing like it. It’s pronounced Gee-do. Hard G.
And that Guy/gooey story has been around for decades. My gran told me of that story years ago when I was a child, and I’m now 60.

Guido is an Italian name pronounced Gweedo.

Gweedo or Gwydo are possible English versions of the time as well as Gydo.

AndAnotherTwo · 29/07/2022 20:18

Greensleeves · 29/07/2022 15:36

Yes! I know someone called Toni. She pronounces it "Tonny", to rhyme with "bonny". I queried it when I first met her, and she said "yes, it's short for An- tonny -ah" Confused

😂

IrisVersicolor · 29/07/2022 20:19

Meant to say - it’s Spanish that pronounces it Geedo.

surreygirl1987 · 29/07/2022 20:19

I knew someone called Ciara who pronounced it Kee-ar-a. I was sure in my little head it was Keera.

Oh no!! Is that how you say Clara?! I used to teach a girl called Ciara and I said it like kee-ar-a 🙈 She never corrected me though...

umberellaonesie · 29/07/2022 20:20

CharlieAndTooManyCharacters · 29/07/2022 18:57

The pronunciation is generally determined by their parents though.

it wouldn’t be DS’s fault if I’d called him Caleb and pronounced it Cah-leeb. But he would have a lifetime of telling people that it’s not cay-leb but cah-leeb. It would be my fault entirely for being an idiot about his name.

Yet in my experience people repeatedly would call Caleb (cay- leb) cah - leeb ?!?!?!?!😳

Intemperatefatty · 29/07/2022 20:20

Leila is the Persian and Arabic version of Layla and should be pronounced as Lay-la.

DH is part Persian, it pisses him off immensely whenever anyone tries to ‘correct’ DD2’s name to Lee-la. It’s so disrespectful!

CharlieAndTooManyCharacters · 29/07/2022 20:23

umberellaonesie · 29/07/2022 20:20

Yet in my experience people repeatedly would call Caleb (cay- leb) cah - leeb ?!?!?!?!😳

Maybe in some places. Probably not if you’re growing up in Dundee though.

If I moved to America, I’d have to accept the standard pronunciation there of my name is different to the uk pronunciation. But it would have been stupid for my parents to name me and insist on the pronunciation no one around me would use growing up.

QuebecBagnet · 29/07/2022 20:25

Siepie · 29/07/2022 18:01

Surely Peppa and Pepper are pronounced the same in non-rhotic accents, i.e. most people in England?

I’d pronounce them both the same, I don’t understand how they could be different.

Friffle · 29/07/2022 20:28

QuebecBagnet · 29/07/2022 20:25

I’d pronounce them both the same, I don’t understand how they could be different.

People with rhotic accents pronounce their Rs

I would pronounce pepper as pep-urr with an audible R sound. So not the same as peppa.

FlippinOmicron · 29/07/2022 20:30

@MumOf21 How did she pronounce O'nions ?
Oh neons ?

PriamFarrl · 29/07/2022 20:30

HaveringWavering · 29/07/2022 19:52

That clip is an American accent.

That is how I would say it. Southern English accent.

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